Are We Building Relationships Or Just Negotiating Terms

Some people are fearless on social media and mysteriously silent in real life. We start there, because that fake tough energy bleeds into everything: how we argue, how we date, and how we dodge consequences when the screen is gone. From cruise ship chaos and hantavirus headlines to the very real question of “what risk is worth it,” we keep it blunt and practical, not paranoid. 

Then we jump into a culture fight that refuses to die: comedy, free speech, and accountability. The Kevin Hart roast discussion and the backlash over a George Floyd joke turns into a real debate about context, power, and why certain punchlines don’t feel like “just jokes” to everyone watching. We also react to a viral Trump clip and talk politics the way regular people do when bills are high and the world still feels unstable, including what gets prioritized when fear and money collide. 

Dating doesn’t escape the pressure either. We break down “dateflation,” rising date costs, and how social media warps expectations into a performance. And if you’ve ever argued about cheating, 50-50 relationships, gender roles, body counts, or opposite-sex best friends, this is where we go all the way in. The wildest moment might be the moral test: would you sign an NDA for $2 million if a wealthy stranger wants your spouse for three days, especially when life is falling apart financially? 

If you like unfiltered relationship advice, modern dating talk, and real-time news commentary with a lot of honesty, press play. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs to hear it, leave a review, and tell us: where do you draw the line on jokes, loyalty, and money?

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No Advisory Roll Call And Vibes

SPEAKER_15 0:00

Welcome to No Advisory. We are real, raw, unfiltered, and we really don't give a beep what you think about what we have to say. At the end of the day, this is our shit. So if you don't like it, go down to the comments and leave a comment, because we really don't give a fuck.

SPEAKER_05 0:30

Yay! Sean is born dangerous, Cruz No Busy Podcast. Your boys, your McLean.

SPEAKER_15 0:37

And it's the one and only Jasmine, like the motherfucking flower. And if you don't know, Nigga. And it's your girl Nola Des. What's up, freaks and geeks? It's your favorite motherfucking Aquarius, Lux rated.

SPEAKER_05 0:53

Sound tired. Ariola. Ariola.

SPEAKER_15 0:56

I think she is tired. I'm not tired. I just, you know, I ain't got a hype all the time.

SPEAKER_05 1:00

Different tone, different tone.

SPEAKER_15 1:02

Yeah, I'm trying to switch it up a little bit. Why the fuck y'all be worried about this?

SPEAKER_05 1:05

Different tone. Because we're worried about you if you don't. You gotta keep the same energy.

SPEAKER_15 1:09

Friends.

SPEAKER_05 1:10

Please say she had a week.

SPEAKER_15 1:12

She had a week. It's been a long, it's been a long week. Hey, never thanks.

SPEAKER_05 1:23

First day with the new band and new look, you know.

SPEAKER_15 1:26

First day back.

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Uh-huh.

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T Grizzly side.

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T Grizzly side.

SPEAKER_13 1:30

Shout out my man Second Thobie over there. Yes.

SPEAKER_16 1:34

Shout my man Kate Vigil. Yes.

SPEAKER_11 1:39

Shout out Sleepy.

SPEAKER_15 1:44

She got the uh ice spicy.

SPEAKER_11 1:46

She's not sleepy.

SPEAKER_15 1:46

She's not sleeping.

SPEAKER_11 1:49

Ice spicy.

SPEAKER_15 1:49

And she looks better than Ice Spice. Shout my man Lucy Black.

SPEAKER_13 1:57

Lucy Barbie.

SPEAKER_15 1:58

What's his first name?

SPEAKER_13 1:59

Lucid.

SPEAKER_15 1:59

Stanley Rick. That's what I thought. I don't think it's his like, okay, all right.

SPEAKER_13 2:03

Lucid bars. I'm shut up. Thank you, thank you. Shout out to uh studio audience.

SPEAKER_15 2:12

What's this? Listen, let me tell you something. It be crouchy in here. Crouchy. Hella floats, hella heads, hella breaths, arms, all that. No fade. And all that shit. Happy early birthday. I think we see all the plane.

SPEAKER_05 2:44

Okay, so make sure that. Yeah, y'all send me that letter.

SPEAKER_15 2:47

Somebody probably already got that one. Uh-huh. That's funny, I'm sure.

SPEAKER_05 2:51

Yeah, but you can send it anyway, so whoever gets it, you know what I'm saying? Happy birthday. Happy birthday on behalf of Norvisory.

SPEAKER_15 2:56

And happy.

SPEAKER_11 3:07

Nah, man. You already did it.

SPEAKER_05 3:09

Why are you gonna ask after the thing? This nigga.

SPEAKER_15 3:12

Happy button, some gentlemen. My surname is a little unique. Not everybody haven't. I don't think they can hear it. I don't think anyone has it. It's his name. That's a blessing. I love it. Names are so recycled nowadays. What do you mean? My mom ain't like it.

SPEAKER_05 3:31

Okay, there you go. I didn't hear that first.

SPEAKER_15 3:33

Just put it to your mouth.

SPEAKER_05 3:39

Acinelli. Classic.

SPEAKER_15 3:42

Did you see that um catalytic thing? Oh, sorry.

SPEAKER_05 3:44

Mm-mm. Who? Acanelli.

SPEAKER_15 3:46

Just put it in your mouth. Yeah, they just had the cat. You know how they be riding in the car with the interview? Oh. Oh.

SPEAKER_05 3:51

Yeah. I didn't know.

SPEAKER_15 3:52

High turn two.

SPEAKER_05 3:53

Belch breakdown. Wow.

SPEAKER_15 4:04

Who sang that song again? My cousin. Let him sing it. Shut the fuck up. Wow. I mean, the pitch was a little no. I'm not the singer in the family. I'm obviously. Shut the fuck up. All right, friend. I'm you right.

unknown 4:19

Alright.

Social Media Bark Versus Real Life

SPEAKER_15 4:20

We are back with the bounce breakdown where we talk about the drama, the news, and this fucked up world we live in. Fucked up. Alright, so my hot take of the week is I want to know why people get on social media or text people with all bark have all the time to go back and forth with someone or post anything on social media, but as soon as you see them, them bitches is crickets.

SPEAKER_14 4:40

And another thing, it's never about growth to me. It was late. It definitely was limbed.

SPEAKER_15 4:45

It was too late. Another thing is it's never about growth to me. It's about standing on business. So please, for those people that are all bark on social media and over the phone, either shut the fuck up or stand on business. Especially if you bark at the wrong person. I don't need you to stand on business when it comes to me. Keep you keep your ass at home. Do not stand on business when it comes to me. Please do not put me in a situation where I need to react. Please don't.

SPEAKER_05 5:15

I get the gunshots on point, right?

SPEAKER_15 5:17

Oh, we can say that.

SPEAKER_05 5:18

Gunshot.

SPEAKER_14 5:19

So yeah, I said what I said. Okay. Now let's get to the breakdown.

Hantavirus Fear And Cruise Ship Risk

SPEAKER_14 5:23

Have y'all seen this Hansa virus going around? No, y'all seen that motherfucker. So if you didn't know, the Hansa virus is not new.

SPEAKER_15 5:31

It's a rare but very serious virus that comes from rodents known as like mice, rats, and all that shit. Mainly through exposure to their urine, droppings, or saliva. So this virus was linked to the MV Honda's cruise ship. The cruise started in at Arc Argentina Argentina. Argentina. It was supposed to stop in Cape Verde. I said it right. Yeah. Okay. But rerouted and headed to Rotterdam, Netherlands for pool inspection. You said something wrong. Ain't no way. Something was pronounced wrong. Something was pronounced wrong. It ain't sounding right. I'm listening out to a different It started early May when a passenger on board started having symptoms, and investigators believed the virus likely spread through rodent and contamination and closed and enclosed spaces. After the outbreak was identified, 18 passengers were evacuated and placed in B B O containment units. BO containment units. Bio bio contain. Whoa! That's what you were trying to say this whole time, friend. That's what you were trying to say. I was trying to say it. Okay, I was trying to say it for I really wouldn't. I'm sorry. Another one. Containment units needed to be a good one. BO bio.

SPEAKER_04 7:01

We say BO's for bios now. Okay.

SPEAKER_15 7:04

Okay. You got it. I got it now. Okay. Bio containment units in the U.S. in Nebraska and Atlanta. Others were, we picturated. Damn.

SPEAKER_14 7:16

Y'all know I just been getting a shit online.

SPEAKER_17 7:18

Yeah, she was on the roll. She wasn't on the roll. Loud and wrong, but she's on the roll.

SPEAKER_15 7:24

Y'all know I'm horrible with pronouncing. It's okay. It's okay. Okay, so anyway, they're placed under strict select quarantine observation. There are 11 confirmed cases and three deaths reported. The risk to the public is very low. Human-to-human spread of this virus is rare, but it's being studied closely. And one question that I have been hearing is the in is the handtivirus more dangerous than COVID-19?

SPEAKER_12 7:52

What do y'all think?

SPEAKER_05 7:53

More dangerous. Well, no, if it's not uh human to human, if it's we don't know that yet.

SPEAKER_15 7:58

It's being studied. Damn. And it's been 11 cases so far. One person ended up catching it. Ten other motherfuckers started catching. I think that's the wrong question. The better question is why is it always a disease every five years? It is that.

SPEAKER_05 8:14

Right. It seems that way, right?

SPEAKER_15 8:16

This one didn't succeed. Whatever they was planning to do, they they don't succeed it as fuck. It did, but maybe not enough. Mass population is real, and it's so many different forms. It is so many different forms. We will never really, really know.

SPEAKER_05 8:31

But it's two viruses though. It's the Hansa virus and it was another one. What's the one? Like simultaneously, yeah. They it's I I put it on my Facebook page. It's something else. And it both came um originated from cruise ships.

SPEAKER_15 8:45

You know, it's wild about cruises. I mean, how often have niggas been eating rodents? They've been eating rodents for a while. Now, why? No, but still, like, why all of a sudden now are rodents carrying it?

SPEAKER_05 8:59

Rot in it, wrote in it, rolled it in.

SPEAKER_15 9:00

And then on cruise ships, it just, you know.

SPEAKER_05 9:03

And that's the worst place because you can't go nowhere.

SPEAKER_15 9:06

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. You stuck the whole boat. And they don't really got no like medical services or nothing on there. I feel like they got like a a little box. They do got medical stuff.

SPEAKER_05 9:16

They got medical.

SPEAKER_15 9:18

Not the handle. I mean it's a good idea. Not the handle for serious disease. Yeah. The only people that's on the boat right now is um medical staff and the original staff people there, because they're getting the boat all the same. They probably the ones that brought the disease on there.

SPEAKER_05 9:33

Yeah, it's crazy. Listen, I I don't want us to deter anybody from getting on cruises.

SPEAKER_15 9:38

It's still been going on cruises.

SPEAKER_05 9:41

But, you know, if you go on there, it's at your own risk. That's it.

SPEAKER_15 9:44

You ain't gonna stop shit. I done live, listen, I'm what, 20? Damn, I was about to say 20-something years old. I'm 33 years old. I was born in the 90s, and we done lived through every disease, every blizzard, every hurricane, everything. If you live through a year, I'm good. We lived through Y2K. They said we everything. We lived through Y2. I remember that. Everybody was getting cans and doing it. I was waiting for that bitch. It was a lot. We done been through a lot. Like we traumatized little kids.

SPEAKER_05 10:15

I was waiting for Y2K. I was like, nigga, cut the computers off, nigga.

SPEAKER_15 10:20

Yes. Because we done seen so much shit.

SPEAKER_05 10:22

It's true.

unknown 10:23

Yeah, I know.

SPEAKER_15 10:24

All right, so another thing.

Kevin Hart Roast And Comedy Lines

SPEAKER_15 10:25

Did y'all watch the roast of Kevin Hart on Netflix? Absolutely.

SPEAKER_05 10:28

Yeah.

SPEAKER_15 10:31

I didn't want to.

SPEAKER_05 10:32

All right, let's talk about Shuttle Underwood. Yeah, my auntie. My auntie.

SPEAKER_15 10:36

Funny as hell. This nigga the whole night. Oh my god, she followed us.

SPEAKER_05 10:39

Yeah.

SPEAKER_15 10:40

I was hyped.

SPEAKER_05 10:42

She's sitting next to Kevin Hart, nigga. She follows us. That's the plug. That's the plug.

SPEAKER_15 10:48

All right, let's talk about when Tony Hinchcliffe made a joking, a joke referencing George Floyd. He said, The black community is so proud of you. Right now, George Floyd is looking up at us all laughing so hard that he can't. He's receiving a lot of backlash right now due to his joke. The brother of George Floyd, Terrence Floyd, spoke out and stated that Kevin Hart should have not stayed silent at that after that remark. And that while he was watching the clips of other jokes, he felt like it wasn't tasteful, it wasn't a tasteful hearing, and it was sad for the culture. Not only has Tony received backlash, but the comedian circle altogether has boundaries and race. It is now a split between defending free speech and comedy and calling for more accountability and what is considered acceptable humor. And as of right now, Netflix or Kevin Hart has issued a public response. Neither one of them? Neither. And I just want to know. No, yes, I do. I just want to know why being racist to each other bring us together? Why does it have to be that way? You know, we are literally going backwards, literally. Like it is literally a bad look for us, our ancestors and our ancestors. And we should not be okay with that at all. Like, why do we have to be racist to each other? The whole time I was watching that shit, I was literally straight faced. Black people are other racists. Shit was not funny at all. Black people are other racists. It's some shit that you just can't say. Some shit was funny, but some shit was not. It's a lot of shit that you can't say. And then bringing up George Ford when he had nothing to do with that rose when you would the whole roast is about Kevin Hart, and you bring up a whole nother nigga that's not even here. It was part of the joke. No, that's not part of the joke at all.

SPEAKER_05 12:26

Yeah, I mean it's I'm I'm I'm both ways on it, right? Because as a comedian, you should have the free speech and um it's a joke, right? So it's like people are up at arms about a joke. But on the other side of it, like you were saying, like, because of the severity of how he died and everything surrounding it, it was a real tense moment, especially, you know, for for our culture. Uh, and it was like coming from a white person.

SPEAKER_14 12:57

It just looked who was a black nigga then, you know.

SPEAKER_05 13:00

Yeah, and it was like that was a bit sensitive. Uh insensitive. I think insensitive, I'm sorry. He should have worded it a little bit differently, and it would have probably got by.

SPEAKER_15 13:12

The way he died, he wasn't breathe. And was begging for his life, but he couldn't breathe.

SPEAKER_14 13:18

So him saying that exact of how he died is very Yeah, just like how you got Drewski, right?

SPEAKER_05 13:25

And how Drewski, he's on the line. Like he's on the line when he does his comedic skits, right? And he does it masterfully. You know, I just think that again, from who it came from uh and the situation, how it affected our community, I think it was a bit insensitive in that part.

SPEAKER_15 13:44

Man, fuck that shit. It's comedi, it's comedy, it's comedians. Like, it's a joke. If you can't take the joke, walk your fat ass out. No, Shay, it doesn't matter. How often do black people talk about white people in their jokes? Yeah, we do. How often do black people talk about white people in their jokes? How often do black men talk about black women in their jokes and trans women in their jokes? It doesn't matter. We can't, we can't, we cannot be hypocrites. We cannot be hypocrites. Free speech can't be free speech, but it can't. It can't.

SPEAKER_13 14:21

Like I said, I'm on both sides of the fence with that.

SPEAKER_15 14:24

I get why you, I get why you and your feelings, and I get why people feel disrespected, but at the same time, it is what it is. I mean, it's gonna be division, but I definitely feel like it is a thin line. We have people who are gonna get offended by it, but if people laughed, then he did his job. And because we're talking about it right now, he did his job even more because it's still a topic of discussion. And I do, I have lived through comedy. I love comic comedy. Like, I don't give a fuck. If you say something funny, I'm going to laugh. It doesn't matter who it offends. Like, I love Matt Reif. He talks about any and everything. He doesn't really go into race, maybe not so much, but he's talked about the special needs community. He's talked about the LGBT community, and people are offended by these things, but the shit comes off so comical. And it's just like when you think of rap battles, they're putting it in a sense where you can understand it and they going at that person just like a joke would be. So you have to kind of understand where they are as comedians. And it is unfortunate as fuck that he said that on Netflix. Like, okay, some shit should be censored, but really should it? Because he did land his joke.

SPEAKER_05 15:33

Yeah. Like I said, I'm on both sides of the fence with it. I can see both. You know, people's POS. I'm not even sure.

SPEAKER_15 15:40

When they get her, I'm not defending her ass. I I listen, I don't, I don't even, I don't even give a fuck at this point. I would have laughed. Now I get why other people don't laugh, but I like dark humor. I like shit that other people might not find funny. And I really don't care if people don't find it funny and they think I'm fucked up for finding it funny. Let me be fucked up. I'm still gonna be cackling.

SPEAKER_05 16:03

Yeah. And again, there's a lot of people that are in agreement with you. You know, that's gonna be like, oh, it was a joke. You know what I'm saying? And some people gonna, on the other side, come like, well, look where it came from and how and so, you know, so I blame it. It's gonna be both sides of the fence with this.

SPEAKER_15 16:16

So it's I blame Will Smith. Ever since Will smacked the shit out of uh Chris, we just still comedy just been going down here. We're gonna we're gonna be overprotected over our people. It was even before that, because was the Dave Chappelle shit where he got attacked on stage right before it, or was it like like right next to it? That Dave Chappelle shit was crazy. The man was upset. He went and rushed the stage. Like I think it was like back to back-ish when that happened. But people are getting offended by these things. And it's like, I mean, Dave Letterman, like so many people have hit so much so below the belt, and we have laughed for years.

SPEAKER_05 16:48

So it's just And you know, another thing I think like I was gonna mention that, like, say if it was Dave Chappelle who said that, nobody would say anything.

SPEAKER_13 16:55

No, because he's black.

SPEAKER_05 16:56

I mean, not even because he's black. It's a style of comedic, um, the the way how Dave Chappelle does his comedy. He's always like controversial. This guy, I don't even hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. This guy, I don't even know this guy. You know, a lot of people don't even know who this guy is. I don't I never know who he was. So a lot of people is watched it and was looking at him like, who the fuck is this guy talking about George Floyd? You know what I mean? So that's that.

SPEAKER_15 17:19

Next, all right, so y'all, what is the comment? I'm curious on what the comments are seeing. We're so far away from you. They're not saying I'm on, I'm on TikTok. Okay, but it's just people coming

Trump Clip And National Priorities

SPEAKER_15 17:28

in.

SPEAKER_14 17:28

President Donald Trump does not stop, y'all. So that man is gonna keep showing us that he does not give a fuck.

SPEAKER_15 17:34

He's gonna keep showing us that y'all put the wrong motherfucker in office. So there's a viral clip of Donald Trump saying he is not focused on Americans' financial struggles when he's gonna Iran. Saying that the only thing that matters is making sure that Iran never gain never gains too much power or obtains nuclear weapons. It's crazy. As bad as crisis, inflation, inflation, and fears of larger war continue to stress everyday Americans, our president does not give a fuck.

SPEAKER_14 18:02

And all I'm gonna say is for the voters that voted for him, y'all voted for him, and y'all just keep missing these red plans that he is throwing at y'all, and y'all just looking stupid as fuck, and the whole world looking stupid as fuck because of Donald Trump is being stupid as fuck.

SPEAKER_15 18:19

I think Americans Americans are too fucking sensitive because let's be honest, if they drop a nuclear warhead over here and all of us are dead, who's gonna give a fuck about gas prices?

SPEAKER_04 18:30

We all be dead.

SPEAKER_15 18:31

We're all gonna be dead. So who's gonna give a fuck if they start bombing us? I didn't vote for him. I did not vote for him. I didn't vote for the Democrats either. I didn't vote for neither one of them fuckers. I'm just on the logic side. I get what he's saying. People don't like the way he presents his message because he says it ignorantly. But realistically, if I had to worry about gas prices and food prices in a country where we're currently safe and the impending threat that is threatening to wipe our whole country out, I don't know. I'm gonna be a little bit more worried about the threat than I am about a little bit of uncomfortability because realistically, I'd much rather be safe than have them fuckers over here anyway. So do what you need to do.

SPEAKER_05 19:23

And this is the thing, I mean, I always say this about Donald Trump. Like when he got elected the first time, and when I put, I remember I put it on my Facebook, I'm like, yo, Donald Trump ought to be the president. I wish I'm gonna go back and find that post.

SPEAKER_17 19:34

But when people say, Oh, you stupid, hey, don't say that stupid shit.

SPEAKER_05 19:37

And then what happened when we came to president? Donald Trump is has no political bones in his body. He don't give a fuck about Democrat, Republican. He even said it when he was running, I mean, a long time ago. If I'm gonna run, I'm gonna run for Republican.

SPEAKER_12 19:51

They quote unquote stupid.

SPEAKER_05 19:53

And they're gonna vote for me in. And what did they do? So Donald Trump got in there, he like this nigga done knocked down a whole part of the White House for some other shit. Like, what president does that? Donald Trump, because he doesn't give a fuck. He has no political bone in his body, he don't care, he says what he says. And a lot of people love him for that. They love it. Like, I love Donald Trump because he says what he says, he does what he does. Like if there was a button that came, he's like, yo, Donald Trump presses button to save this, that, or kill these Americans. If it's uh to him, he's gonna give a fuck about Americans, he's gonna press that fucking button. And because he's gonna do what he wanna do. That's just Donald Trump, and that's two we have a president. If it doesn't tell you anything, it tells you could be anything in his world that you wanna fucking be. Anything. You could be anything, you could be the president of the United States. It don't know no politics.

SPEAKER_15 20:38

That man's a whole problem. Yes, he is a criminal. Criminals could be presidents, though. Yes, and he's a criminal, and like the grab girls' pussies. This country has been ran by criminals for years, though. Let's not pretend like we don't understand what's

Dateflation And Modern Dating Costs

SPEAKER_15 20:52

going on.

SPEAKER_14 20:52

Anyways, y'all, according this is my last one, according to the Bank of Montreal's, they are saying that dating is now Montreal.

SPEAKER_12 21:01

Montreal?

SPEAKER_15 21:01

The Bank of Montreal.

SPEAKER_12 21:02

Montreal.

SPEAKER_15 21:03

That look like Montreal. Whatever.

SPEAKER_12 21:05

Okay, you got it.

SPEAKER_14 21:06

They are saying that dating is now more expensive than before. Dinner dates are now $200 and more, and that's up 12.5% from last year because gas prices are still high. Expectations for luxury experiences, like high food and high drinks, buying outfits, and people dating multiple people at once. Many people reportedly spent over $2,300 on dating last year.

SPEAKER_15 21:34

Definitely gets worse in bigger cities like New York.

SPEAKER_05 21:37

Wait, wait, hold on, stop. Everybody, you said they spent how much on dating last year?

SPEAKER_15 21:41

$2,300.

SPEAKER_05 21:43

This is in what span? I mean, and and like for the whole year?

SPEAKER_15 21:48

That's not a lot. That's not a lot. No, like not like people in total. Like one couple basically spent over two thousand three hundred. $2,300 on dating every year.

SPEAKER_02 22:02

Not one couple, one person, right?

SPEAKER_15 22:04

Mm-mm. So it's not just don't never know, friend.

SPEAKER_05 22:07

It's not like the So a couple spends $2,000 on dating a year.

SPEAKER_15 22:12

It's one person.

SPEAKER_05 22:12

That's still not a lot, though.

SPEAKER_02 22:14

You said they're dating multiple people, so it's one person.

SPEAKER_15 22:16

Over. Not the exact number.

SPEAKER_05 22:18

Over. I mean, that's still not I mean.

SPEAKER_15 22:20

I think it's one person. That's not a lot. I think it's one person. Especially if you go out a lot. Over 12 months, that's only $191 and some change. Yeah, that's not a lot. Dating ain't a lot.

SPEAKER_05 22:31

That's not a lot.

SPEAKER_15 22:32

If you split that into four months, hold on, I mean four weeks, how much is that a week? That's like $50 a week. I can do it. I can do it. I can do $50 a week.

SPEAKER_14 22:43

Nearly 47% of single Americans say dating is no longer financially worth it.

SPEAKER_15 22:48

The flaws is calling it dateflation because you are either cutting back on dates completely, choosing cheaper that vibes like coffee or walks, or going all out knowing it's hurt in their pocket.

SPEAKER_14 23:01

So do y'all think that dating is a sensitive?

SPEAKER_02 23:05

Nah. It depends on where you go. You can go to the park, have a picnic. Motherfuckers.

SPEAKER_05 23:13

It really depends on your partner.

SPEAKER_15 23:17

So don't date them. Don't date them. Go there right by yourself. Know your wage. Know your wage. Okay, if you can't afford them, stay the fuck away from them. Stay the fuck away from them. That's it.

SPEAKER_05 23:28

Yeah. I think because you know with social media, they everything is heightened on social media. So everybody that's be on social media thinks that's the norm. But outside of social media, girls, women be like, I don't do that shit. You can take me to, yeah, we good. You know what I'm saying? I just think that people are so entrusted in social media and that lifestyle that they think that's what happens in real life. No, social media is all gimmicks, it's all a show. That's what it is. It's entertainment. It's the new TV. Social media phones is the new TV, it's entertainment. That's not what happens in real life. Tell you, not what happens in real life.

SPEAKER_15 23:59

Thank you. Thank you all. You right. You ain't lying.

SPEAKER_14 24:02

That's it for me.

SPEAKER_15 24:04

What the violence spread Chud, bro.

Troll Behavior And Real Consequences

SPEAKER_02 24:13

Why ain't you talking about Chud?

SPEAKER_13 24:14

Chud, who's Chud?

SPEAKER_02 24:16

White boy just got shot saying nigga and all that.

SPEAKER_15 24:18

Oh, yeah, I did see that. He was on live channel. They said he just got out of jail, too. Wait, wait.

SPEAKER_02 24:22

He got shot. He was at the courthouse. Somebody he said. He shot himself, yeah.

SPEAKER_15 24:27

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 24:28

He shot himself before somebody a nigga. He shot him. He shot a nigga. Somebody and he also shot himself. They punched him in the face. He shot him. And then as he was shooting himself, he cheddar bobbed himself. Yeah, he chedd bobbed. Now he's locked up for attempted murder.

SPEAKER_15 24:44

But he's like a troll. He goes around calling niggas niggas to their face all the time. So it's just a matter of.

SPEAKER_02 24:49

Is it that little skinny dude? Nah, it's the white dude with the mustache and the cowboy hat.

SPEAKER_15 24:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 24:54

Oh.

SPEAKER_15 24:55

It was just a matter of. He must have a death wish.

SPEAKER_02 24:57

White girl came out said, I mean, black girl came out and said she was pegging him.

SPEAKER_15 25:00

Oh. What that got to do with him? Right. Niggas. Like, girls love.

SPEAKER_02 25:05

The white supremacist.

SPEAKER_15 25:06

Girls love to get online and be like, yep, I pegged it. Like, goddamn. Didn't nobody ask y'all that.

SPEAKER_05 25:13

Listen, I just rather these guys, I honestly, I'd rather them say it out loud than behind closed doors. Let me, I let me identify these motherfuckers. Because behind closed doors, a lot of these white people call us niggas. They be happy. Yeah, the fuck.

SPEAKER_17 25:27

You summoned the niggas. I thought you saw the nigga pagan.

SPEAKER_05 25:29

No, no, no, not pagan. Hell no. Hell no.

SPEAKER_14 25:32

I hear you say I'm gonna hit your ass.

SPEAKER_05 25:34

Huh?

SPEAKER_12 25:35

So keep that shit behind.

SPEAKER_05 25:37

No, I want to identify the people that, yeah, identify. Like the nigga that I don't know if you saw the clip. The dude was a battle rapper, and he was like, um, I know you're gonna say if I say nigga, boop, knock the nigga right the fuck out. Do that. I don't know which one, which battle rap it was. It was like, they wasn't like really popping like that. You know when them lower tier leagues and shit like that, but identifying. Like I want to see these motherfuckers come out so we can know, you know, fuck him up when he do that.

SPEAKER_07 26:04

All right.

Two Million Dollars Marriage Test

SPEAKER_05 26:11

So, y'all know my what would you do's are normally accounts that I've been through, accounts that somebody that I saw, or accounts that somebody told me. This one is from a movie that I saw last night. I was like, God damn, this sh I gotta use as what would he do? So what would you do? Turn that a little bit shit. This is deep. What would you do if you are, you know, you you're in a marriage, you've been married, don't matter how long you you've been married, you've been married. Um and you and your, you know, your significant other, you're very successful, but there comes a time in the marriage where one of you guys loses your job, right? So one of you guys loses your job and you go to your significant other and they have this big event, right? This is like their turning moment event where they do good, they get a big promotion, and they're set. So they do this big event, and it's like a lot of like people with money. A lot of people with money. So you at this event, you is like an auction, like you you uh like you are entertaining the sponsors so they could donate money to your causes and stuff like that. So what would you do if you at this event, you and your your your your wife at the event, or your husband, and um it was like a friendly wager, right? They say, hey, you know, take me out on a date, you know, my bidders, and then you know, the significant other says a thousand dollars, right? Just playing around because this is a thousand dollars. Oh, thank you, thank you. Then somebody says $100,000. Right? For your wife or your husband. Let's flip it. It's one hundred thousand dollars. You can't beat that. And this is one of the guys that is highly sought out as, yo, you gotta keen on this guy because he has a lot of money, right? $100,000. So after that, y'all go is a little bit elongated now. So y'all go, you have a little meeting with him because he uh wants to like have a one-on-one with the couple and him and talk some things over. So they go, they talk some things over, and he pretty much says, I'm gonna condense it a little bit. He pretty much says, Hey, I wanna take your significant other, be male or female, y'all can flip it how you want to flip it, and I wanna take them on a three-day, take them away for three days for our double the money. So two million dollars. Two million dollars, I'm gonna take your wife or your husband, however you want to spit it, away for three days. Stop right there. Well, oh, my bad, I missed one key component, one key component, I'm sorry. So I remember when I said that one of the guys lost a job. So the person, one of the male, female, their mother has cancer, right? And you know how cancer treatment are is a lot of money. So you lost a job, your mother has cancer, you're behind on on the house, you know, things is piling up. Yep, details matter. Details matter. So things are piling up. So you in a financial bind. So y'all make a decision, it comes like, hey, there's a contract, two million dollars. But both of y'all is there. And y'all gotta make a decision on, okay, it's two million dollars, and I will take your wife away for three days. What would you do? Would you sign the contract so you get the two million dollars? Or morally, would you say, no, I'm not gonna do it, and we just figure this out as a as a married couple? What would you do? What'd the contract say? The contract says, well, the contract says you can't talk about it. Can't tell nobody, can't tell nobody. You know, it's pretty much an NDA contract, but I'm taking the significant other away for for three days. Can you talk about it? For what?

SPEAKER_17 30:06

For what? Can you talk about it? Just taking them away.

SPEAKER_05 30:08

I'm just taking you away. Taking you away for three days. You know, and they could do like the the like and it's an NDA, so say any and nothing is off the table. So that they could fuck whatever. It's an NDA, they can't talk about it, nothing. All right? So what would you do? Would you sign that contract for two million dollars, knowing the financial situations that's going on, or would you figure it out with your significant other, knowing that mom's got cancer, gotta pay for this treatment, behind on the house, cars upside down, all this shit is piling up.

SPEAKER_15 30:47

They're not gonna kill them, is it?

SPEAKER_05 30:48

What would you do?

SPEAKER_15 30:50

I mean, if if I can guarantee that my significant other is going to come back and and with everybody part safe and sound, I'm gonna go ahead and sign. You know your ass is gonna sign. We just know the fuck you. You gonna sign? I'm I'm going to sign and I would expect my my partner to do the same thing. Let's take one for the team. Hopefully they're not ugly. And let's look, we gotta do what we gotta do for this city. You you fucked up, first of all, because at first you said it was $100,000. Then you went from $100,000 to $2 million. Yeah, because when you said, when you said, Yeah, when you said $2 million, I was like, oh, okay. $2 million sounds good for you know three days. You know, that's well, I don't even know how much that is a day, but that's the that's a good, good, but $200,000, hell nah.

SPEAKER_05 31:32

No, two million. Two million is acting is exactly. I'm signing a contract. Okay, I'm gonna read it though.

SPEAKER_15 31:37

I'm gonna read the contract. As long as it don't say nothing about them getting killed or harmed in any way.

SPEAKER_05 31:42

No, none of that is in the contract, it's just like a pretty much an NDA contract.

SPEAKER_15 31:46

I don't know. I think it depends on if we're happily married or not. Because if we already go through some shit, go on wrong shit. But if I don't know, if I'm super in love, like nah, nobody can't touch me. I I could I could pay for the um marital, you know, you know. I can pay for the therapy and all that afterwards. I don't know. I haven't been in love like that yet.

SPEAKER_05 32:06

So would you or would you not sign a, you're not gonna sign a contract? Somebody got it. What you gonna do, Jazz? Hold on, I need jazz yes.

SPEAKER_15 32:15

It really depends on how in love I am.

SPEAKER_05 32:16

Well, say you you you you in love. You're in love, but y'all right now y'all going through financial hardships. The significant other lost their job. So, you know, what you gonna do?

SPEAKER_15 32:28

I didn't have nothing to say, seven. God damn. The relationship. You ass boy. I don't know. Oh, whenever you fucking everybody do, Seven. I don't know. She's like, thank God. Stacy Dash? Oh you do. No, no.

SPEAKER_03 32:41

She gotta go. She gotta go? She got to go.

SPEAKER_15 32:44

So she can't sign shit. She just gotta go. She got to go with it.

SPEAKER_03 32:48

You gotta keep it real. Like, to be able to just have an opportunity to catch any type of money to do something like that. That'd just, you feel me? Like, that'll never happen in real life. Right. So if it happened, we taking it. You get what I'm saying? Like, I don't even know what we thinking.

SPEAKER_05 33:04

Like, right, just take the money. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 33:07

And it does matter, it do matter what we had in a relationship. I'm not doing that with somebody that I don't fuck with.

SPEAKER_15 33:12

How you gonna do it? What if she don't keep it real? And then it's like that was so funny. What if she don't keep it real? What if she go over there falling in love? Still be talking to the nigga when she comes back. Like, oh, I know this nigga endless amounts of money.

SPEAKER_03 33:24

Right, because I'm up an M now.

SPEAKER_15 33:26

You know what I'm saying? Oh, so we supposed to do 50-50. Why?

SPEAKER_03 33:29

If I'm doing all the work. I'm not really worried because because your mama needs your mama need help. You're right, you're right. So you just need what y'all have. I put in my, I let you do.

SPEAKER_15 33:37

Nah.

SPEAKER_03 33:38

I let you get this. You know what I'm saying? I was with you at the beginning. Okay. But I can't, I can't do this with somebody that I don't mess with. You know what I'm saying? They liable to kick you off.

SPEAKER_05 33:46

You feel me?

SPEAKER_03 33:47

They liable to go on that trip, man or woman, and not. You know what I'm saying? So you got to fuck with the person if y'all gonna agree to do this.

SPEAKER_05 33:53

I mean, y'all married, so.

SPEAKER_03 33:54

Even if you come back, not physical saying we we got the job done. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? Okay. We both paid. Yeah. Okay.

SPEAKER_05 34:01

So you gonna sign a car? Anybody else? Anybody else, Diamond? You wanna uh chime in, Lucy? You wanna chime in? What would you do? Get a mic the diamond.

SPEAKER_15 34:10

What would you do? The way you say now, huh?

SPEAKER_05 34:13

Mm-hmm. Yes.

SPEAKER_15 34:15

I could have been a thingo.

SPEAKER_05 34:17

So you know the scenario?

SPEAKER_14 34:19

Run it by me again.

SPEAKER_05 34:21

So a quick rundown. Pretty much, would you would you uh would you pimp would you pimp your uh significant other out for two million dollars? And you gotta sign an NDA contract. So whatever happens, you can't talk about it. You can't whatever happens there, you can't talk about it. After it's done, you can't talk about it, and you just can't say shit. And for two million dollars, would you uh sign a contract or would you work it out? And oh, the key thing is y'all got a lot of financial situations going on. The significant other lost their job, house back on payments, mom's got cancer, gotta pay for that, car upside down, all that shit. So a wealthy man says two million dollars, I'm gonna take your spouse away for three days, but you gotta sign his contract. Would you do it?

SPEAKER_14 35:07

Um, I'll probably say no. Oh, because I'm gonna think about those three days for the rest of my life. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 35:17

She's gonna say no. Lucid, what you gonna do?

SPEAKER_02 35:20

Think about it the rest of the day.

SPEAKER_15 35:22

Diamond needs to be our PR because she always gonna say. God damn, Diamond, we two million dollars.

SPEAKER_09 35:30

I don't know, man. That's a that's a tough one right there.

SPEAKER_05 35:34

Cause like, if you really ain't and and remember, y'all all y'all missing, remember y'all missing one key point. Y'all offered $100,000 just to like, you know, get a drink with your wife.

SPEAKER_09 35:49

Right.

SPEAKER_05 35:49

So he was already Or your nigga. Like, or your nigga. So he was already like, yo, I want that. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_09 35:55

Oh, so the offer for the hundred thousand was like off the drink. Yep, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 36:00

Introduction, but then we go for two million and take away for three days.

SPEAKER_09 36:04

Nah, you can get that, because we about to, I mean, I don't, yeah, shit, man.

SPEAKER_04 36:09

Think about that shit, right? Take the hundred and just like.

SPEAKER_09 36:11

Hey, wait, we take it. We taking, we taking the honey and shit like that, but like I feel like what what she said though, like, you know what I'm saying? If it do go for them three days, I don't know, I'm gonna think about it. But then I can also relate to what fam is talking about, saying, like, if it's someone I really, really fuck with, then I know because what I should feel is that the trust should be there that even in the in the non-disclosure, I know you won't even allow that type of, you know, work to go down. So we're gonna cash in, but anybody else would be like, they're gonna kick you out and be like, oh, I can take this ride and just it's a lick. You know what I mean? But there's there's all types of different discretions, but I think I think all in all to the hard base is just like, oh, if I if I really love this person, like I'm really, that's really gonna be on my mind. Like, it's gonna creep on me, even though this person say, you know what I'm saying, because trust is a thin line between love between love and hate. For real. So like I don't know, but it is very fucking tempting. But the other side of me, because you know what I'm saying, it's looser than this monster. Look, monster would have been like, yo, go ahead.

unknown 37:19

Thank you.

SPEAKER_09 37:20

Come back with the two. I need the one, and I'll see you because I know it's some shit that went down. I'm gone. Like, I got my one, I'm gonna mouth. So that's why, you know what I mean.

SPEAKER_02 37:32

So I feel like no 50-50. If a nigga, if a nigga giving you a million, if he gives you a hundred thousand this for a drink, and then he come out with a million, that nigga a billionaire. Them niggas spend money for no. So you know there's a movie about that, right?

SPEAKER_17 37:49

I done seen it in the movie.

SPEAKER_05 37:50

There's a movie, it's an old school movie. This came from a movie.

SPEAKER_09 37:53

I know the movie you're talking about.

SPEAKER_05 37:55

I'm gonna say the movie afterwards.

SPEAKER_09 37:56

And the chicks are, yeah, it's all you.

SPEAKER_02 37:59

Niggas, so niggas with that much money spend money for no reason reason. He ain't even gonna feel that. You know what I'm saying? So he probably just gonna be a gentleman. He probably just gonna try to make a fall in love. He ain't gonna like disrespect the. That's how I see it. So that's what happened.

SPEAKER_05 38:13

So obviously, they had to make a decision on whether or not they're they had to both be in unison to sign this piece of paper NDA. So he signed, it was something that was said, I can't remember the exact verb that was said, but she signed it happily, and he signed it distruntly. He was like, do it, right?

SPEAKER_15 38:34

She said I were making the right choice.

SPEAKER_05 38:36

Yeah, they're making the right choice. She was like, Yep, and he really didn't know. So they signed it. Boom. So they go, mind you, she went for the three days, came back, and you know, as a nigga, you go into all these motions, thinking, is she fucking? Hell no, where's my money at? Where's my money at? Knowing what the fuck is going on, right? Where's my money at? You know, then he got to deal with the stress of his uh mother and kids, all types of shit. So she comes back, right? Doesn't even acknowledge him, really. Like, you know, if you've been gone for three days, you will say, oh baby, we didn't, baby got the money, we out. She walked by the fucking walk by by him. Right? So that's that was red flag one. Right? Go roll by say, like, oh, okay, how'd it go? She was like, no, it's cool, nothing, you know, nothing to talk about. So you're like, all right, so next morning, right? She wakes up, cooks a nigga a whole bunch of breakfast and shit. Like she she happy, whatever. So he like, yo, what happened? She can't disclose it. Cause he's not the contract, can't say shit. Right? So he was like, yo, did you fuck him? She was like, and if I did what? And if I did what? Wait, is that gonna make you happy? If I said yes, I did fuck him, I did fuck, that's gonna make you happy. So you know, going through all that shit. So he's flipping, he don't know what the fuck is going on. So this is what happened. She ended up going with the nigga. She ended up with the millionaire nigga. They was uh, they went, they how how it ended was they was like in a coffee shop. So they was in the coffee shop, he was sitting down, whatever, and she had made a gesture to him which implied that they were separated. So he was sitting there, they was talking, like she's like, How's your mom's? He was like, Yeah, she alright, she doing good. Okay, cool. So she walks out the door, and that was three million. The millionaire nigga hugged her up, and he the millionaire nigga looks at him and like and walks off. So he took the snigger wife, she went for three days, got the two million, and then it doesn't say like, they never disclose where the money went. They got the money, they was in the bed, they was like, Yeah, baby, we got it, we got it, we got it. But it never really does, you know, showed how the movie was horrible, actually. The the production was like, but the message was dull. I gotta use that. You know what I mean? So he ended up taking a nigga wife, and I don't know if he had a job. They didn't really show if he got a job, or his mom's really saying none of that. But that was the moral of the story. Like he let his wife go.

SPEAKER_17 41:03

What's the name of the movie?

SPEAKER_15 41:05

Never come back.

SPEAKER_05 41:05

What's the name?

SPEAKER_15 41:06

Um Another Wife's Man.

SPEAKER_05 41:08

Another man's wife.

SPEAKER_15 41:09

Both of y'all, another wife's man.

SPEAKER_05 41:12

Both of y'all dyslexic is club. Another wife's man. Oh my god. Another man's wife.

SPEAKER_02 41:18

And this with we ain't gonna never find a movie. We ain't gonna never find that movie.

SPEAKER_12 41:22

I don't know what the fuck is called.

SPEAKER_05 41:24

Apparently, it's on peacock. It's on peacock. If y'all watch it, the production is horrible. Like, the way the camera was moving, it was horrible. But the message, I was like, that's crazy. Like, am I for two million? Would I let my wife go with a nigga that just offered her $100,000 just for a drink? So I know what his intentions are. Are now, but I would trust my wife so much because we so in love, you know, but sometimes shit hitting the fan, people's mental changes. Money changes a lot of people.

SPEAKER_02 41:56

Well, future saying I see that buddy make a bitch.

SPEAKER_15 42:00

He wanted something. He wanted something.

SPEAKER_02 42:02

Well, future say seven. Mm-hmm. I see that buddy making a bit of a big.

SPEAKER_05 42:08

My bad. I missed one key component. My bad. I missed this shit. You the worst storyteller. My bad. My bad.

SPEAKER_15 42:15

Oh my god, coming out, bro. My bad.

SPEAKER_05 42:18

So what happened was the nigga was drunk. Right? He was drunk and he went to his friend's house, and he told his friend that his wife went out and did what she did. Right? Yes. So the nigga went and blasted on social media. Boom, boom, boom, boom. So the so she lost her job because it was a conflict of interest, because that was one of their biggest donors, and you can't, you know, have the client messing with, you know. So she lost her job. Yeah, she lost her job. And um, what else what else happened? Did I miss something? I didn't miss something.

SPEAKER_14 42:56

They lost the money.

SPEAKER_05 42:56

Yeah, they lost the money. So they didn't get no $2 million because the NDA agreement was broke. So no money.

SPEAKER_15 43:03

Because he didn't forgot. They lost the money.

SPEAKER_05 43:05

Yeah, they lost the money.

SPEAKER_15 43:07

I said that shit. He didn't hear about it.

SPEAKER_05 43:09

Yeah, they lost the money. What the dude say down there? So no money, and then the millionaire nigga walked away with his wife.

SPEAKER_02 43:14

Yeah. How they lost the money though. He brought the contract. He told his friends. And it got out on social media. Oh fuck him. He's stupid as a motherfucker.

SPEAKER_05 43:25

So they lost the money.

SPEAKER_17 43:26

He dumb as hell. And then she really got the money though, because she wouldn't.

SPEAKER_05 43:30

She really still got the money because she with the millionaire. Yeah. Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_17 43:34

Yeah.

SPEAKER_12 43:35

Oh man.

SPEAKER_05 43:37

Yo, I was watching the movie. I was like, yo, you better call the hoes right now, nigga. You better call the hoes now, cause your wife is gone. Motherfucker would have had a page.

SPEAKER_15 43:46

She's gone. She's had a whole lingerie when she went over there for three days.

SPEAKER_05 43:51

Y'all gotta watch the movie. Y'all gotta watch the movie. Again, um, the the um another man's wife, that's the name of the movie, is on P C. I'm gonna tell y'all now. The production is hard to be about. Tay Diggs is in it. Great actors and actresses is in it, but whoever shot the movie was bad at the end of the shit when he on the show.

SPEAKER_11 44:13

Millionaire nigga.

SPEAKER_15 44:16

Tay Diggs was the millionaire? Okay. I thought he was the one who got his bitch took.

SPEAKER_05 44:19

Nah, he was the millionaire nigga.

SPEAKER_15 44:20

Nah, yeah, I know he always done some dirty shit.

SPEAKER_05 44:22

Yeah, he was a man. He left out a lot of key points because I gotta watch the movie. I ain't wanna make it long, but. He was backdoor. Malibu was one in. Yeah. All the time. He was a backdoor nigga. Yeah, man, he was black.

SPEAKER_02 44:35

He was a whole lot of black, old black casts.

SPEAKER_15 44:38

All right, y'all.

SPEAKER_02 44:38

Damn. Backdoor in the wood.

SPEAKER_15 44:41

Get y'all shit together. Get y'all panties on tight. Fucking we. I'ma talk my shit today. I was really going to talk about my week. And what I went through, but I said, fuck that.

SPEAKER_02 44:55

Fuck it.

SPEAKER_15 44:55

Y'all don't want to hear about that anyway.

SPEAKER_02 44:57

To that thing. To that thing, girl.

SPEAKER_15 44:59

Speak for yourselves. I always want to hear about it. Thank you, girl. That's my girlfriend, yep. Mm-hmm. Alright, y'all.

Men Versus Women Debate Gets Real

SPEAKER_15 45:08

What's up, freaks and geeks?

SPEAKER_00 45:10

Geeks and freaks.

SPEAKER_15 45:12

Right. If you don't know, my name is Lex Rated, and I am the people's champ because I say what everybody is thinking, and this is triggered. Triggered, niggas. So, um, I'm gonna be real. I'm sick of this men versus women shit. The saga has got to end. And it's not about picking sides because if we're being real, both sides are worn the fuck out. And both sides pick and choose when to stand on business and when to cop please. So tonight, this is a real conversation. We're gonna talk about cheating, double standards, money, attraction, friends of the opposite sex, and all the things of the things. So if you are getting a little bit uncomfortable right now, good. Because I'm not here to make anybody feel comfortable. I could give a fuck.

unknown 45:59

Okay.

SPEAKER_15 46:00

Let's start. That's shit. Do men and women actually want the same things? The question we always want the answer to, or are we making shit up depending on who we're dealing with at that time? Like, let's be real, real quick. Are we building relationships or are we just negotiating what we can get away with? So I said I was gonna talk about cheating. Let's talk about it. Because this is where a lot of people get quiet. Men cheat, and it's you know, it's what men do, right? Not black men. All men, black, white, Hispanic, black. They all started saying black men don't cheat, especially Africans.

SPEAKER_02 46:41

That's a real thing.

SPEAKER_15 46:42

And Jamaicans. Y'all, all men don't cheat. Not all men cheat. All men cheat. All the men that we want, they cheat cheat. But there are men out there who are very meaningful to their women. But they cheated once in their life. I've never cheated on a big day in my life. Never in my life. Yes. I know people who have been in a relationship. But anyway, whatever. I digress. Everything cheating. Women cheating is and it's, you know, that's what men do, but women cheat and it's what did he do to make her cheat? Yep.

SPEAKER_13 47:14

What did he do to make her cheat?

SPEAKER_15 47:15

Right. But let's be real. How many people have entertained somebody on the side? Kept a friend around just in case, or stayed after they mentally checked out of their relationship. Some options. You got a woman texting another man every day, venting, getting attention and money, building a connection, but it's not cheating because there's nothing physical happening. Or you got a man liking pictures and the DMs, keeping his options open, but it's harmless because he came home to you at night, right?

SPEAKER_12 47:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_15 47:50

So what are we really calling cheating? Is it physical? Is it emotional? Is it financial? Or it's just getting caught. Or is it just getting caught and keeping people in the pocket on the back end? Have you ever been been or seen somebody justify cheating in a way that actually made no sense?

SPEAKER_02 48:10

Every time. Women, every time. What's the word accountability? A couple times.

SPEAKER_15 48:20

Anyone else heard somebody make an excuse about cheating and it just didn't make no sense at all? All the time.

SPEAKER_12 48:25

Yeah.

SPEAKER_15 48:26

All the time.

SPEAKER_12 48:27

Absolutely.

SPEAKER_15 48:28

For real, for real, okay? So my favorite conversation and my least favorite conversation is the conversation about 50-50, right? Because this conversation is all over the place on both sides. Women say they want equality, but still expect a man to pay, to lead, to provide. Men say they want a partner, but still tie their value to money. Now they they might be doing this because that's what women want. But why work towards something if you don't want to keep doing it? It's performative. A man will spend will spend his last trying to impress a woman and then resents her for expecting that same treatment long term. And on the opposite side, a woman says she wants everything to be equal, but gets turned off if a man asks to split the bill. And she expects him to provide financially, but will be the first to spell I and D E P when Boosie comes on. A man says he wants a modern woman, a woman that isn't a gold digger and has her own money, but still expects traditional behavior when it benefits him. Like submitting to him and allowing him to uh express his masculinity when it comes to him leading. So let's be real. Is 50-50 even real? Or are we just picking roles when it's convenient or trending? What does 50-50 actually look like in real life? Not on social media. Are we talking about financially, emotionally, or physically? What does 50-50 really look like for y'all? For me, 50-50 is all the above. I don't give a fuck what social media is talking about. For me personally, I don't want a 50-50 relationship, but if I had to have a 50-50 relationship, I would want it to be physically, emotionally, financially, yes. Like if that's what we're gonna do, we're gonna do it all the way. Like you're gonna unbalance the weight out. You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_02 50:37

Like if 50-50 be if if I would pay for all the dates, I would pay the rent. You could pay like a cable bill, like some shit like that. That don't sound fine. That's not 50-50. Um look, this is my 50-50. You said what is my definition of 50-50. You right, you're right. Let me finish it. You said my definition. And if I ain't got it, you got it. Like if I ain't got it one month, I'm like, yo, I need that woob, you got it. No hesitation, no, no question, boo, woo, boop. Because I handle it all the time. So yeah, my my 50-50 is having a crutch. My bitch being my crutch.

SPEAKER_15 51:12

Go ahead, seven.

SPEAKER_02 51:13

Go ahead, seven.

SPEAKER_15 51:14

Well, but we ain't got time to be passing you a mic and shit. Okay. Oh god. You just want the mic. Did we catch him on camera? Did we catch him on camera, y'all?

SPEAKER_03 51:25

No, I think like, I think it ain't no. My fifty-fifty is just, I'm the nigga, I bring the man shit, and you the woman, you bring woman shit. However it look like, if you're a woman that gets money or not, however it look like, just do it the woman way. You get what I'm saying? Like, I'm gonna do all this shit the man way. You come with all the women's shit. I don't think it's like it's it's it should be like that, 50-50 for me personally.

SPEAKER_15 51:49

So what's the woman shit for you? Washing clothes and doing the dishes and cooking? I'm curious to know what's the woman's shit.

SPEAKER_03 51:57

What's crazy is I don't even know. I'm not a woman. Shambi no wrong. Keep keep keep showing me what that woman, you know what I'm saying? Keep showing me. I however it is, how you getting down, just know I'm coming with straight man shit. 100%. So come with straight man. I'm a lead.

SPEAKER_05 52:12

I'm a lead without you having to ask a teacher.

SPEAKER_03 52:15

I ain't too piggy.

SPEAKER_05 52:16

I'm a lead. I mean he's coming with a shorts and penis, nigga. Oh my god. Great question.

SPEAKER_03 52:22

We kind of can do most of the same shit. Well, that's a fact.

SPEAKER_02 52:26

I said little bow wow. You just don't know the way you move so fast across.

SPEAKER_15 52:30

What you as a woman wants, what you as a woman wants to do versus what I as a man can do. It's no gender roles. It's just you do what you want. Really am I? I do what I want, but we're gonna crack it to the table.

SPEAKER_03 52:41

How are we gonna gender roll who get money? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You can't. You can't make sense to me. You can't. You can't. You see me?

SPEAKER_15 52:48

All right. Next one, attraction. Because this one really pisses me off. Men are visual and hide emotions to show masculinity to attract women, but women are emotional and use the visual nature of a man to attract men. Cool, right?

SPEAKER_13 53:06

Okay.

SPEAKER_15 53:07

But both sides entertain people they don't even want. Women do this more, but men will do it for the chance of a quick smash, or even like even if they don't want the relationship, they're gonna entertain a bitch, right? It's all for attention. You got somebody texting back fast, showing interest, being consistent, and the other person already knows they're not serious. But it keeps they keep it going or love bombing somebody. People do that all the time, knowing that they have no interest in that person, saying everything they want to hear just to get what they want, whether it's sex from men or money or support from women for women, then they disappear. So now somebody's hurt. Not because they were lied to, but because nobody said clear boundaries from the start. So, question why do people entertain situations they already know they don't want?

SPEAKER_05 54:02

That's a good question.

SPEAKER_15 54:04

I'm trying to figure out just leave the goddamn relationship. Temporary satisfaction. Temporary satisfaction. Whether it's money, they're gonna entertain it because they want whatever it is that that man or woman can provide. Because men also um prey on women that have finances. Um, yeah. Yeah, it's a lot of men who I know that haven't had their own apartment until they was 25, 26, 27. We've been doing that since we've been 19, 20, 21. And I was like, you had the house hop through different women. When you out of a relationship, you going to the next girl because you ain't got nowhere to go. Mama don't want you, your sister said no nigga like that. So you gotta lay the pipe good as fuck so you can get to the next bitch's house. Like that's some real shit. Yeah, you're right.

SPEAKER_05 54:44

That's a real pipe me down shit. Facts.

SPEAKER_15 54:46

When I was a bum ass, you don't get raised a fan. Not when I was a bum ass. Seven got his hand up, y'all. Go ahead, Seven. Seven, that's cool.

SPEAKER_03 54:54

I think the phrase these niggas for everybody and these bitches for everybody, I had you running through a whole bunch of motherfuckers subconsciously, not even knowing. Cause that if that's how you view, you know what I'm saying? Like, are these motherfuckers for everybody? So you you not even, you personally always just want this one thing.

SPEAKER_12 55:13

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 55:14

You you running through that shit, not even knowing, like, six of these motherfuckers really like you. You get what I'm saying? So just putting it out there.

SPEAKER_05 55:22

I think the main thing is uh people just gotta be up front, you know, with with what they what they want, what their purpose is. Like, listen, man, I ain't got no job, you know what I mean? I got this good dick. Oh, you're talking about the shit. Are you you know, you want it, yes or no? No. You know, we're gonna take those someplace. Or be like, yo, I got money, I'm not really looking, I just need somebody to, you know, dare to cook and fucking shit. Are you with that? No. No. Okay. You know, we gotta be up front because there's gonna be a yes. Some girl gonna be like, you know what? Yeah, I'm with that. Fuck it. You know what I'm saying? You know, so you just gotta be up front with people. I think people just mask what they really want and they hide it in a relationship, and it gets too deep, and it's like they just can't feelings get involved, and they can't really get out, and they it's too late to say what the fuck you want to say now, because you already knee deep in it. Just say what you want to say what you your intent from the beginning. Yes or no. Yes, sir. That's it. Yes or no. You wanna just ask? Like, listen, I just want to fuck. All right, cool. All right, bye. That's it.

SPEAKER_15 56:24

You're not gonna say you know.

SPEAKER_12 56:26

You heard it, you know.

SPEAKER_15 56:27

Okay, so my friend over here said, for what? Because women like to build men up. A bum ass. Not everybody. Not everybody, because I ain't building no niggas up.

SPEAKER_16 56:38

Let her finish. She's talking real shit.

SPEAKER_02 56:39

I done built too many niggas talking real shit.

SPEAKER_15 56:41

I done built too many niggas up. I ain't building no niggas up.

SPEAKER_02 56:45

You like to build your niggas at one point.

SPEAKER_15 56:47

Women like to build, they're gonna be able to do it. They hate potential. They'll build a nigga hate that. And my friend said that the reason why women do this is because men that got their shit together can't be controlled. That's facts. That's not that got shit to say about that. That's facts. Go ahead. I think it's always levels because I'm the friend that said that, yeah. If you're somebody that's wait, no, seriously. If you're fucking with somebody that's unevolved, you're most likely gonna get all that you just mentioned. But if you're fucking with somebody that's more evolved and they're more healed, um, yeah, we're not even going for that. In the past, I'm a cancer, so I'm very nurturing. But now I have discernment. I'm not nurturing niggas with it's like you don't even got nothing. I'm not the infra potential. Me personally, I can't say that I am. So maybe I am part of the one, two percent, but it's not happening over here. And I feel like we're all getting too old to continuously do that. So you might have to do that.

SPEAKER_05 57:43

But that's based off experience. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_15 57:46

But then at the same time, it's just like not everybody is looking to build a nigga up. Like, y'all niggas be trying to build these bitches up to keep it real. Like, young as hell, you be like, oh, I can mold her into something. I bet you can. Uh-oh. Who else? Somebody else got something.

SPEAKER_02 58:01

You can't even mold bitches no more. They call it grooming now. You can't even mold.

SPEAKER_15 58:04

Oh, shit.

SPEAKER_02 58:04

Grooming. You can't even mold a bitch no more. Grooming. Right. Bitch gotta come together.

SPEAKER_14 58:09

Same concept, damn. Just to bounce off of what um My friend said. Yeah. Okay, that's right. What friend said. There we go.

SPEAKER_02 58:18

Bounce with me.

SPEAKER_14 58:19

Um, I feel like it's important for when it comes to a man, he needs to have his own program and he needs to know what he wants to do, even when he is dating. Because a lot of men leave it up to the women now. Like it's like, oh, what you want to do? Oh, I'm down for whatever you want to do. But it's like, if you want to lead and you want me to submit and you want me to do all of that, how you gonna do that? You don't even got no program for me to enter. There's nothing for me to follow. There's nothing for me to do there.

SPEAKER_05 58:48

But when you say a man is looking for a woman to like kind of pretty much make a decision, is that not because of the culture of the independent woman that we in now?

SPEAKER_14 58:59

Okay, but despite the culture, do you are you still not an independent man that can think for yourself who can make an own decision when it comes to an individual woman that you're looking to date? You're not dating every woman, you're dating that woman. She's dating you. So like y'all need to figure out what y'all want and then proceed. It's not about every everything else.

SPEAKER_05 59:18

That goes back to what I was stating. Yeah. Communication. Be up front. Yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_14 59:21

That's important.

SPEAKER_15 59:22

But both gotta be able to do that.

SPEAKER_13 59:24

That's it. That's true.

SPEAKER_15 59:25

All right, guys. So that leads right into the conversation. Uh huh. It's my I mean, it's always my topic today. That leads right into the purity conversation because this one is always wild. Men say they want a woman who's not too experienced. By that, they mean doesn't have a lot of bodies, right? But still expect her to be confident and know what she's doing. And in and want nine times out of ten for her to give up the coochie within a couple of weeks.

SPEAKER_04 59:54

This is iffy right here.

SPEAKER_15 59:55

They don't they don't want to work too hard for it, right? That doesn't even make sense because women on the opposite end, we say we want freedom, my body, my choice. We want to do what we want, but we'll be the first to call another woman out. Call her easy, a thought bot, nasty, trifling, everything under the sun. Yep, that's true. Judge her body count or tear her down in competition. So which one are we standing on? Do we want experience or do we want self-control? Because a woman would tear another woman down for not having sex control or self-control. Absolutely. But on the opposite end of the spectrum, a men expects or a man expects a woman to have control when it comes over her body count, but he also wants experience. He don't want nobody he got to teach in the bedroom. Watch porno because that's not realistic. I don't think you can shame one and expect the other. So my next question is do you think people actually believe what they say about body counts and sexual preferences when it comes to purity? Or do you think they're virtue signaling? And what I mean by virtue signaling is like acting out publicly a viewpoint or supporting a cause, primarily to show off one's good character rather than taking meaningful action. So it's pretty much that you are willing to criticize something that you don't actually stand by on the back end. That's what virtue signaling is. You putting it out there like uh Yeah, I I don't I don't agree with this, but on the back end, you're getting that back beat out. Exactly, friend. On a regular So again, I'm gonna ask, do y'all think people actually believe what they say about this? Do you think people actually I ain't got no comment? You think you think men really do want women with no experiences and no bodies?

SPEAKER_02 1:01:55

What'd he say? Seven. Seven. What he saying?

SPEAKER_15 1:01:57

Seven on the phone.

SPEAKER_01 1:01:58

I wouldn't care if you're surprised to you hit every man that I ever knew. See the I was way before me and you.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:13

Well, that goes back, that goes back to what uh Swish was circling about about grooming, right? So if she got no less body counts, then now you're gonna be a groomer, right? You're gonna be like, put your leg up right here. No, you can't do it like that. Put your butt up like this.

SPEAKER_02 1:02:29

Not necessarily, because it's some grown ass, it's some grown ass women ain't never got no It's some grown ass women that ain't never got no good dick before. They ain't never, you feel me, experience shit like that. So it ain't really got nothing to do with grooming. Some bitches ain't some bitches ain't been getting beat right.

SPEAKER_15 1:02:46

Experience doesn't have to be multiple partners or like a hoe. You could be experienced with your partner or two partners or three, however many many you had. It could be a low number, but y'all done it a lot and y'all worked on each other and y'all talked about what it is that you like and what you need. So experience comes in so many different ways.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:02

Like just you got experience, you a hoe. Just have one body. Just I don't want no. Just have one body. Yeah. Come have a virgin for a little bug.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:11

How many by just come with that book?

SPEAKER_17 1:03:14

How old is this person?

SPEAKER_05 1:03:15

Just have because you feel me. Just work out. Just have one body. Because a virgin is a whole different topic. Whole different topic. Just have one body.

SPEAKER_17 1:03:25

That's unrealistic.

SPEAKER_15 1:03:26

That's so unrealistic.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:27

I mean, this ain't the age.

SPEAKER_15 1:03:29

I mean, goddamn, one body, how many of you got to hear money?

SPEAKER_05 1:03:33

That's not a bad thing.

SPEAKER_15 1:03:34

How many of you got to earn one body?

SPEAKER_05 1:03:38

One body. One body.

SPEAKER_15 1:03:40

Can any of us raise and remember our first body?

SPEAKER_02 1:03:44

Yeah, hell yeah.

SPEAKER_15 1:03:45

Everybody remember.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:46

I was a 12th grade. I mean, I just graduated.

SPEAKER_15 1:03:50

At the high school. It's about eight of us in the end. Not everybody got their hand raised. That's all I'm looking for.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:55

Okay, I was talking about based off experience. Like, I mean, even though one body, that's not experience, but I'm just saying from personal experience, I don't want no virgin. Like, I'm on, I'm not doing no virgin.

SPEAKER_15 1:04:05

Okay, I get that. Is it the emotional part of it or just like not being patient enough to go through the crazy? Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:04:11

It's like trying to pop no cherries right now. Hold the tail trying to pop a cherry.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:17

Like in this day and age, if you find a virgin, like say if you find a 29, 30-year-old virgin, that's a rarity.

SPEAKER_15 1:04:25

I mean, maybe she was real pussy. When I let my baby daddy was a virgin. There's a lot of women that have liked women all their lives, but now they're like, I want something more traditional. I want to be with a man now.

SPEAKER_02 1:04:35

You find out right before you put it in.

SPEAKER_15 1:04:37

She be like, hey, five. That's rare. And she looks good as fuck.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:40

That's red pussy right there.

SPEAKER_15 1:04:41

So does that mean.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:42

They had dildos, though.

SPEAKER_15 1:04:43

So does that mean the same thing to men?

SPEAKER_05 1:04:46

Wait, wait, what?

SPEAKER_15 1:04:47

If a virgin man. A virgin man.

SPEAKER_02 1:04:50

You ain't gonna find no virgin niggas.

SPEAKER_15 1:04:52

Oh, well, no, me, my baby daddy.

SPEAKER_02 1:04:55

It's more virgin niggas than virgin niggas, I promise.

SPEAKER_15 1:04:57

I met my baby daddy, he was a virgin. A lot of these niggas make it. And that man was 25. Oh, all pooky.

SPEAKER_05 1:05:03

Oh, shit, bro.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:04

So all pooky. Yeah. 25 minutes. Shit. Neither is the pain or watch a bitch put a socks on. Okay, yeah.

SPEAKER_15 1:05:12

I gotta, I gotta eventually finish it out now. Come on now. So That's what she said. Right?

Opposite Sex Friends And Boundaries

SPEAKER_15 1:05:19

Friends with the opposite sex. Let's be honest. Can men and women really just be friends?

SPEAKER_06 1:05:24

No. Yeah.

SPEAKER_15 1:05:25

Or is somebody actually interested a little bit in the other one? And if a partner feels away, is it really insecurity or is it intuition? We all got a best friend. You talk every day, knows everything, acts like your partner, but you swear it's just a friendship. Meanwhile, your actual partner sees it clearly, but gets caught insecure. Women entertain a grown ass nigga can't have a best friend. Women entertain friendships and pretend like their friend isn't sexually attracted to them. And Men get dragged along in the friend zone for a chance that she changes her mind someday. So do you think people really don't know when a friend wants more? Or they do they just ignore it? They be knowing. If that is the case, they be knowing.

SPEAKER_02 1:06:17

Girls act more naive than anything, though.

SPEAKER_15 1:06:19

No, I do think that men can be so naive. But if you do sense any of that, like you know, you know.

SPEAKER_02 1:06:28

Every nigga who who got a girl who swears she got a homeboy or boy best friend and had that conversation with his girls and said, I don't give a fuck what you say. If he had the chance, he will fuck. If you presented the opportunity, he will fuck. All the time. Every nigga that had that conversation with a girl. And the girl be like, they ain't even like that.

SPEAKER_15 1:06:47

I got male friends and I call my brothers.

SPEAKER_05 1:06:50

But it's different for females though. It's different.

SPEAKER_15 1:06:54

Nah, well, it is. I I got okay, so I have gay male friends, and I know for a fact they would never gay. But literally every every straight friend They gay. You got it right. They gay. No, they don't watch. But see, what a lot of people get fucked up is that they feel like just because a gay a man is gay, that they're never going to want coochie. Gay men still like coochie. It's not a good thing. Not all of them.

SPEAKER_02 1:07:21

The niggas be talking, copper pleo. Nah.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:23

Yeah, I'll be like, I'll be funny. Unless they're curious. If a straight, if a nigga that's gay, gay, he ain't looking at no copy. I don't care if you're gay or not.

SPEAKER_15 1:07:33

But they need to have some coochie to realize that they was gay. I don't care if a nigga gay or not.

SPEAKER_02 1:07:38

I don't want a nigga feeling on my girl. I don't want you, I don't want my girl dancing on you in the club. I don't want you slapping that. I don't care if you're gay. You still a man. You feel me? Yeah. I'ma say that.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:47

And I'm gonna, I'm this is what I'm gonna say. I had this conversation with somebody. I'm like, yo, niggas is gonna cheat, right? And we're going in terms of me. I'm not letting you see that.

SPEAKER_15 1:07:56

Oh, you can't. You probably the first.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:58

Hold on, hold on. All my ex is commenting in the comments.

SPEAKER_15 1:08:01

We just found out this nigga was single last week. Oh, that nigga been single.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:07

But I'm just saying, in terms of what you were saying when you said, um, can like a nigga have a like a girl best friend, right? No, because a nigga gonna be a nigga at the end of the day. Say that that girl best friend came in some lingerie and you just you you a nigga, and she best be at that, come in the bag, come in the kitchen with lingerie or you looking at it like, damn.

SPEAKER_15 1:08:29

I'm not in lingerie.

SPEAKER_02 1:08:30

Yeah, if your best, if that's your best friend, she's not gonna do that.

SPEAKER_15 1:08:33

I'm just gonna do that if that's your best friend. In general, that's not that obviously you know she might have a little, that's not a friendship. No female, if it's a platonic thing, is gonna come around you with lingerie, bro. Okay, not even a t-shirt. Maybe some shorts and a t-shirt.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:49

Okay, forget that, right? Okay. If it was an opportunity for any nigga to fuck they BFF or they female friend, a nigga is gonna do it if the opportunity presents it.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:01

I mean, I ain't fucking none of my best friends.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:03

It's gonna do it.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:04

Swish, don't lie. I'm not Stoney, Kayla, Makaiah, Abete.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:09

Copy Stoney. So you wanna fuck Stoney if Stoney gave you the pussy? Nope. You gonna turn the pussy down?

SPEAKER_02 1:09:15

100%.

SPEAKER_15 1:09:16

I mean, I got friends that's gonna turn it down. I mean, it's a lot of male friends that 100%.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:21

Swish, I don't know.

SPEAKER_15 1:09:22

Don't fuck both like female friends. 100%.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:25

She's gonna turn it down, it'll turn it down.

SPEAKER_15 1:09:27

Don't do it, just my dog.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:29

See, look, I'm I'm gonna be real. I done fucked it up with homegirls in the past. You get trial and error with this shit. You feel me? Like, after a while, you just learn, like, yeah, like I done fucked it up with homegirls in the past. So it's like So you'll do it again. Nah, I wouldn't do it no more. Hell no. Yeah, I learned my lesson.

SPEAKER_15 1:09:47

Yeah, yeah. That's what he was saying to CEO. Right. Cause he's gonna do the shit to his female friends, and he got the chance. We need to limit the responses, okay? We just gonna get one or two responses because I need to finish it out. I'm gonna bring over my time. We need to take a break. Like King over here scrambling and shit.

SPEAKER_07 1:10:07

Oh shit.

SPEAKER_15 1:10:08

He over there acting like y'all, y'all long-winded as fuck. I did. I said we need to take a break. We need to get it out.

SPEAKER_14 1:10:18

From experience, I feel like it's been bad with men trying to be my friend because they always end up being attracted to me. And I recently had to cut off a best friend of mine for that. Because that's a boundary. And once you cross it, you can't come back. So it's like, it's strict with my friends too. Like, no. No. I'd just rather not have men as friends.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:41

As friends because I had to say that was just a nigga being a nigga. Yeah. At the end of the day. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:10:45

But what about when they try you and then you be like, you check them, and then they don't try you no more.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:51

Well, you should never try it in the first place. Well, let's just get let's just let's never try it in the first place.

SPEAKER_17 1:10:56

So they're gonna look at you and be like, yo, you haven't said what you do.

SPEAKER_15 1:11:03

Right, that's why I'm saying I mean you shoot your shot, and if you miss, you you know, you know, yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:11:09

In the back of your mind, you're always gonna know that nigga shot his shot.

SPEAKER_15 1:11:11

So don't even fucking any given moment you slip up that nigga on it. And then also, all of us are over 25 in here, right? Every single person in this room is over 25. Oh shit. Just in general, like if you're meeting somebody two years ago, that can't be your best friend tomorrow. These is friendships that I've had for years. So any of my male friends, we've been friends for over eight, nine, ten years. There's not no three-year friendship. This is my best friend, and he might like you in the background. No, let me.

SPEAKER_05 1:11:39

I guarantee you, Jazz.

SPEAKER_15 1:11:41

Oh my best.

SPEAKER_05 1:11:42

If you gave one of your GFs an opportunity, they're gonna smash, they're gonna try to smash. If you present an opportunity, I'm gonna wait for someone for anybody.

SPEAKER_15 1:11:56

I'm not, I'm not even gonna lie. Oh, because I got more male best friends than I have female best friends, and I guarantee you, like my partner can name them. Which ones would want to fuck. And it's been confirmed. I've already asked. Then it doesn't, it doesn't bother me because if I know up front that you want to fuck me, I know how to carry the relationship moving forward. It would never be a point in time where I'm gonna tempt you to cross that line. I'm gonna respect you, and I would hope you respect me. So we're gonna move on. Yes. Okay. Right. Because now here's where shit gets uncomfortable. Men get demonized for what they say about women and calling out their bullshit. But women say wild things about men all the time. And it's normalized. Men are trash. They ain't this, they ain't that. He's ugly, he's bald, he's fat, he can't dress, he got a bad haircut, he's broke, etc. He's a broke ass motherfucker. And it gets laughs. It gets the true or the clocking, all that shit. But the second a man generalizes a woman for bad weave, sloppy builds, uh, the BBLs, the stinky BBLs, ran through, or call him a bum, he's canceled. He hates black women. He's misogynistic, he's a clown, he's gay. So where's the balance? Because both sides are talking, but only one side gets checked. What's that sleeves? He's been left.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:19

I'm staying out of balance. I don't want to talk about that. Okay.

SPEAKER_15 1:13:21

So let's get real and talk about women for one second. I love y'all, but I'm gonna have to. We say we support each other, but that support is conditional, especially when it comes to men. Attention or competition. I spoke about this on Ladies' Night one time. A woman will hype you up publicly, then compare you privately, talk shit behind your back in a group chat, and call hoes a hoe when she's a hoe. Or move weird when the same man is involved. If uh the worst or most toxic and dangerous shit ever is if two women like the same man. Oh, that's the most dangerous situation in GM. I'm Charlotte females, boy. So I'm Charlotte females. They switch up completely in competitive spaces, but men don't do that shit.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:06

Nope.

SPEAKER_15 1:14:07

They will let their homeboy know when he looks dusty, not in no group chat.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:11

Yep.

SPEAKER_15 1:14:13

They will let their homeboy know when they're doing too much for some coochie. Yep.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:18

And we run trains and we run trains.

SPEAKER_15 1:14:21

They they they don't hide shit. They have those conversations up front, so there's no secret group chats. So, ladies, are we really united or are we just not united when it benefits us when we're going against men?

SPEAKER_05 1:14:35

Y'all niggas they run trains on chicks. I ain't never run on a train in my health.

SPEAKER_15 1:14:42

So I'ma I'm I'ma end it. I promise this is me landing my plane.

Accountability Over Team Loyalty

SPEAKER_15 1:14:46

At this point, I'm not even interested in the men versus women debate because it's not even a real conversation anymore. It's a cycle.

SPEAKER_17 1:14:53

It is.

SPEAKER_15 1:14:53

And it's been a cycle since we all grew up, and some of us had single mothers or single fathers in homes where our mothers talk shit about our dads, or our dads talk shit about our mothers, or shit. Neither one of them was there to give us a good example of what a good mother or a good father or a good man or a good woman was. And there's no explanation behind the criticism. There's no lesson to be learned from these examples. You just have that negative experience or negative example with no way to remedy it. So both sides are showing or throwing shots at this point. Both sides are defending their behavior, ignoring their contradictions. Men say one thing and do another. Women say one thing and do another, and instead of calling it out fairly, we protect our sides. She's living her best life, right? And getting an experience and enjoying her 20s. He's doing his thing, right? And attack the other, saying niggas ain't shit, or she belonged to the streets. So now it's not about truth, it's about loyalty to a narrative. And that's why nothing changes because nobody is holding anybody accountable. So before I close out this week's segment, I got one more question. Are we actually trying to understand each other, or are we just following the trends that are being set around us? But all my really close friends, I only have one female best friend. All my really close friends are men. I grew up around boys. So I've seen both sides of the spectrum being a woman and also getting, you know, one-on-one perspective from a man. I I see the fuck shit on both sides, and nobody is perfect on either side, man versus women. But see, that's why I'm tired of the debate, because we all ain't shit. So why it gotta be us versus y'all? Why is it always that as a default? I'm never gonna chime in and be like, yes, fuck men. Because as much as men get on my damn nerves, you bitches get on my nerves too.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:08

It ain't man versus woman, it's true.

SPEAKER_15 1:17:12

Are they worse? Men, men can't touch women. No. Can't touch them. We ain't shit. And we the bur the best part is is we know we ain't shit, but we ain't gonna let nobody know we ain't shit. And this ain't everybody. But I know I done did some fucked up shit, and I know it's probably only like one or two people that know the fucked up shit that I did, and I know if they ever bring it up, I'm gonna deny, deny, deny. And that's just I it's just me. But at the same time, I know a lot of women that I know their shit, and I'm hiding their secrets or holding their secrets from them. And that's just how it is, is loyalty. I'm sure there's men that do that too for their homeboys, but at the end of the day, we ride together when it's beneficial for us, but at the end of the day, we're both fucked up on both sides. So it can't be a you versus us type of thing. It has to be an accepting and change type of thing. Hold each other accountable when you see some fuck shit, call it out. Don't just let it keep happening because then it's gonna keep happening. Yeah. And that's it. Period. Period. All right, it was good. We didn't have an interview today, so it was nice to hear and listen to everybody's, you know, get into your brains a little bit. But we are back with words of belief.

Word Segment Thaumaturgy And More

SPEAKER_15 1:18:43

You guys already know this is the segment where we dress your vocabulary in silk, we give it some spice, and we make you the smartest at brunch. At brunch. You feel smarter already. I feel smarter already. What am I saying? So slight, um, not disclaimer, but yes, disclaimer. I am learning with you guys. Yes. All these words are not planted in my brain, okay? I do got a big ass brain, but I'm learning with you guys. I know why you said that. So I did want to state we got some troll out there. It always gonna be LLF, LLF, LLFy, whatever the fuck your name was. Um, so anyway, we did a French word a couple weeks ago, and the word was I pronounced it as nobless oblige. The word is pronounced no bless oblige. And I did want to come back and correct that. Because a bitch don't know no fucking French, but at the same time, your brand for the ball head, hoe. Bitch got on the wig today. All right. On to the business. They already know. Don't fuck with me. She said, because a bitch don't know no fucking French.

SPEAKER_06 1:19:49

Nah, the comments are always gonna comment.

SPEAKER_15 1:19:51

Oh, I already know. And Jasmine's gonna comment when it's time, bitch. I'm in the shadows until it's when it's in the time.

SPEAKER_10 1:19:56

I'll just love your life.

SPEAKER_02 1:19:57

That was funny.

SPEAKER_15 1:19:59

But okay, so the first word we're gonna go into today is thaumatory. Thaumaturgy.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:06

Thaumaturgy.

SPEAKER_15 1:20:07

Thaumaturgy. It's spelled T-H A U M-A-T-U-R-G-Y, and it's a noun.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:19

Pharmaturgy.

SPEAKER_15 1:20:19

Pharmaturgy. Pharmaturgy.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:22

Pharmaturgy.

SPEAKER_02 1:20:23

Dharmaturgy.

SPEAKER_15 1:20:23

Does anybody want to take any guesses before I go into what the root word was?

SPEAKER_02 1:20:28

Is that somebody who's really knowledgeable at medical work, but they failed their bar test or some shit like that?

SPEAKER_15 1:20:33

Good answer, friend. But a bar test is for lawyers, yeah. That's what it's about to say. Like that's shit for lawyers. You knew. You let it slide. All right, so this word is derived from the Greek word.

SPEAKER_04 1:20:47

That nigga said medical embarrassment.

SPEAKER_15 1:20:49

That was funny, because he said he heard trauma, but it's therma. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Thaumaturgy. But anyway, it's from the Greek word thauma meaning wonder or miracle. And ergon meaning work. It could be a type of release, but orgasm. Not in this, no, not in this aspect.

SPEAKER_05 1:21:11

Were pretty much work and miracle.

SPEAKER_15 1:21:14

Yeah, work and miracle. Greek word thauma meaning wonder or miracle, and ergon meaning work.

SPEAKER_02 1:21:20

Whenever um it's like a um it's like, say, like a Super Bowl or it's like a party you want to go to and you're not scheduled that day.

SPEAKER_15 1:21:31

You're not scheduled that day? So what happened? You could go?

SPEAKER_02 1:21:34

Yeah.

SPEAKER_15 1:21:35

It's a miracle that you're not working? Mm-hmm. Okay. Okay. It's a thumb job. I see where you're going, friend. I see what you're going to do. Um what about a person that works miracles, meaning they can like get shit done out of nowhere? Like that person that like you asked them for something and they can always, you know, just make it happen. Oh, that's really good, honestly. That's somewhere. We get somewhere. That's not it exactly.

SPEAKER_02 1:22:03

We're getting somewhere. Let's do that even. Let's do that even though we're not going to be able to do it.

SPEAKER_15 1:22:07

They're basically nowhere. I didn't get us anywhere. Y'all not get anything. It's a noun. Did I say it was a noun? You didn't say it was a noun. So basically, um Do you want to take a guess, Simon? A noun is the person, place, or thing, right? Yes. Or a miracle worker like a shaman or something.

SPEAKER_05 1:22:26

Yeah.

SPEAKER_12 1:22:27

Yeah.

SPEAKER_15 1:22:28

Yeah, pretty much it could be. So basically, um, this is basically the performance or creation of miracles or magic. So you would think like a supernatural act is thaumaturgy. That's me. Dharmaturgy. So I would say if anybody want to use it in the senses before I get into my conversation. I would say Oh my God. Here we go. Let him go.

SPEAKER_05 1:22:49

The usage of a woman's vagina. Wow, and thaumatory use.

SPEAKER_15 1:22:54

How did that? Dharmaturgy. Dharmaturgy. Say it right, please. Thaumaturgy. You better say it right because they're gonna get you in the comments.

SPEAKER_05 1:23:01

I mean, it is what it is. That shit is magic.

SPEAKER_15 1:23:05

I don't like no thaumaturgy. Miracle worker. Fuck good. Shit. What you what would you say, Lex? I'm a thaumaturgy. Because everything I do is magic. It's magic. Snaps. Thank you, thank you. Cue the music. I know, right? That would have been a good idea. All right. So anyway, I would say his barber performed pure thaumaturgy because there was no way his hairline should look that resurrected. Yeah, bitch. Bitches don't like a fucked up hairline. Hell no, I get that shit right. They don't like a widow's peak. The definition is the performance of supernatural acts.

SPEAKER_04 1:23:53

Damn, they're trying to say that barbers performed a supernatural act of ritual.

SPEAKER_15 1:24:00

That's what you said, Frank. That's not what you said. That's nowhere near what you said. Swish. Swiss. Nowhere near what you said.

SPEAKER_02 1:24:08

You can go send next one.

SPEAKER_15 1:24:10

All right. The next word we're going to go into today is Xenadocchio. Xenadocchio is spelled X E N O D O C H I A L. It's an adjective. And it's pronounced Xenodocchio.

SPEAKER_13 1:24:29

Xenodocchio. What was that? You got a mic? It's an adjective.

SPEAKER_15 1:24:36

It's an adjective, baby, yes.

SPEAKER_03 1:24:38

Is it a stage of euphoria?

SPEAKER_15 1:24:40

A stage of euphoria.

SPEAKER_12 1:24:43

Um is it like uh what's the root?

SPEAKER_15 1:24:50

The yeah, give me a root word.

SPEAKER_12 1:24:52

Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_15 1:24:54

The Greek root word comes from xenos, which translates to stranger or a guest, plus the word dokion, meaning receptacle for a place for receiving. Um fast food restaurant. Is it when is it kind of when like you have a one-night stand in in the corner or something? In the corner? In a one-night stand in the case. One night stand in the corner. Yeah. You did that before? Seeing a dopio. You had to do that before. Why do I had to have done that before? I'm trying to figure out what the adjective is. Don't put that on me. I've never had a one-night stand ever in my life. That's when you meet somebody that has a same date. No. You've never had a one-night standard. You gotta try it. I gotta try it. I did it by adding one night. Damn, have I had a one-night stand? I don't think I've ever had a one-night stand. I do remember one time I went into a bathroom and a girl, she was trying to kiss me while I was using the bathroom. She's like, I've never had that. I've never had that. I mean, I just get my number, call me next. She was trying to find it. I've been groped in the bathroom, but I've never had a try to kiss in the group. I've been groped in the bathroom. That's awesome. The club, too. Right. You said it's a vile adjective. Back to the word. It's an adjective. From the Greek word xenos, which translates to stranger or guest, and from the word dokion meaning receptacle for a place for receiving.

SPEAKER_03 1:26:22

I don't know. I got two answers.

SPEAKER_15 1:26:24

Okay, let's hear them from one.

SPEAKER_03 1:26:26

The first one is like, is it like a stranger making they making making you feel like they know you forever or some shit like that?

SPEAKER_15 1:26:33

Why are you someone the fucking smart? That's not it, but he's getting somewhere.

SPEAKER_03 1:26:40

Or or or the other one was like like a stranger, like I don't know, helping you like I don't know, some the strangers is the stranger did something good that you wouldn't expect it, like did something, it didn't go how you thought it would.

SPEAKER_15 1:26:55

Like that. Getting somewhere. Stranger danger. Does anybody else want to take any guesses on what the word may mean? Okay. All right. So the definition to this word is basically being friendly to strangers or guests or being very welcoming.

SPEAKER_05 1:27:17

Ah. What's the c was the word again? Xenodocchio. Xenodo. Xenodochio. Zenodocchio. Being welcoming.

SPEAKER_15 1:27:24

What was that? You was kind of right. I think you was kinda right. You was getting there.

SPEAKER_05 1:27:28

It was like 42%.

SPEAKER_15 1:27:29

Yeah, I would say I think I'm Xenodocchio. That even the bum at the gas station always leaves feeling emotionally supported. I'll really be talking to everybody. Like, oh my God, how did you get here? What's going on? Like, why are you asking for money? Like, got this. I got you, baby. Like, not me, but God got you. Whatever you're going through, you can get through it.

SPEAKER_04 1:27:51

Should have been a business.

SPEAKER_15 1:27:52

Oh, you saying, you saying that that's the type of person you are. You make friends with everybody. Yeah, I'm a doko. You know, you're seeing a dokio. I have one of those fa you know, I was shocked when somebody told me I had arrest them bitch face, because people are always talking to me. Like they always feel the need to tell me what's going on and and what they're going through. And you know what? Every time somebody talks to me, I pretend like I know them for real. Right. You know? I feel like that makes people feel a lot more alive. Yeah. Relaxed and appreciated. Yeah. So I think I'm Xenodo Xenodochio.

SPEAKER_05 1:28:26

Xenodochio, okay.

SPEAKER_15 1:28:27

Xenodocchio. All right. So the next word we're gonna get into today is malediction. Malediction is a noun.

SPEAKER_05 1:28:34

Malediction.

SPEAKER_15 1:28:36

Malediction is a noun. And it's a it comes from a Latin word. Malediction or male, meaning badly. Indecit, meaning to speak. Is it a picture of destiny? This is what you're saying. Malediction.

SPEAKER_05 1:29:03

Malediction.

SPEAKER_15 1:29:04

She said speaking badly. I was like, damn. I don't speak. I'm sorry. Malediction. What did you say?

SPEAKER_05 1:29:13

It's a noun.

SPEAKER_14 1:29:14

Angola too.

SPEAKER_05 1:29:15

That's what you said. That's what diamonds are.

SPEAKER_15 1:29:21

Okay. Malad malediction. And it means speaking badly. Um someone who badmails somebody. It's like negative.

SPEAKER_05 1:29:31

It's like malice or something.

SPEAKER_15 1:29:32

I would say like it's not an adjective. It's a noun.

SPEAKER_05 1:29:36

A noun. Like a evil being or some shit. It's like malediction. Mala.

SPEAKER_15 1:29:42

If it's an evil bail being, then it's Bell. No name dropping. Funny as hell. I don't even know who that is. You know A's. A Cell is an airfield.

SPEAKER_16 1:30:04

I don't know if they can hear me.

Studio Cypher And Final Moments

SPEAKER_16 1:30:07

I wasn't messed when you met me, bitch. You cleaned me up. Liz letter, no title. Let us see me stuck. Luditized is the still be trying to be love. Saw you for who you was, I done seen a look. Liter stuck in a tunnel, I'll be on focus. Still glide to the bushes with my eyes open. Get your verter from betrayal. All of my losses. Surely say you're sending when I've stand offers. But I got seven dead friends. I ain't about partner. Still trying to cope with survivors, girl boys, dry. Ain't got no portiers. She don't know that I'm grieving. I shut no emotion. Neither pussy till she cried just from rein shoulder. Tell her I love it. Just vibe, don't try to force it. Don't overtakin' let your mind read the record choices. Gotta listen to your heart, don't know the voice. Just to know the voice. I was inventing me and you clean me up. Yeah, let it know title, let the scene we stuck. Little ties, this is the I still be trying to leave with love. So for who you claws, like a seal and luck. Hey, that's their kind of skip. You pass me a butt, keep a blitz, and I'm back on vacin' me up one when I'm going every day. I'm tryna double up, looking backwards whenever I fucked up with Frank. Oh my help low, bro. Trapping down, and I'm trying to blame myself. Hope the exact guys that don't let them in the cell. Knock on vote till I get a splinter in my deal. You got the ball when it's mad and downs, mission for find that you went to seeing the ticket and they sittin' well. Inside of the fender through my dirty by myself. Can't have you stay free me, cause another nigga tell. Another nigga told. When that nigga bold, and you still fucking put him like you didn't know. Niggas don't try to own, not least the home. I still love you, girl, and I never leave you alone. Who's the mess? When you bet me clean me up. Please let a note title that you see me stuck. Through the type of yeah, I still be trying to be with love. I'm not seeing enough. We just dumped in a tunnel like beyond folks. Feel fine. So get your work from tail on the mild luck. But he's saying it's money on my stand up. You guys love that.

SPEAKER_06 1:32:03

Uh-huh. Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_08 1:32:05

Uh-huh. Sick glass, no safety. I'm a freak with the beam on the fucking chase. Take the festival dick lost the cornerwork. Other niggas fit me. I fit like solar bark. And the camera catch the walk bar. Hit you with the can into your body for baby for it. Lessons to be learned. Range your bacon board. Sir Lord. Crying niggas sleep. Like late before. Stocks in the ocean. Never cat fit you real much. Cover the beat, sticking thought, soft for the tenderloin. Must talk dead gigs. Mummelin and make you want. That the boss have a talk. His spots flame a sauce, blame me going. Then we talk the bottom name slumped. Made the ball, even out the late drone. Smash me s nigga transform. Fellowship dark beating me. For the double you will kind of define warm. 365 rounded clock. Lock low. Lock low. Wait, do I say my daddy was a soldier? It's only ranked, I'll be militant. Your team ain't got enough. I was sugar scoop insulin. On the grind wolf and noise, freaking cup. Bitch to listen to first serve five with me. Rap a clutch went with it. Cup half empty, they be talking like simple tip. Style of your mind to get a touch, telephone list. I'll be yes, the shittin' on the trap. When I touch the penis, trying to make it quick hold over here. Snow white, no stem. So good. Fiends might try to still you throw lips. Ain't he got the hoodies up? Five ones, fresh tents, lean on them, fat choke. Cater with the code, swerve through S-blast, picking with the low tents. Game robbers trying to block my side, get your cloak simple. Two guns on my sides, stuff goes in. Talk small, we go sweep it like the food, no sis to go dump, but we keep gloves, no finger press the metal leg. But I'm never vapor with my fingers like rap. Pay mosey, we can emission. Sharp now, wrap the spine, wine spawner is a less stay sharp, both and get a cracking when it comes to this. Make with dime moves, I be swimming with the big fist. Two hands, ripping barrel, five, six, chop, sticks. Only works lightning. Monster my life. Bucky low, shit.

SPEAKER_07 1:34:08

Each and every third days. No problem with bombing. Hold up. Got the bar, nigga. What up? Look at him. He's just like a resident bar smith. What? He's a resident bar smith.

SPEAKER_06 1:34:30

Just here. He's not invited no more. He just here. Hits on the bike and down. Switch. I wore the red tonight. Switch, don't switch down.

SPEAKER_07 1:34:49

Say switch with the tool. If you ain't got no ball, you can come up here. No that knows it is massive boys. Self acclaim.

SPEAKER_15 1:35:05

Uh-huh. How do you turn the music on the fly?

SPEAKER_10 1:35:08

I didn't turn the music up.

SPEAKER_15 1:35:09

I'm playing it need to go down.

SPEAKER_10 1:35:15

It's got another day. Yes.