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Detroit Rapper Zaee Finds His Voice In Charlotte
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Spirit rap is the phrase that sticks with us after this one. Zay, a Detroit-born hip hop artist who’s called Charlotte home for the past 10 years, pulls up and breaks down how he writes from pure feeling and energy, not a gimmick. We talk about what Detroit is really like, what it means to be “vested” in a new city, and how your circle and your mindset can keep you steady even when the environment is rough.
Zay gets personal about a period of homelessness in Charlotte and why he kept his struggle quiet while still pushing forward. He connects that chapter to his consistency as an independent artist, the urgency that hit during COVID, and the way big moments like South by Southwest can open doors if you show up ready to network. We also get into studio habits, why atmosphere matters, how he approaches recording, and what makes a project like No Remorse feel meaningful when grief is part of the story.
Then we do what we do best and zoom out to life: simple date ideas without phones, airport mess tied to TSA staffing and delays, the USPS money problem in an online world, and a “what would you do” scenario that turns into a full debate about responsibility and common sense. We close with a deep segment on relationships, sexuality, and spiritual awakening, plus our “words of the week,” an honest talk on eggshell parents and respect, and a pods-and-bars freestyle run. If you’re into Charlotte hip hop, independent rap game lessons, and real talk that still makes you laugh, hit play, subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave us a review.
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Wild Intro And Roll Call
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SPEAKER_12Swish, you'll be proud.
SPEAKER_06He will. He will. You'll be proud of the Swish.
Meet Zay From Detroit
SPEAKER_12You'll be proud. We got a very special guest in the building. So listen, Zay man. You ain't no advisory podcast, man. If you are not familiar with the show, we bring our motherfucking guests in simple way. We ask three simple motherfucking questions. Are you ready, my nigga? Absolutely.
SPEAKER_03So we're gonna ask you who you are, where you from, where you from, and what the fuck you do? Only dead homies.
SPEAKER_10I go by the name Zay. I don't hear my I do hip hop. I'm from originally from Detroit. And yeah, you know, I got fired. You know what I mean? I got them lyrics, I got them bars. That's what I do.
SPEAKER_12Detroit, what? Detroit Detroit and so is that story real with uh Papa Doc and then him? That shit like a real fucking story. Yeah.
SPEAKER_10Yeah, that's what they say.
SPEAKER_12Okay. Oh, see, he said that's what they say.
SPEAKER_10Everybody got their stories, though.
SPEAKER_03Allegedly, allegedly.
SPEAKER_10Okay.
SPEAKER_03So for those that don't know, what are we talking about? Eight miles? Yeah, but what he said, Papa Doc. Like, I ain't no. He just threw it up in there. He didn't say eight miles. I watched it mad times before, but he just threw it up and I was coming back to you. Is that one of the people that was rapping?
SPEAKER_10When you get a chance, just make sure you watch it again.
Detroit Reality And Moving To Charlotte
SPEAKER_01It's been a long time. Tell him.
SPEAKER_12Tell him. So growing up in Detroit, man, that's how long you been in Charlotte?
SPEAKER_10I've been in Charlotte for 10 years, bro.
SPEAKER_12Ten years, okay. So you vested now. So growing up in Detroit, man, like uh tell the people who don't know, like, what is Detroit like?
SPEAKER_10Detroit is nice, but it's a rough place too. You know what I mean? Like, I'm originally I'm originally from Detroit, but I was in the burbs, you know what I mean? For half my life, so I ain't gonna sit here and make fun about it. Yeah, you know what I mean? But I got family in the city, I be in the city a lot. Detroit rough, but it's really all who you know, you know what I mean? So if you study yourself and shit like that and you be cool with niggas, ain't nobody gonna really be on no funny shit. Unless you on some funny shit.
SPEAKER_15So you know just some of no other. You know some of no other.
SPEAKER_03Some of no other baddie. You don't know that's from baddie.
SPEAKER_11She probably don't know that bad.
SPEAKER_12If this nigga would say, yeah, some of the other people.
SPEAKER_10Hey, that's one thing I ain't gonna do is cap, bruh. So if I don't know, I don't know. But all respect, you feel me?
SPEAKER_03I'm weak. She's one of the baddies.
SPEAKER_10That's what's up. Shout out. Yes, trash. Baddie. Trash.
SPEAKER_03So tell us about your music. What would you say is your genre of music? Not just like rap, hip-hop like that. I mean, like, are you a storyteller?
SPEAKER_10I I'm more so like, I just tell my feelings, you know what I mean? So I call it, I say it, I say my brother is a spirit rap, you know what I mean? I bring that energy, so I just tell how I feel and what's going on around me and around my world, you know what I mean? Anything that people want to tell me, I can share their story or whatever. So I guess you can say a storyteller, but I'm more so uh I tell my feelings type shit.
SPEAKER_12Wait, hold on. You said I never heard that coin before. Spirit rap. I know I love that.
SPEAKER_10I'm an I'm an energy type dude, you know what I mean? Like I know you got people that's conscious rap. You feel me? I'm not, I mean, I guess I can say you can say I'm a more I'm a conscious rap, but I'm also in the field with shit. So I'm like more so real life, but I'm just an energy nigga. You know what I mean? So if I feel your energy, whatever I feel, I put it on a song. You can feel that through the song shit. That's that energy. If that shit talking to you, that's talking to your spirit. You know what I mean?
SPEAKER_12I like that. Spirit rap. Wow. I never heard that shit before.
SPEAKER_03We need to get that trademark. Yeah, you didn't show you. You heard it here first.
SPEAKER_10Hashtag spirit rap.
SPEAKER_03Spirit rap. You're gonna get paid from that. That's a good one. So I'm waiting. So, how long you been in Charlotte?
SPEAKER_10Ten years.
SPEAKER_03He said that earlier. Okay, mad questions around, so it's okay. I forget shit that as hell.
SPEAKER_00You can have this I do.
SPEAKER_03I really do. I really do.
SPEAKER_00I got too much in my memory. Go ahead and my mom. But would you collab with anybody in Charlotte? And who would I?
SPEAKER_10Absolutely. Uh man.
SPEAKER_00That you haven't collabed with already.
SPEAKER_10We talking about like local, we're talking about anybody. Charlotte. Charlotte, um, I fuck with Fetty P.
SPEAKER_12Shout out to Fetty P. His name getting me.
SPEAKER_10He's putting on for the city. I fuck with Hot Boy Shaq.
SPEAKER_12Shout out my man Shaq. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Him too.
SPEAKER_10I fuck with Hot Boy Shaq. Um I fuck with people that's all right. So this is RB artist named Chelsea Simone. She's pretty fire. She's Chelsea Simone. She's actually on my single that I just dropped called Down. So I recommend y'all listen to that shit. Fire. We're gonna play it. Okay, cool. So um, and then um my boy Carolina Breezy, he's nice.
SPEAKER_12Or Carolina Breezy, yeah.
SPEAKER_10My boy uh Blackworld, uh OG Black.
SPEAKER_11Oh, OG.
SPEAKER_10Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's my guy right there. Yeah, yeah. Shout out to OG Black. Shit, it's a lot, man. I I mean, shit. True. Shout out to my nigga Trueski. Yep. Shit, uh, my nigga Jay Breezy.
SPEAKER_12You were just on last night. That's my dog right there.
SPEAKER_10Shout out to him. And it's a lot, I'm I'm willing to work. You feel me? If if niggas is nice, we can come together and collaborate on something dope. Shit, I'm I'm down to do it. You know what I mean? So, really, a lot of niggas in Carolinas, we could work for real. If you're nice and you like that shit, holla. I mean, I'm a different type of breed, so I bring different type of flow and energy. I I'm versatile as fuck, so hashtag spirit rap. Hashtag spirit rap.
Homelessness, COVID, And Persistence
SPEAKER_03We've been listening, it's about to go up. So, how has Charlotte or living in Charlotte after coming from Detroit built your music or your type of music? How has the two different worlds kind of established your music?
SPEAKER_10When I was doing music in the city, I was trying to get my name up. Then I ended up moving to Charlotte and I was homeless. You know what I mean? So me and my uh my my son's mother got into it. Shout out to her, you know what I mean? She she hold it down as a mother, but we had shit, had differences, shit happens. Got out the house, in the streets, in the car. That shit really built up like my my music because I had to like like I said, it's my feelings. I didn't want to do this shit no more. I was done. But I guess when it comes down to like your energy and you keep pushing, you gotta just go for what you love. So COVID happened. Once COVID happened, shit. I was like, nah, I'm about to just do this shit. You never know, it's do or die. Yeah. Niggas could niggas dropping like flies when COVID happened, you know what I mean? So that shit would made me go back and take it so serious. And um, that's what built me up to, you know, do the music and shit.
SPEAKER_12Absolutely. I love that. Man, that's that's that's that's for like shit. I got a nigga at my JO now, like this nigga sleeping in the car, and you know, people go through shit, right? And then I'm sitting there and niggas is just going on a tangent, like talking about a nigga. I'm like, yo, y'all niggas better chill, chill, because y'all don't know what niggas be going through. You know what I'm saying? Y'all sitting there talking, and that shit could happen to you quicker.
SPEAKER_10A lot of people didn't even know I was, you know, sleeping in my car and shit. I mean, excuse me, the people that I told knew, but once I started telling people, they was like, damn, Zay for real. Because I try to keep myself up. Like, I was like, nah, fuck that. I can't look like I.
unknownAbsolutely.
SPEAKER_03Hell yeah. Hell no. You never let nobody know what your struggle is. Nah. Not because you're embarrassed of it, but because most people use that shit against you.
SPEAKER_10Yeah, and then if you go through it by yourself, I feel like you can make it out better. Yeah. Just telling somebody because you're sharing that shit with somebody. That's something that somebody knows. You feel me? They don't you don't know what type of shit they're gonna play with, whether they could play with it on a positive level for your energy or uh wish it down for, you know what I mean? So I always try to keep such shit to be out because I'll be excited.
SPEAKER_12I can't hear you though, sleeves.
unknownYou didn't even mind.
SPEAKER_12No, I can't hear you.
SPEAKER_10No, that happened to me too. That happened to me. Shit, man. What? All right, people. Do we have another mic for sleeves? Yeah, facts. Nah, that's 100 though.
SPEAKER_03He already said we ain't hear nothing you said though. But they didn't hear. We're just shaking our heads. I heard him already. We heard you, but they didn't hear you. Yeah, it was a real world.
SPEAKER_12I had to tell y'all niggas, nigga.
SPEAKER_03I'll just find it. When it's on the thing, I love niggas. Rest in peace to y'all's brain cells. Rest in peace to y'all brain ornaments. They just I'm excited. They're gonna be doing that.
SPEAKER_10Yeah. That's what they call it.
SPEAKER_00That's what they call it. We love nigga night.
SPEAKER_03So I fuck with this one piece shirt. I fuck with it heavy. Is that your favorite anime?
SPEAKER_10No.
SPEAKER_03What's your favorite anime?
SPEAKER_10Dragon Ball Z.
SPEAKER_06Um, no.
SPEAKER_10But look, yo, you wanna know some you wanna know some crazy shit though? I'm gonna I'm gonna keep it all the way a bent. I never watch One Piece.
SPEAKER_03Oh, you ain't shit.
unknownHang on.
SPEAKER_10I like the shirt shit. But I hear about One Piece and I hear, you know. That's crazy. It's like that. So I'm gonna have to get into it. You know what I mean? But no, Dragon Ball Z for sure. Demon Slayer.
SPEAKER_01I think you said that wrong. Demon Slayer? Okay.
SPEAKER_03I like Demon Slayer too. I haven't watched a full episode of Demon Space. I want to go see the new one that's in the theater right now.
SPEAKER_06It's low.
SPEAKER_10No, I I heard Demon Slayer was nice too.
SPEAKER_03Demon Slayer's good. It got a very great storyline. What's your necklace? Is that a dragon?
SPEAKER_10Yeah. So this is a spiritual pendant.
SPEAKER_03I was just by the Ashuary Spiritual.
SPEAKER_10This is uh, I got this shit made for me like years ago when I did a show. But um I don't know, I've been keeping this for a minute. This shit been doing stuff for me. I feel like for real, I'm not even gonna lie. You know what I'm saying? Like, this helps me with protection, this uh keeps my energy up, uh, away from bad spirits, you know what I mean? Uh prosperity, you know, just anything. Really, I feel like when it comes down like crystals or anything like that, I feel like it's really it's your belief. You know what I mean? You could take what you want to take with it on what what you get, you feel me? So I'm a beast, I'm a warrior, so this is what I take with me. You feel me? This this shit covers me. You know what I mean? Hashtag spirit rap. Hashtag once again spirit rap. Yes.
SPEAKER_03Like we gotta look that up. I'm gonna text the roof. Oh, we gotta look that up. And how we do that. Well I I have one more question when it comes to your music. If your younger self could look at what you're creating now as an artist, what's something that you think your younger self would be proud of?
SPEAKER_10Um that I'm persistent. I'm always consistent with this shit. Like, and yeah, you know, they say this is a longevity game, so I'm just proud of myself for continue to keep going, you feel me? And that's what I say to my that's what my younger self my younger self would say to my older self, like, yo, keep going. And I got kids, you feel me? I got a family now, so I think that's way better than anything now. So yeah. That makes sense.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, no, it makes perfect sense because I feel like a lot of people when we're younger, we have dreams and aspirations, and we never expect it to kind of follow through or come true. So staying consistent, you telling that to your older, so I fuck with that.
SPEAKER_10Stay consistent.
South By Southwest And Networking
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Okay, no, how was South by Southwest?
SPEAKER_10Oh, yeah, South by Southwest was uh it was a dope experience. I've been 10 years ago for just like to go and just you know see how it was. But when I went to perform and meet uh network and everything, that shit was fire. Yeah, like that shit was dope. You know, I'm at a I met a I met a couple people, so you know, shit. I hope they're watching this.
SPEAKER_01Tune in, y'all.
SPEAKER_12South by Southwest, like, because I was out there a couple of years ago, and it's crazy. That's why I first met Megan Estallion before she even blew up. Like, if you're an artist, like you you gotta make it at South by Southwest. Like, you gotta go, you gotta rub shoulders, you know. And it's getting better every year, too. Yeah, every year. Like, that's a place like every artist gotta go south by south. We gotta make your way out there. Yeah, I saw the baby made the name.
SPEAKER_03So, for those of us who don't know what you're talking about, what is South by Southwest?
SPEAKER_10South by Southwest is like uh, I guess you can say it's like a what, like a music convention. Like a music show. A music show. Big music conventions outside, and um man, you you you can run into any yo, I was tight. Me and my brother was tight, right? We were supposed to see Max B. Yo, I was so hurt. We was in the same fucking building as Max B at the remote house. Then I see that nigga. I was hurt. Damn. But you'll run across celebrities that you be like, that who the fuck?
SPEAKER_05That's who that was? Yeah.
SPEAKER_10Yep. I'm saying these celebrities be looking different, yo. Picture they look like, you be thinking these motherfuckers is either tall or something. You see them, them niggas short. Just reviv them motherfuckers.
SPEAKER_03I'm waiting. Photoshop can have us all look there.
SPEAKER_12When I went out there one time, I was in, because I was at the airlines, I was in first class, and then the nigga from um the roots was like sitting right next to me. And I didn't even know, like, because the nigga has his hood and shit on. So by the time I got off to the baggage claim, I'm like, oh, we shouldn't be flicking. Hey, you know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, south by southwest, awesome. Awesome. Who from Roots?
SPEAKER_03You talking about the actor from Roots?
SPEAKER_12No, one of the musicians.
SPEAKER_03I don't know the name. My mad, it went over my head. I'm so sorry.
SPEAKER_12Oh, she said the movie.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, because I was like, that's the only movie I know.
SPEAKER_12Right.
SPEAKER_00That's what I thought she was. Speaking of celebrities, what is your top who are your top three artists?
SPEAKER_10Me?
SPEAKER_03Period. I never heard nobody say that.
SPEAKER_10Nah, um I'm a Kendrick fan. You know, I like um recipes, Nipsey, Nipsey Hustle. That's that shit hurt my feelings, y'all. Yeah. And um my third artist. I got a lot of artists I fuck with too to be honest with you, but I might have to say like like Kanye West or J Jay Z.
SPEAKER_03You know what I mean? Like, you could have stopped at Kanye. You didn't understand. What's wrong with Kanye? No, I no, I don't think that I'm not sure. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. I got you. No, I ain't like trying to. I feel like I did, but you know, two times. She does multiple times.
SPEAKER_12Yeah, she's a listen. She's not wrong. She's not wrong. No whole slander on this show. None at all.
SPEAKER_03You can slander Pac, or no whole slander, and he's disrespectful. I am a grown woman. You the only nigga.
SPEAKER_10Man, I'm about to talk off that off the off the screen.
SPEAKER_12I don't fuck with Pac. No, no. I don't fuck with Pac. He's cool, but I don't fuck with that.
SPEAKER_06Oh my God.
SPEAKER_03Well, so you got your top, yeah, it is me. You got you just said your top three. Um and those are your top, like top three. So what's your bottom three? Who do you absolutely not fuck with? And you can't say sexy red.
SPEAKER_10I ain't got no uh I don't really I don't really, I don't know. I can't really say I got any artists that I don't fuck with, because everybody gotta do what they gotta do. Shit. They can eat off that shit, eat, but I don't know. I mean, I don't like Mumble Rap is is alright. It just depends on what you're saying. Like I I can't I don't know, no, I can't give you artists as far as like, you know what I mean, but I just could tell you that shit, the generation that's that's rapping now, I ain't liking it like that. You know what I mean? You got some that's nice, but you know, I don't I don't really have at least everybody doing their thing. You know what I'm saying?
No Remorse And Grief As Fuel
SPEAKER_03So that's a good idea. So I have a question. Um, out of all your projects, um, what do you feel is your favorite, but not just favorite, like which one was most meaningful to make and why?
SPEAKER_10Um, I say I say no remorse. Um because for one, like I got better with my lyrics and I got better with my writing, and also I had a pass in my sister, she passed and shit like that. So before that, yeah, it's all good. Before that, I mean uh when once that happened, I was like, shit, I I got like I said, I I keep pushing when it comes down to certain things, and this is the one that made me push more, and that's what really made me write that that tape, you know what I mean? Because for one, no remorse is like, you know, I it's it's it's no remorse. I don't give a fuck no more. You know what I mean? Like now it's it's it's really I'm I'm dedicated and taking this shit as far as I can. And ain't nobody gonna stop me. So, you know, that that inspired me as well. Is that the loss of my sister, shit that I went through, you know, that was my best mode. You feel me? Like, and if y'all haven't heard of it, when y'all get a chance, no remorse is out on all showing platforms.
Studio Process And Punching In
SPEAKER_12Hashtag spirit. Hashtag spirit, right? Right. So let me uh like what's your process? Every artist when they go into the studio, they have a process. Some artists like certain things that they gotta have in the studio. Like, right? So what is your process? What is one thing that you need to have in the studio to get you going when you in your recording mode?
SPEAKER_10I just really need a good atmosphere. You know, if that if that setting is right, and me and the engineer can can come together with some fire shit, you know what I mean? That can help me. I like to smoke, you know what I mean? So of course I need my marijuana.
SPEAKER_11And um Mary J.
SPEAKER_10Yeah. And then shit, really, just like I said, the atmosphere. I go in there, I'm already going in there anyway to work, so I kind of already preset that shit, you know what I mean? But to be in there and to have that stay in there, yeah, I just the atmosphere, you feel me? And then maybe motivation for my friends or whatever, if they there and shit like that. Most of the time I like to be by myself, you know what I mean? So yeah, so that that helps me being by myself in the studio um smoking, you know. I may look at some TV and shit, like it might inspire my okay, just to keep me going.
SPEAKER_03Just not one piece. Not yet.
SPEAKER_12You a punching rapper or you like uh let me go in there with my shit rapper?
SPEAKER_10Nah, I want to go in and do it. I punch in if you if I got to, I don't I I try not to though. I don't feel like I feel like punching in is not like to me don't feel natural enough. You know what I mean? Like when you punch in, like punch in, it's just like, oh, hold on, let me hear it. It's not gonna feel the same when you gotta punch in, you know what I mean? So I'll be like, fuck it, let me just do the whole thing over again. Yeah. It may make an engineer like, but hey bro, let me let me do this shit because it's gonna sound better, you know what I mean? Absolutely. I can't fuck with the punch in raps like that.
SPEAKER_00So what makes you different from other artists? Outside of the spirit raps. Yeah, outside of that.
SPEAKER_10I really just stated myself, you know what I mean? I I I I I know a lot of people, but I don't be around. You know what I mean? So I don't I guess I stand out because I'm really quiet, like for real. I won't say shit. You might even know I you might not even know I do music. I look like a damn security guard. So people ass nigga rap. You rap? Yeah, I do music. Yo, damn, you fire, bro. What the fuck I know? I mean they cut, so yeah, I don't really, yeah, that makes sense.
SPEAKER_03Well, I mean, that's a good answer. Cause I was gonna ask you, like, as far as a style of rap, which one, what what is one that you would like want to try? Because you mentioned mumble rapping and you don't like mumble rapping. What about like the other stuff?
SPEAKER_10Mumble rap to a certain extent. Like you, you you know how mumble rap is making you saying dumb shit, but some stuff, you know, that shit you be all right, yeah, he's saying something, but um, I don't know. Like, I I try anything, any type of versatile type rap, you know what I mean? That's what I'm saying. I challenge myself, you know what I mean.
SPEAKER_03So I like that answer because that's what I was getting to. Are you a versatile?
SPEAKER_10Yeah, yeah, definitely. I I like to challenge shit. I hear that beat and I'll be like, Can I do it? Maybe.
SPEAKER_00I don't know how you mean so you say your new song Down just came out. Um how did that concept come about?
SPEAKER_10So I'm a loyal person. And I feel like if motherfuckers is not that loyal, then don't be around. You know what I mean? Just be 100. You don't wanna fuck with me, don't fuck with me. You ain't got to. You know what I mean? And I'm not, it's no love lost. So what made me create that song is just realizing like shit, when you alone and shit like that, you see your back against the wall, you'll see how many people really there for you. So in my lyrics, I say that one of them is uh All of the cold nights I done slept through shit turned me a savage. You know what I mean? Because shit, I was homeless. I dealt with friends. Don't have friends. I dealt with loved ones. You know what I mean? Shit that happened. You know what I mean? It turned me into a different person. It turned me into a better person. But also made me more culture with certain shit. You know what I mean? So, you know, that's what made me create that song. But the the um chorus, Chelsea Simone did that, so shout out to her.
SPEAKER_12Chelsea Simone.
SPEAKER_10Yeah, yeah.
Independence, Labels, And Selling Out
SPEAKER_12Yeah, she is she's an incredible artist. Yeah, I like her. I fuck with Chelsea Simone. Hell yeah. Hell yeah. Now you you familiar with La Russell? Now I like La Russell. LaRussell, he's incredible. I think LaRussell uh like paved the new way for like how artists can go about doing a thing independently without a label. Right? So Well, how do you feel about one? How do you feel about that? And two, like if a major presented itself, depending on if it's the right deal, would you sign with a major or would you wanna stay like with the independent route?
SPEAKER_10Well, independence is always the best way I'd look at it. Because when you famous and shit like that, you got a machine under you regardless. Like, you're gonna have that machine on you. And you know, you know, I have some doors for you, so you gotta be really, really like tough. But I feel like I feel like independence is the best way to go. Cause you can really do your own shit, set your own shit up, it's your own money. You know what I mean? You ain't you ain't really gotta like like owe the label. Cause you when you owe the label, it's fucked. You know, you hear about this shit, like this fame shit ain't really the really ain't shit. You know what I mean? Especially signing with major labels. But if it comes with an opportunity that's good, oh yeah, yeah. I'm just not selling my soul, so just don't ask me that.
SPEAKER_12That's not enough. Three million dollars. You could go get that. Wait, wait, you don't have to do that. That is not enough.
SPEAKER_03Is it tax-free? I'm not selling my soul.
SPEAKER_12Let me finish it.
SPEAKER_15Go ahead, you write, you right. Finish it.
SPEAKER_12Three million and what? Since they said it's since they said it's too little. Say if a nigga say, I give you ten million dollars. Nope. I need V. Hold on, wait, wait. Huh? Okay, what's the number? What's the number y'all gonna fucking take? Which I took.
SPEAKER_14What's what what's selling your soul though? What you gotta do?
SPEAKER_12I didn't finish the question.
SPEAKER_14I was telling you.
SPEAKER_12Right. All right, all right. Say a nigga say I give you a hundred million dollars. Damn, he's saying up. He gotta sound accent. I mean, ain't no but and you have to go out and walk around uh with a G string on and South by Southwest.
SPEAKER_10But let me ask you this. I'm just saying, is there is it enough? What's enough money? Because I don't think it's enough money for your soul to be gone, right?
SPEAKER_12So 100 million, you say you ain't doing that shit for 100 million.
SPEAKER_10I could go make that if that's the case. I'll grind for it. I'm a hustler first, I that's not. Let's let's just start that off. I'm a hustler first, bro. You can't out, you ain't gonna out hustle me. I don't give a fuck how much money you got. If I can make my own bag, bro, I can make my own bag, bro.
SPEAKER_06You feel me?
SPEAKER_14Not taking it. A B. You can pay for that footage to get a race forever.
SPEAKER_10But my thing is, bro, is like it's all about you, bruh. Like, I know who the fuck I am. Who are you? You know what I mean? So it's like you gotta know what you if you gonna do it, you're gonna do it. That's on you. It's something that I don't want to do. That's not what I want to do. I'm not about to walk around no G-string for a billion dollars. I'm sorry. You know what I mean? If other people do it, hey, to each his own.
SPEAKER_06It ain't really that crazy.
SPEAKER_10That's not crazy. People do it for the crazy. That's not crazy. I used to wear tidy whiteys as a kid.
SPEAKER_14You know, like it's not crazy.
SPEAKER_10Talking about doing something for money, though. You feel me? Like, that's that's a different type of feeling towards you, bro, because when you do shit for money, a motherfucker got you. That's how I look at it. If I give you a billion dollars, shit, what else you gonna do? All right, cool. He's walking around on the G-string for a billion. Back, nigga. I got five billion dollars. Now I need you to entertain this whole fucking house. Now what? You feel me? When shit get real, real. You know, it's funny games when it sound good, right? Oh, yeah, that's a billion you feel going on G-string, but now what's the next thing you about to do?
SPEAKER_14In that billion.
SPEAKER_10Yeah, you know it's not just that's just one time, nigga. You gotta keep going.
SPEAKER_14You're talking about music in music industry wise, you gotta keep selling and selling out. That's a fact. That's a fact. You gotta keep selling out.
SPEAKER_12If you could uh build a perfect uh musician with five people.
SPEAKER_00This nigga said build.
SPEAKER_14That's a good question. Like AI shit. You know, he's tired of asking niggas they top five. He's trying to ask you a fair.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, you missed it.
SPEAKER_12For his favorite a perfect musician, five artists, and it could be any type of genre. Male, female, male, female, you're building a perfect musician.
SPEAKER_10All right, so different genres.
SPEAKER_03Different genres? What?
SPEAKER_11That's what you said. Building a perfect musician.
SPEAKER_03You know five different genres of music and five different artists from five different genres? Shit, you got to be a little bit more. This could be really serious. Come on, come on.
SPEAKER_14You're talking about collaboration, right?
SPEAKER_06No, no, like we build a building. From five different genres, what do you think with me?
SPEAKER_12As far as singing, dancing, look. Them ain't genres.
SPEAKER_01I said Tanea. Who the fuck is it Tanea? Tanea. Tiana Taylor definitely got Tina.
SPEAKER_03I'm all speaking for him. I'm like, why am Tiana is talented?
SPEAKER_10Um perfect artist.
SPEAKER_03Let him speak.
SPEAKER_10Yeah, I'm trying to think, yo. I'm down. Um perfect artist.
SPEAKER_03We need the Jeopardy music. Right. I'm waiting to get it.
SPEAKER_10I don't know. I can honestly, I think I'm kind of like uh brain part on that. Yeah, like I honestly. That's I can't even ask it. I don't know.
SPEAKER_03Can you narrow it down to three?
SPEAKER_10Uh yeah, do three.
SPEAKER_03And they gotta be from different genres. Cause I want to hear what type of music you be listening to. Okay, first one pop.
unknownPop?
SPEAKER_03Pop? Who? She'll have said that because no pop. Like pop, drama. Oh, oh, I thought you were talking about snap crack on the pop. Like from Rice Krispies. Chris Brown gotta go on the squad.
SPEAKER_12He would have Chris Brown gotta be on the squad. He'd be a dancer like Chris Brown. Because remember, you building a Christmas.
SPEAKER_03Chris is also pop. Oh listen. Okay. Hip hop. Okay, hip hop.
unknownShh.
SPEAKER_03On the mic.
SPEAKER_10I know, bro. Man, he looked right at your ass. I had to, man, because I fuck with pops.
SPEAKER_03And then rock and roll. He's that rock and roll.
SPEAKER_06Rock and roll.
SPEAKER_10Alright, rock, Lincoln Park.
SPEAKER_03Okay. Oh. Hell yeah. He's on something. What do you say? What do you say? Lincoln Park. Lincoln Park. What is Maroon 5? Maroon 5 is top. They work after this. Yeah, you want to have like a dance.
SPEAKER_10I feel like it's they work after it. You feel me? They work after this. What's up? Like Lincoln Park was a fire fucking rock group. Chris Brown, that nigga's talented as fuck. You know, Tupac.
SPEAKER_06It's just a spirit spirit rap. He's a poet.
SPEAKER_10Yeah, he he he I feel like Tupac a teacher like one more.
SPEAKER_12Come on, man. Like if they rapping, if they nigga did and not be able to sing, can we do like singing they're gonna put in there? Nah, shit.
SPEAKER_10He said Chris. I was gonna say Bobby dancing. I'm gonna say Bob. I'm gonna say Bob Martin.
SPEAKER_14He's not just a dancer. You ain't giving a splendid. You ain't saying no dancer.
SPEAKER_12He wasn't listening.
SPEAKER_03Didn't I say dancing?
SPEAKER_10Yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_03No, he did not. I said he didn't know. He didn't say dancer. No, no, no. He said he said dancer. I said dancer. You said Chris. We understand the cat concept, but you threw in dancer there. How you know he don't like it?
SPEAKER_12If you're building a perfect artist, right? So if you say Chris Brown, you're not gonna use Chris Brown for singing.
SPEAKER_03You don't know that. We run out of time. You don't know that. You might like the way Chris Brown sings. Or he performs well.
SPEAKER_12I'm gonna put a Michael Jackson sing, I mean dancer.
SPEAKER_00Run out of time.
SPEAKER_12Don't do that. That's too much.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_10I said Bob Marley, the last one. Bob Marley.
SPEAKER_12So you gonna smoke weed? Yeah. Okay. And learn shit.
SPEAKER_10What did you mean? Smoke weed and learn.
SPEAKER_12Yeah. You got pocket.
SPEAKER_10Hey, shit. This artist goes fucked up.
SPEAKER_12It's gonna be poetic as fuck. He's gonna be confused as fuck.
SPEAKER_10And I ain't gonna lie, I gotta add Nipsey too. Nipsey Hulk's came out. I love Nipsey.
SPEAKER_12For why?
SPEAKER_10Nipsey different, man.
SPEAKER_03Like, I'm saying why would he add Nipsey?
SPEAKER_10I think.
SPEAKER_12Y'all is fucked up too.
unknownYeah, ain't he?
SPEAKER_03Ain't he? He probably tall, skinny, and I'm gonna go.
SPEAKER_12He's gonna be up here, don't know what the fuck. Yeah.
SPEAKER_10Damn, Zay. No, I just I mean, we just talking about like you said, bitter and music. I feel like that would be. I don't know. That's that shit. That that would be kind of funny.
SPEAKER_12That's yours.
SPEAKER_03I'm a yeah, it sounds fire. Yeah, it sounds like the money that could dance. Yeah, you I mean the money. Demonia is fire.
SPEAKER_12Oh, you mean TIS?
SPEAKER_03Demani is fire. Well, I don't know. I haven't heard anything. You had me at Lincoln Park, though.
SPEAKER_10Yo, Lincoln Park.
SPEAKER_03I fuck with black people that listen to alternative music.
SPEAKER_10Hell yeah. I fuck with alternative music.
SPEAKER_12So when you say Lincoln Park, right? That's like five, three of them. How much is in Lincoln Park? Right, five babies.
SPEAKER_03Like which the nigga won't be up there doing all the uh you're talking about like I'm assuming you're talking about like the vibe of the music.
SPEAKER_10Yeah, that's what I was talking about.
SPEAKER_03Like the composition.
SPEAKER_10I didn't know we was building a uh a Builder Bear rapper.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, right. That's listening.
SPEAKER_11Let them know where they can find you at on some shit.
SPEAKER_10You can find me on uh uh uh um Instagram, of course, uh the one and only Zay, T-H-E, uh O-N-E, Z-A-E-E. I mean uh one and only Z-A-E-E. And um you can find my music on on all streaming platforms, Z-A-E-E. You can type in the album. Only thing that sucks about it is like my name's Zay, and a lot of niggas' names are Zay. So I gotta fix that. So when y'all search my shit, yeah, it may not pop up. You know what I mean? Or if you do, yeah, like that's the only bad part about it. But I gotta fix that though.
SPEAKER_12So I'm gonna find a I was trying to find it. You know, put your music to the fly app. I couldn't find it.
SPEAKER_10Yeah, yeah, nah, that's all good, bro. I gotta I gotta deal with that, so it's cool. I make sure that's good. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_03Next time. Next time, next time. Do you follow back?
SPEAKER_12That's a good question. Okay, I don't need to follow back. I followed a nigga and I waited three days, he didn't follow back, so I followed his ass.
SPEAKER_10Yeah, I do that too. Yeah, I be doing that too, though. I ain't gonna follow me. Niggas be doing. You gonna follow me back. I'm like, wait, I see you outside. Nah, I got you, I got you for sure. I got you.
SPEAKER_14My other one got disabled. Again? What got disabled? It's Instagram, moving on.
SPEAKER_03Bro, moving on. It's like the third. But thank you. Like wait, the one that you got now is able to go.
SPEAKER_12Not that one, that my my poppin' my mouth.
SPEAKER_03Oh, yeah, that shit gone.
SPEAKER_00Oh, gone along the way.
SPEAKER_12Oh, the switch ACC though? Yeah. Oh, yeah, that's been gone then. Oh good though.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, that shit been gone years ago.
SPEAKER_12You stay in the pot and bars.
SPEAKER_14Do I rap tonight?
SPEAKER_12We rap, we rap at the end of the night.
SPEAKER_14Ain't gotta be freestyle. Be some shit you already cooked up, something you feel me. That's the spirit rap.
SPEAKER_12Yeah.
SPEAKER_14That's spirit.
SPEAKER_10Hashtag spirit.
SPEAKER_12Hashtag spirit energy. That's what we gotta say before. You know what? You better use that shit.
SPEAKER_14Yeah, gosh forever.
SPEAKER_03Hashtag over rap. No, you missed it. He said he said he raped from his solo and date for the floor. Gospel rapper. No.
SPEAKER_10Nah, no. He said spirit. Yeah, just spirit, not gospel.
SPEAKER_12You missed it, yeah. You missed that part. We're trademarking it. We're about to put it on the space. It's going up. Hashtag spirit rap hashtag.
SPEAKER_14You laughing at me.
SPEAKER_12Hashtag spirit rap.
SPEAKER_03Krishan do spirit rap. I mean not spirit rap, but she does gospel rap. But this pain. What'd she say? She said, God save me from this hole. Woo!
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_14I don't know what she said. I like Krishan. Hello.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_10Let her go through her battle, yo.
SPEAKER_12Save me from this one. Started over.
SPEAKER_00Whoa!
SPEAKER_03She's the only one.
SPEAKER_00Is that what we'll be ready?
SPEAKER_14We turn a bluetooth up. Bluetooth is up. I thought your cousin was coming this week.
SPEAKER_03Nah.
SPEAKER_00Yo, be in the group chat because I ain't never said that.
SPEAKER_14That's what I was told.
SPEAKER_03We are shooting a video for her this week.
SPEAKER_12Okay, so you keep it.
SPEAKER_00But she's not coming.
SPEAKER_12That should be.
SPEAKER_00She's coming in um, what is that? June, July? She'll be here in July. July.
SPEAKER_12She'll be here in July.
SPEAKER_00I'm gonna try to get us backstage. Well, I'm gonna be back. Oh, oh yeah.
SPEAKER_06Oh yeah.
SPEAKER_03Jesus. It's not my fault. He put me on the spot. I was starting all crazy. I mean, but listen, you should have your own.
SPEAKER_00It really was her.
SPEAKER_03I ain't never met a nigga with a broken neck. I just seen him.
SPEAKER_12He didn't come here and polo.
SPEAKER_03He came here and said he came in and spoke. And you broke your neck?
SPEAKER_12It was like a little fraction.
SPEAKER_03Wow. That's crazy. That's why you guys. He ain't trying to have a chick.
SPEAKER_14They still own my boy a chick.
Bounce Breakdown Segment Begins
SPEAKER_00Alright, anyways. That shit was funny. We are back with another bounce breakdown with your girl, Nola Des. And where we talk about drama, news, and this fucked up shit we got going in this world because this world is just fucked up all over. Wow no, it's kind of nice. No, it's fucked up. Now, if you were not here last week, we're not doing birthdays anymore. Period. Fuck your birthday.
SPEAKER_12Happy birthday for your motherfucking birthday, but fuck your birthday. His birthday's next week.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_03Oh no, no, it's two weeks. It's two weeks.
SPEAKER_10Pro life.
SPEAKER_03Okay. Okay, Aries. Fuck your birthday.
SPEAKER_10Get the mub out of here.
SPEAKER_03Get the muck out of here fast.
SPEAKER_10Fuck the birthday.
Hot Take: Simple Dates And Phones
SPEAKER_03Alright, so what now we are doing hot take of the week.
SPEAKER_00And this week, what stuck to me is let's normalize going back to simple dates. Because you know, you gotta actually like spend time on dates. And these phones, when you own your phones at dates, it just be pissing me the fuck off. Because like spend some time with your people that you're going on dates with. You know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_03Go get a dagger, get an eight-pound crawfish, go sit at the lake, talk. You know what I'm saying? Because that's my type of date. I love that date. That's the best date.
SPEAKER_14What do you want? We have a question. You said don't bring your phone out on the dates. If you are an influencer, and I see all your dates online. I'm so confused right now.
SPEAKER_03I'm just confused.
SPEAKER_12Thank you.
SPEAKER_06Everyone.
SPEAKER_12We know everywhere y'all go. I was trying to let her live, but y'all couldn't put it.
SPEAKER_00No, it don't.
SPEAKER_12No, it do not.
SPEAKER_03The last one was at a mantra.
SPEAKER_06You got you got a joke. She got a joke.
SPEAKER_08She got a joke.
SPEAKER_00I can't let it.
SPEAKER_03You're right. You're right. Rest in peace to my ass.
SPEAKER_00Anyways, I want to know what's everybody's simplest date. What's a simple date to you?
SPEAKER_03If y'all want to answer. I'll answer. I'll go fucking.
SPEAKER_02I like moving theaters. Like, you know, like the little, you know how the little drive-in theaters.
SPEAKER_12The move them drive in theaters.
SPEAKER_03That's where you go ahead to fuck. Moving date is where you want to go fuck somebody. I've never fucked at them for driving the state. What?
SPEAKER_10What?
SPEAKER_00It is.
SPEAKER_03Like, I've never thought that.
SPEAKER_00I don't know. They want to sit in the bath so they can fuck. She might be right about that.
SPEAKER_10Not all the time.
SPEAKER_03I've never. I've never been either driving. Go ahead and take a shot. I don't know where that came from. Y'all be driving. Yeah. He said.
SPEAKER_04He said she never did that with me.
SPEAKER_03I don't know. The most okay, so the most simple day to me was to have my partner come over and like I have like, you know, the room set up really cute, and then have like a basket of snacks and stuff that we like. And we just sit and cuddle and watch TV. Rub our feet together and then at the end of the night is going.
SPEAKER_12Yeah, because I was like, I'm on the same shit called the phone.
SPEAKER_03I got some. But the thought that goes into that is like, you know, get their favorite snacks. Like, you know, they'd be like, oh shit, you know, I like them here. All right. Mine would be either going to get canvases and paint and painting something. I actually did a uh a Valentine's with my partner where like we painted things that reminded us of each other. He he painted my breasts. So yeah, so we have a picture of my boobs in our room. But I also would do um play video games. I like I like playing video games. So I would play like I would invite somebody over, and that would be the first date. We play video games and like eat snacks, like Jazz said, because I'm I'm fucking with the snacks. I love snacks.
SPEAKER_06Okay.
SPEAKER_12I think it would be like just put your feet in the water with like piranhas and shit.
SPEAKER_02You nasty.
SPEAKER_12And just yeah, and just you know, just be daring and shit. That's when the last time you were with piranhas.
SPEAKER_03That's the most simple date to you? That's not simple. Where are you going to get a piranha? No, like I'm never doing that.
SPEAKER_12Just go into a lake or ocean or a body.
SPEAKER_03Oh my gosh. You don't even know how to swim.
SPEAKER_12I do know how to swim. Yeah, I can swim if I'm in danger. Exactly.
SPEAKER_14This nigga said they're in danger.
SPEAKER_03I think that uh piranhas is odious. I think you're talking about the guppies where they like eat the little stuff off with the eating. No, I'm talking about the floor. You want to go get a pedicure.
SPEAKER_00Man, this is niggas. But my simple date to me is scary. Sitting at the lake eating eight pounds of crawfish. I love crawfish.
SPEAKER_01And having a daiquiri. That's simple. Damn.
SPEAKER_00How the daiquiri is gonna make it to the lake is what I'm trying to do. But you gotta go to the you gotta go to the daiquiri spot and get a daiquiri, or you make it yourself. Because I make daiquiri, so you make it yourself. So you're gonna put it in a pool? Eight pounds of crawfish or two. Eight nine pounds.
SPEAKER_03That's a lot of crawfish to eat eight pounds of crawfish by myself.
SPEAKER_12But you bite it in the fish.
SPEAKER_03The meat like this big. The meat like this big. But you don't just do that. You suck the hair, you suck the legs, you suck the big fish. That's what she said. The goddamn arms and everything.
SPEAKER_14You still talk about crawfish, right? It's crawfish.
SPEAKER_03That's what she said. I thought so.
SPEAKER_14She got into it. You're right. Which I know in that lake.
SPEAKER_06You're right.
SPEAKER_03I mean that just doesn't sound simple to me. That sounds like a lot of preparation. Yeah, but anytime so I can eat that shit by myself.
TSA Slowdowns And Travel Warnings
SPEAKER_00Alright, let's get into the bounce right now. Let's get into the bounce right now. So let's talk about these TSA workers and the airport issues.
SPEAKER_12Shout out to my former team saying broke it, man. You ain't got to do all that.
SPEAKER_00Anyways, there is a partial shutdown of a TSC funding lapse due to the government. So I said TSA.
SPEAKER_14Oh.
SPEAKER_00I did.
SPEAKER_03You said I said TSA. Rewind it. He's talking about shit.
SPEAKER_06I was fine.
SPEAKER_14TSC. That wasn't no A. Unless you say you're saying A in French or something.
SPEAKER_00Anyways, TSA and the government is losing money after they shut down that started on February 14th. Even though they are not getting paid or getting paid on time, the TSA workers still must show up to work, but a lot of TSA workers have been calling out of work, and this is affecting us because we all love to travel. Yes, we do. And all I've seen on social media is what the airports are looking like before a book. And I'm just going to tell y'all right now that the lines are hella long where some passengers are asked to give three to five hours to come early to fucking rent. Because it's taking like one to four hours just to check in.
SPEAKER_03Right. Why I mean, but realistically, if you see what's going on and you pay attention, why would you want to fly?
SPEAKER_14I swear to God. And why is you going out the country? What the fuck is wrong with niggas?
SPEAKER_12That's not all. That's not all. Wait, before you before you I just want to interject with takers at smaller airports. Like I work at Charlotte Airport. Oh, okay. Lines is now long at all. No, the machines is no. Is that the smaller airport? Let me get to it. Let me say that.
SPEAKER_03You I still don't understand why you're talking about it.
SPEAKER_00So the airport is warning about possible temporary shutdown. Downs in the smaller airports due to lack of staff. For once the government is trying to help by reassigning other federal workers to help out, which are some of them are not like T they are non-TSC workers who have not been trained. CSC. Okay, I did. More than once.
SPEAKER_03More than once. No way you didn't do that. Once it's fine, but damn. I I was I was talking too fast. I did. I heard it myself a little bit. I didn't slip just a little bit. I was talking too fast.
SPEAKER_00But you know, they're not trained for any security or any of that. And they even seen Tyler Perry try to give money to the TSA, TSA workers, but they could not receive the money due to the TSA rules. You can't receive any gifts during security points. So if y'all are wondering, you know, if you still want to travel or not, I would say the good time is not to travel. It's not a good time to travel at all. Well, gases are high as hell. The war is still going on. And the lines are long as fuck in the airports. Well, the small ones.
SPEAKER_14Gotta think if gas prices high gases at home. Imagine how high the prices is for the gas for the airplane. Or the fuel for the airplane.
SPEAKER_03I don't think it's the same thing though. It ain't. They get a different type of different type of fuel. Catch that shit too. Yeah, no. I'm not a good thing. Sorry, Sus. Alright.
USPS Losses And The Online Shift
SPEAKER_00But we're not done with people losing money. Long. We're not everybody losing money, goddamn. So now we got USPS losing money. Which has been going on since 2007. A year ago, they lost about 9 billion.
SPEAKER_032007?
SPEAKER_12Wow.
SPEAKER_002007.
SPEAKER_122007.
SPEAKER_00So they have been losing more money than bringing in money. And the reason they have been losing money is because first class, which is letters, bills, and checks and all that, they keep declining every year. And people have stopped using paper. They have doing everything online, which is USPS most powerful stream. And they have been using, they have been receiving less mail due to everybody online. And if y'all didn't know, USP USPS is partnered with Amazon, but the competition with US UPS and FedEx is intense, and package delivery is more expensive to operate due to fuel, labor, trucks, and logistics. Basically, they are doing more work for not much profit. And then they also have to pay their workers due to live promotions, overtime that they have, and the benefits, which USPS workers have good ass benefits. So they have to pay all those workers for all of that, which most of their labor is their biggest expense that they use, which is affecting us because if the USPS lose money, we are not going to get no packages, no mail.
SPEAKER_03Whatever. And they can start shut it. So they said we still got fed.
SPEAKER_00They said if Congress do not step in and help them out by giving them a little money, they are we are gonna be they're gonna shut down completely in 2027.
SPEAKER_03Man, 2027. As long as they ain't bringing bills to my door, I don't give a damn. You know who's gonna take that over though? Amazon. Yeah, don't bail them niggas out. But USPS delivers some Amazon packages though, so I asked also gonna affect that shit too.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, because they've partnered with them.
SPEAKER_12They're already doing groceries, everything else, medicine, medicine and all that. You won't take the mail too.
SPEAKER_03Congress is not about to bail nobody out.
SPEAKER_00We can't even use USPS like that. I use everything online, you know what I'm saying? But how you can help them out is not using online shit no more. But we now are gonna do that. We're gonna be online.
SPEAKER_12We're in the yeah, we're in the 21st century. Everything is online. Like, you know, it's just you see all these stores closing, major retailers closing, because niggas is just not in the mix of going to stores no more to shop like that.
SPEAKER_06It's a casual thing.
SPEAKER_12Before it was like, yo, let's go to the mall, you know, get some getting out.
SPEAKER_03Like, uh they closing like a hundred Wendy's, 200 Domino's, a damn Smokey Bones, Papa John's, Domino's, like all these places.
SPEAKER_12Oh, it's just closed. They just closed down the Arby's.
SPEAKER_03Uh don't nobody care about Arby's. Who the fuck eat? I was wondering who was keeping them niggas open. I was wondering. Who the fuck eat Arby's? I wanna try Arby's. I've never tried Arby's ever in my life.
SPEAKER_15I heard the rumor doesn't come up.
SPEAKER_14Them bum ass salami sandwiches. Fuck Arby's.
SPEAKER_15Alright, right? Fuck the bear.
SPEAKER_14I'm gonna try Arby's Arby's before they close.
SPEAKER_15It's on DoorDash. It'd be around. It's one on DoorDash. Fuck that.
Prepaid Hair Appointment Refund Debate
SPEAKER_00I wanna see. We're not done with people losing money. We're not done. We're not done. Motherfuckers go losing money. Everybody lose money. So let's talk about this woman. Ain't seen this part on Facebook. I'm not gonna hold Josh on Facebook. So a woman paid a hairstylist$350 up front. Early as hell.
SPEAKER_11Oh, I heard about this.
SPEAKER_00For a February appointment. A February appointment, y'all.
SPEAKER_11Wait, when did she book the appointment?
SPEAKER_00She booked the appointment like way months. Like months. Months before February.
SPEAKER_12So before February, like what year was this?
SPEAKER_00There's no year. Just listen. No year? I'm trying to stop trying to comprehend it. I get you. Anyway, before February even arrived, the hairstylist unexpectedly passed away. Oh passed away.
SPEAKER_12But she dead. The fuck?
SPEAKER_03Right, yeah. So she paid$350 up front.
SPEAKER_12So she wanted her money back?
SPEAKER_03Let her shop up.
SPEAKER_12I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_00Like, listen to this.
SPEAKER_14This is crazy.
SPEAKER_00So now, with the services never being done on the woman, she decided to reach out to the hairstylist family requesting a refund for the prepaid appointment that she did.
SPEAKER_03And the family said that she was very inconsiderate because her they, you know, the family member just died. And you were asking for some fucking money.
SPEAKER_12They're gonna get a rah.
SPEAKER_03But my question is, I want to fuck the money.
SPEAKER_00I just wanna know if we give a fuck about the money. But I want to know is why the fuck is you paying$350 to get your hair?
SPEAKER_03Because I might not have that. I would never. I might never see I'm gonna have to do it.
SPEAKER_14Yeah, it might have been micros, right?
SPEAKER_03$350. This is why this is why I do my own hair. Yeah, you might not.
SPEAKER_12No, it's some people that pay. Like I know some people that pay that.
SPEAKER_03But you shouldn't be paying more than$150. I never pay one. I never I every time I get my hair, I ain't never pay more than$150. Let's ask the ladies there that had breeds.$225 starting price. Yeah, yeah. The average. Yeah, wow. Yeah, I know. I had a Malani. I had a Balani version.
SPEAKER_01$225 with the hair included. And that's three starting.
SPEAKER_03I wouldn't spend buck. And that nigga working right now. You got cash. You got food for that.
SPEAKER_12Right. You're right. Twee is just a hopefully the fucking bunch of hungry black motherfuckers.
SPEAKER_14My nigga Tweet really cooked. He really does shit. Hey, put an extra tent on side. Salute it. My nigga really cook.
SPEAKER_12I ain't know you was moving like that. Tweet, T, put extra 10. Extra 10. I got you. I got you. Switch, okay? Extra 10. I got you. Hold on. Any engineer.
SPEAKER_03Okay, back to back to it. Right. Uh, three words, small claims court.
SPEAKER_12I would sue her family. Well, I mean, but that's that's a that's a touchy subject. I mean, I I know it's 350. To some people that's a lot of money, to some people that's no money. It's just money in general. It's money in general. Yeah. But it's a sensitive, if it's a sensitive.
SPEAKER_03But people die every day, B. They do.
SPEAKER_14It wasn't a family business, though. Is it a family business or is it was she an independent hairstylist?
SPEAKER_03See, that's why black people need to be insurance.
SPEAKER_14Fuck out my face.
SPEAKER_03They need life insurance. The fuck?
SPEAKER_14My sister just died, bitch. You calling me about some. Because the family is really not obligated to pick inside.
SPEAKER_12I'd say, bitch. To her if you know I hate that. It was work to justify. LLC and shit like that was hers. The family is not obligated. I mean, it would be the right thing if they wanted to do it. Like, you know what? Out of my power. How about that?
SPEAKER_03But they're not obligated to. The fuck somebody would call me and say, hey, your sister was supposed to decorate an event hall for me on my baby shower. Like what? Was not able to. So you have to give me the money. You know what I'm gonna say? Nothing. Bitch, get the fuck out of here. But what about from the other person's perspective? There is a way to do it. I don't know. There is a way to do it. If somebody booked me. Yeah, do that. Go ahead. But that's insensitive as fuck. I think to me. It's very insensitive. So now it just comes into play. Like, bitch, you might have to go.
SPEAKER_14You might have backdoor. You might have killed my people.
SPEAKER_03That's not backdoor. It's not even that. It's just my sound.
SPEAKER_14Somebody booked me for a video shoot and I die. And then they hit uh my mama or my people for the money. That's crazy.
SPEAKER_03I'm asking for my money back. That's crazy. It's not a family business.
SPEAKER_14It's not a family business. She might need the money.
SPEAKER_03That don't make sense, though. That just don't make sense. And she booked it. My thing is she was stupid as fuck to book that, not book it, but pay that shit up front, all of it up front, no deposit or nothing, but all the 350 up front, months ahead. That's stupid as fuck.
SPEAKER_14That would have been a month ahead. Months ahead is crazy.
SPEAKER_03I think she should have waited some time, like maybe a couple months. She was just like, you know, that's too much.
SPEAKER_14Hell no. You know, but the fuck? Your sister remember she had a couple of things. Crazy is here. Who's it? She had my hair.
SPEAKER_12That's we that's that's when you're gonna get a fuck out of here. No, right.
SPEAKER_03You gotta give them some time.
SPEAKER_12It's just over. You gotta take it as an L. That's a spiritual L. Hell yeah.
SPEAKER_06Spiritual L. Spiritual L L. I'm fucking crazy. You making shit up. Hell yeah. I swear to God. That's it.
SPEAKER_12Spiritual ill. Nothing you can do about that, bro. Gotta eat that. It's over with. You gotta eat that.
SPEAKER_03That's all for bounce breakdowns. Mallory's crash out was very valid. What kind of woman does away? She didn't want to have a family. I'm talking about the people. Other shows I'm watching too. That's why social media has been full of weekend. I know, I've never seen them on social media. Should have said that first, goddamn it. I take that shit serious. Oh wait. I done deleted me. But it's a good show.
SPEAKER_12If you haven't watched Beauty in Black, Tyler Perry, just give a round of pause. The hate that is uh directed toward this man is not warranted. That's crazy.
SPEAKER_00It's not gonna burn down.
SPEAKER_12It's not gonna burn down. What's up with this pollen though? But yo, Tyler and Tyler Perry, man. Beauty and black if y'all watch it. It's fire, it's fire.
SPEAKER_03It's fire.
SPEAKER_02It's fire.
SPEAKER_11What would you do? What would you do? What would you do? Oh, what would you do?
SPEAKER_04Oh, what would you do?
SPEAKER_12What would you do? So if you're familiar with the show, my what would you do's are always accounts that I went through, that somebody else went through and told me, or that I saw, and I talk about it. This one is one that I saw. And I saw online. I was like, hmm, that's interesting. Let me talk about that. So what would you do? What would you do? And I know so you wanted to be in my personal account. I had one, but I was like, uh-uh, not tonight. I may you know what? I may give you the personal show. I'll do the personal.
SPEAKER_00Isn't this a live show?
SPEAKER_12In a live show. Like a live live like outside studio type shit. Like outside and stuff.
SPEAKER_06I do, I do a personal.
SPEAKER_12You know, this shit's gonna be all over. They're like, this thing is a bad fucking kid. I don't know they don't judge me. Judge. I don't. But alright, I'm gonna go do what you do. So what you do? Alright, so you got a family, you know, you got a little dog and shit, little tutu, you know, little dog. Yeah, little shitsu. Whatever the fuck you want to call a dog, little dog.
SPEAKER_00Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Let's I know you ain't finna come at me for saying something wrong when your ass said the wrong name for the dog. You said tutu, it's shishu.
SPEAKER_12Ah no, no, no, no, no.
SPEAKER_00Calling the dog names.
SPEAKER_12Shut the fuck up.
SPEAKER_15I want to cake anime. You're not supposed to go on the side.
SPEAKER_12So say we got a little dog, tutu, shitsu, you know, doll name is tutu, you got a shushoo, doll name is tutu, and it's a shushu. How about that? Okay. Oh wow. Uh and you know, you buy, you know, you want to you, and this is oh, uh once again in backtrack. This my what would you do is always perspectives either from a man's point of view or a female point of view, and you go always flipping. So this one was in the man's point of view. So you want to be the man, you're like, yo, I'm gonna buy my family a house, a big old house. You know, you you saved your money up, you you being a good, a great guy. You're like, you know what, I'm gonna buy this house. Tell your wife, kids, we out, go into this house. Get the house, a nice house, six-bedroom house, big old fucking house. You're like, okay, shit is great. Go do the motions. I mean, you already bought the house, you already got it, it's already closed, so you're moving it. And you go in and checking the rooms of the house, you know, making sure everything's cop aesthetic. And you go in the room, in the room, oh infestation in the room.
SPEAKER_03Last week it was right. I was about to say that.
SPEAKER_12You know he's from New York, right? So you call the landlord and you're like, hey, listen. Uh I need you wanna you wanna you try to get your money back. You know what I mean? I want to get my money back. The landlord tells you. What would you do? You already bought the house. Infestation of rats.
SPEAKER_03Why you got landlord if you bought the house?
SPEAKER_12Huh? Well, you call the person that you bought, you know, you got a real estate agent, right? And you like, yo, I want my money back. It's fucking rats in here that, you know, an infestation of rats.
SPEAKER_01Why did we mention the dog again? Huh? Yeah. That was just to add, you know, just to add to the story.
SPEAKER_03I ain't had a dog at a before. Boy, man.
SPEAKER_12It's a tutu.
SPEAKER_03You just wanted to say tutu. The dog is tutu, but it's a shutu. You just wanted to say tutu.
SPEAKER_12I didn't want to say tutu, but this is shit. I get it.
SPEAKER_03I get it.
SPEAKER_12So what'd you do? You bought a house. Bought a house. And say the house, you bought the house. Let me put a number on it. The house was a quarter million.
SPEAKER_00Oh, hell no.
SPEAKER_12Quarter million.
SPEAKER_00Quarter million? They got roaches in that bitch? Rats. No, I'm not. I mean, rats, rats, rats. My bad.
SPEAKER_03I'm thinking about station though. Rats. Rats. That's his fault.
SPEAKER_12How long was the house vacant? Snow, snow. Really, time frame.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I'm gonna just have to Google how to get rid of rats. I don't fucking know. Yeah, I mean, I feel like the terminator ain't gonna be that expensive. Especially if the house is worth what you said it was worth. Yeah. I'm gonna just call somebody. I'm just gonna go. They're gonna take care of it. Some fucking mouse traps. But I mean, but realistically. Why didn't you walk through the house before you did the closing?
SPEAKER_14Why didn't you walk through the house before you did the closing? Niggas is impulsive, man.
SPEAKER_12Is another mic in there? Okay, not damn impulsive.
SPEAKER_14I'm niggas.
SPEAKER_12Okay. There's only one left, right?
SPEAKER_03We ain't got time for him to find another mic.
SPEAKER_12No, because it should have been two. Mouse traps.
SPEAKER_03Mouse traps don't catch rats.
SPEAKER_14Set rat traps and put out pesticides.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, don't. By a snake. Rat poison.
SPEAKER_14Buy a snake.
SPEAKER_03Rat poison.
SPEAKER_12So you're gonna do rat poison? No.
SPEAKER_03No, I I mean I would sue.
SPEAKER_12You would sue?
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Okay. I mean, yeah, I'm on my suing tip tonight. I'm trying to sue everything.
SPEAKER_14If I got 250k to buy a house, I got money for an exterminator.
SPEAKER_03I would sue for my closing costs back.
SPEAKER_14I got money for an exterminator.
SPEAKER_03And I would say that it caused me emotional distress because I'm terrified of rats. Of rats?
SPEAKER_12Okay. You can definitely get off of that.
SPEAKER_03Yep. And with that being said, what would I do?
SPEAKER_08I would fucking do a walkthrough if I'm putting money down on the house. You don't close in a house before what? And on top of that, also, like Switch just said, if I got the money to fucking buy the house.
SPEAKER_03A quarter of a million dollars.
SPEAKER_08I'ma let you know that whoever the fuck sold me the bitch, I'm gonna let you know. You're gonna hear a mouthful, but goddamn it, I'm gonna still get it fucking you.
SPEAKER_11Switch cheese. She thought you're gonna be invisible, you should close your eyes.
SPEAKER_08They can't see me. Um, I don't know what I would do. Um I don't want the house. I mean, I'm gonna do it.
SPEAKER_12Yeah, you paid for it already, closed.
SPEAKER_03Technically, you got seven days after you buy a house. It's the past of seven days. Oh, damn. How how the fuck? Is it past seven days? And you still don't know that there's rats in that bitch. This motherfucker is stupid. Stupid. They deserve everything that happened to me. It's a big house, man. It might be a mother part of the kids. No, fuck no. Who done walk through every room in a new house? Hello, I look at the room, I look at the water.
SPEAKER_08I look at the room, I look at the water, I go downstairs. There's a little basement. Yeah, make sure the water is running clearly.
SPEAKER_03I'm so serious. Make sure I ain't no cracks in the wall, none of that. Because I would have to pay for it. It's an inspection, too. I swear.
SPEAKER_06Oh, damn.
SPEAKER_14Anybody else told you though?
SPEAKER_05Let me ask you that. Is the uh is my house wherever I want it to be? You know what I'm saying? Got no neighbors or nothing.
SPEAKER_12It could be wherever you want it to be if you want to print that scenario.
SPEAKER_05You feel me? Oh, you're gonna demolish it and then you can chop out and go crazy.
SPEAKER_03A quarter of a million dollars for a house and you're gonna tear it down. I will never call all my homes.
SPEAKER_05I ain't never shoot guns in this bitch. And we can fix it, then we can sell it. Hell no. Okay, so we ain't gonna say we gotta sell it. We don't have to sell it. That's a waste of money. So you're gonna demolish it. We're gonna have to do something anyway. That's a waste of money.
SPEAKER_12Okay, wait till you hear that shit.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, tell tell us what happened.
SPEAKER_12Loud enough. Despite yeah, tell us what happened.
SPEAKER_03He ain't do nothing, did he?
SPEAKER_12Hold on. Anybody else?
SPEAKER_14Janky promoters.
SPEAKER_12Anybody else? What you do? No, no, no. So what happened was like I heard all y'all's statements when y'all said that uh y'all would check the house to make sure. Actually, this was a room that he checked, and there was no rats there. None whatsoever. Because he waited a few days before you know you wait a few days before you actually move into the house. I think he waited about a week or so before he actually moved into the house. So when he went and did all the clothes and everything, you know, that's when he went to the room and facation a rats. So what happened was he called You said you're gonna call the exterminator, right?
SPEAKER_03That was my first response. I was too first.
SPEAKER_12He called the exterminator, right? Like, okay, I'm gonna call the exterminator, you know, easy fix. Exterminator said the shit is so bad that you gotta what you said, demolish the house because the infestation is so bad, it's nothing that we can do to stop the infestation.
SPEAKER_14That's fucking insane.
SPEAKER_12And the crazy thing about it is the real estate person knew that there was an infestation, but some I don't know what the fuck they did. You know how some people they cover some shit up so it can last just for that little bit of time. Do you cover the rat infestation? It was something they did just the last little bit of time, that seven-day period, when he checked it, nothing was in there, and by the time he came back, rats. And it was like, he was like, yo, the whole under under the house. Like, you know how you got termites and the termites is fucking your house under there?
SPEAKER_06That's how the rats was.
SPEAKER_12It was so bad that these like yo, you gotta tear this house down in order for you. So he's out of a quarter. No, he ain't gonna be.
SPEAKER_03But how do you hide a rat infestation? What you mean? I would sue everybody. I was I would sue the appraiser that came and looked at the house and valued the house. I'm suing the real estate company. Inspectors? Because you gotta be inspectors that come through this shit to check. I'm suing everybody. Everybody was in on it. There's no way you can hide a rat infestation. There's no way at all. I don't know. There's no way. Because they don't see turds all over, even if you get rid of the state. Even if you sweep the turds up, somebody's gonna scurry across the room. Something, right? Yeah.
SPEAKER_14No, they move off your vibration though. They ain't gonna pop out of you out.
SPEAKER_12What would you do if you buy a quarter million house? You and you you a man, you think you're doing the right thing, you getting your family out the hood, you can move to the big old house and move to the little Infation in the house, and you go to the real estate agent or whatever and say, hey, I just I get my money back and they say, Well, can't do it. What would you do? Nothing to do.
Relationships, Sexuality, And Awakening
SPEAKER_03That's some ghetto shit. Boy, I I man. I might have to left eye the whole property and get the whatever insurance I got on that bitch. Call the adjuster. I mean, it's illegal, but somebody can do it for me. I know somebody got a homeboy. Allegedly, allegedly. What's up, y'all? Hey, friend. I know y'all missed me last week. You might not have even noticed that I wasn't here. But it's me. I'm back. Lex rated. And like, what was it? The first week of March, we spoke about a spiritual awakening. So I wanted to kind of piggyback off of that low-key, and I wanted to talk about um relationships, sexuality, and a spiritual awakening as well. I want them to be hand in hand. You want to tell us what the segment is, though? It was a retrograde. Thank you. That was the gun. Yeah, yeah. That was the gun. That was the gun. That was the gun. That bitch is stuck. That was the gun. It was a shotgun. It was a shotgun. That don't even, that's not even what that sounded like. Right. How would you know? Shush. Because I got family that got shotguns. Okay. That don't sound like that. Told you I'm on your ass. Right. You got jokes. Thank you. You got jokes tonight, huh? He won't ready. So I had to improvise. Okay, so because I want to talk about how people feel, we also have to touch base, like I said earlier, on sexuality, attraction, and why we want whom we want or what we want. And how that actually changes depending on the level of awareness you have in life. Right? So many may remember, and some of y'all may not, because you might not have been here. But the first stage is the wake-up stage, it's the attraction stage. This stage is when people start noticing patterns. You look back and you realize that people that you used to date or have had previous relationships with. So you start asking yourself, why do I keep dating the same person? Why do I keep ending up in the same situations? You say that you want stability, but you keep choosing emotionally unavailable people, and it's not a coincidence. That's you conditioning yourself. I guess a lot of people do it from what I heard online. It's not uncommon for somebody to pick the same type of person over and over again, even though they say they want something else. So a lot of people say that they just like what they like, but no, attraction is shaped by your trauma, your environment, your self-worth, and what you're taught love looks like. So if you watched your parents grow up and they argue all the time, you don't know that that's not love for uh a person, because it could be the man or the woman, to put their hands on their partner. You wouldn't know what the difference is between love and abuse because you wouldn't have a good variation for that. So my first question, and we're not gonna answer it because you know we're on a time constraint. Are you actually attracted to the person or are you attracted to what feels familiar? You're attracted to the comfort of it, or are you actually attracted to the person?
SPEAKER_15Familiar. Familiar.
SPEAKER_12And hold on, before you start like, I always gotta say I got two psych degrees. You always gotta start off with that.
SPEAKER_03I don't say that all the time. You know, you're right, friend, but you know what? I be trying to get into it because we we don't want constraints, okay?
SPEAKER_04That's what she said.
SPEAKER_12All right.
SPEAKER_03All right, shut up. Um I I do have two psych degrees, one in behavioral psychology and the other one in forensic psychology, but that ain't got shit to do with the real shit I'm gonna hit y'all with. It's just where I get my research from.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, we're talking about relationships.
SPEAKER_03Right. So um behavioral awakenings change how you view your own sexuality. So, what I mean by that is you become more aware of what you actually enjoy, uh, what feels aligned with your life, and what feels forced or performative. And if you ever seen something in a porn and you said, Oh, I would like to try that, or corn, and I would like to try that. I would like corn, corn. Um, and I would see some in a porn. And I would like to try that, but then when you try it, it it is not as interesting as what you were attracted to on the video. And it's because you stop doing things that please other people, and you stop doing things that keep someone interested or that fits an image. You start doing things that you actually enjoy doing, and you start to realize that a lot of the things that you see or or that you partake in with other people aren't what really speak to you. A lot of us are very sensual beings, a lot of us don't really like that nasty stuff. So I want to talk about how uh some people are not addicted to love, they're addicted to the emotional chaos because chaos feels like passion and calm feels like boredom. A lot of people don't know if they want something that keeps them emotionally stimulated or if they want peace. Do you want to go through all the emotions in a relationship, or would you just prefer a peaceful relationship? If we're being honest, a lot of people wouldn't pick a peaceful relationship because it would be boring. Shit. So let's address boring love. I used to be like that though. I used to think that calm feels boring because I talked so much I I was. I definitely was talking. I don't talk to the guys' mother too. I believe that's the first thing.
SPEAKER_14Not you taking accountability. What the fuck? Oh, let's not drag it.
SPEAKER_08Okay. Yeah. Yeah.
SPEAKER_14Let's not drag it. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03So people say they want seven, what you want? Oh, screwed up. So people say they want healthy love, but when they get it, they call it boring, like Destiny, because it does not come with stress, confusion, or emotional highs and lows. Is it boring or are you just not used to being treated right? So the next stage is the bliss stage. In the bliss stage, everything feels heightened. Connection, emotion, sexual energy. People feel more open, more sensual, more connected. Uh, but here is the part that people skip. That openness can openness can make you overattach, overshare, and confuse spiritual connections with combat compatibility. What do they call it? Like the honeymoon phase. Like the first couple months in a relationship with somebody, y'all just hunching the entire time. Y'all not really getting to know each other. It's just rabbits all day, every day. And then months later, you can't stand a person. Yep. Yep, and do that. It be like it sometimes. The void stage is the next stage. I'm gonna talk about the void stage in dating. Uh, the void stage is where a lot of people get uh love wrong. I mean, but and it's mainly because you feel empty, disconnected, unsure. Uh, but instead of sitting in that, people try to fill it with uh dating, sex, attention, validation. Um, this is like when you don't have anybody in your your lineup or your your roster and you just start scrolling again and swiping left and right, you get bored. So you want something to kind of boost a little bit of dopamine and and get you going a little bit. So jumping into a relationship too fast just to avoid being alone is a big example of this. A lot of people do this when they're in the void stage. A lot of people do this after they kind of like mourn a a loss or something like that. When you lose somebody you love, you want to find somebody else to attach to, not healthy. So there is a social influence on sexuality before I go into the next stages. Social media, music, and culture shape how people view sex, they shape how we look at attraction, desire, and how you determine what's normal. So my next question is are your preferences actually yours, or were they influenced by what you've been exposed to? And you remember that short period of time where every every woman was doing the natural thing, and it was like um peace, love, and Greece and all that, and that's all black men wanted was the beautiful black woman. Now, now they want a baddie. Now they want a baddie. The attraction switched real quick, real fast. So when it comes to fit physical connection, you also have to talk about spirituality. Just because you feel a strong connection with someone does not mean they are meant for you. Sometimes it's a lesson, a trigger, a reflection. It's not a relationship. A lot of people have said to me in the past, you around for uh a reason, not a season, or short time, or a good time, not a long time. All of these things. How many people have mistaken a deep emotional connection or sexual connection for something that was actually temporary? Something that you thought was gonna last forever and it ended the next moment. So lonely loneliness versus growth is uncomfortable, but not all loneliness is bad. Sometimes it's necessary because if you cannot sit with yourself, you will choose people just to avoid silence. And when you choose people just to avoid silence, you're not paying attention to those red flags. So you have to ask yourself do you actually want a relationship or you just don't want to be alone?
SPEAKER_12That's a that's that's deep.
SPEAKER_00She didn't go quit her job and do therapy.
SPEAKER_12No, hell no. No, because I think a lot of people fall into that trap of you know wanting to be in a relationship rather than being alone. Like a lot of people confused at that point. You know, they like uh especially when you said getting out of a relationship then jumping right into another relationship.
SPEAKER_03Another one. Yeah, so you gotta fill that void, you gotta have something to do. And a lot of people think like that, and it's all because it's learned behavior. A lot of us don't know how to be alone. Yeah, so the next stage is the dark night.
SPEAKER_06I'm a loner nigga.
SPEAKER_03I believe it. I don't believe it. This is where things get real during the dark night stage. People start outgrowing their relationships. This includes their friendships, their romantic partners. Call me Batman Ho. Okay, even family dynamics, you start to set boundaries, and suddenly people say you've changed, you're different. Yes, that is the point. We're supposed to change. You're supposed to change. It's not gonna become a button. Exactly. Purpose and relationships at some person at some certain point relationships must be intentional. You are no longer dating for validation, you have to stop dating for attention or or temporary fulfillment. You have to start choosing people based on the alignment, growth, and shared values because now you understand who you are. That's what comes after the dark night stage. Sometimes the the person you love was only aligned with the version of you that was unhealed, and so that's why you love that person because they accept you for who you are in this current point. But once you get through the dark night stage and you're becoming your higher self, there's somebody for that person as well. So when you grow, the relationship no longer fits you, and when you notice that it no longer fits you, it's okay to remove yourself. So my next question is are you losing people or are you finally seeing them clearly?
SPEAKER_02Seeing them clearly.
SPEAKER_03Seeing them clearly, seeing them clearly. I think time is for me because I have lost folks, but then the people that I do have, I see clearly. And if you're still in my life, I value you, I appreciate you, I see what you come with, and I'm okay with that.
SPEAKER_00That part.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. So as you go, your attraction changes, you stop prioritizing look, status, surface level chemistry, and you start valuing emotional safety, consistency, peace, and alignment. The same type of person you used to chase no longer excites you. They don't make your coochie jump. It not at all. They become disgusting. It's to the point where you look at them, you're like, oh, I used to like that.
SPEAKER_06All the time.
SPEAKER_03It happens all the time. That type of person, it's not even the person itself. No, it is you come with it.
SPEAKER_12Let me ask that, let me ask the question. So, what do you do with that situation? Do you try to figure out a way to uh overcome that? Or is it like done? Fuck out of here. Bobby done.
SPEAKER_03I I like to feel like what happens in the past stays in the past. I mean, I I in college I used to tell people, if you didn't make me come, you're not a part of my body count. I used to say the same shit. You're not a part of my body count. And and I I would consider I would consider my body count before I had intercourse with people. I'm not wasting, I'm not wasting a body on a trash person. Like if you don't have the full compatibility or like everything, I'm not wasting it on it. And it's it's mainly because that's something that is like written down in your book, the story of your life. It's something that you're always gonna look back to, especially if you had like a whole experience or a lifelong experience with that person, you're gonna have trauma and memories from that person, and you don't want to carry that shit into the next relationship.
SPEAKER_12So, niggas, you heard that? If you fucking a chick and you don't come, it's not a part of your body count.
SPEAKER_03It does not count. It does not count.
SPEAKER_12You're not in the body, it's not the same part. So what if you got like a baddie, right? Like, I ain't on that and just let it go. You're not me not gonna count that. I'm counting that. I don't think I've ever seen that happen. I'm counting that shit.
SPEAKER_03If it's good for you, but trash for her. Huh? What you saying? If it's good for you, but trash for her.
SPEAKER_12You like you? She says not a part of your body count, but nigga, I'm gonna count that. Because other niggas gonna be like, yo, you can't.
SPEAKER_03So I always feel like for men and for women it's totally different. And that that does suck to say. I'm so sorry for my women who've never orgasmed. I'm so sorry, baby girl.
SPEAKER_06So sorry.
SPEAKER_03Every time I have sex, I'm coming. If it ain't happening, it's no point. Like, so for me, it's been years that I've been in the bed with someone that did not make me do what needed to be done. Or we're gonna make it happen. I'm gonna please you, you gonna please, like, we're gonna make it happen, okay? Because we're not wasting no time. Yeah, I'm about to be 40 this year.
SPEAKER_12She ain't wasting no time.
SPEAKER_03All right. Listen, I'm I'm gonna close it out. But before I close it out, all the women out there that's thinking about orgasms, there's a thing called the old method. It's when you orgasm and you reach your climax and you manifest stuff. Women are very powerful, okay? The reason why I look for that climax in that orgasm is to see if there's something that I'm gaining from this experience. Because when a woman has sex with a man, she's giving herself to the man. And what is he giving her other than uh imbalanced pH? It could be horrible though. It'd be trashed it. No. So I'm just taking risks. Nah, we gonna.
SPEAKER_07What are we? Like, what the fuck are we? Spiritual beings. What are we giving? We're like, like, what the fuck?
SPEAKER_00Y'all just give up the meeting. Are we?
SPEAKER_07Are we just a spirit?
SPEAKER_03Yeah, y'all just give up here to me. Is this a spirit thing again? Y'all just do a couple use. Y'all just do a couple uh uh.
SPEAKER_14A woman is giving herself to a man. What is the man doing?
SPEAKER_03Nothing. Working out. Literally, literally. Working out, literally. Burning calories. Literally. Y'all niggas.
SPEAKER_12That's nasty work.
SPEAKER_03It's it's fat. That's all workout for y'all niggas. So, wait. I'm I'm gonna close it out and then I can get everybody's final thoughts on this. They want the final triggered moment. So your attraction will evolve as you evolve, right? So if you are still attracting the same type of people, the question is not just about them. It's about where you are and your growth. So I'm gonna say it as straight as I possibly can. You are not just attracting who you want, you are attracting who you are. So if you don't like who's in front of you, clock it. And that's triggered, and you already know it's the biggest motherfucking Aquarius, Lex rated. We love you.
SPEAKER_06Don't you guys have any before we move on?
SPEAKER_03Because we got words of pay.
SPEAKER_10I was saying, I feel you on that, but I also feel like when it comes down to sex, you also transferring energies. I agree. So that's on both sides.
SPEAKER_15100%.
SPEAKER_10You know what I mean?
SPEAKER_12I agree. So you could you transfer energies even if the male or female don't nut. You still transferring energy.
SPEAKER_10Nah, I don't know. Nah, you still transferring energy.
SPEAKER_12No, you're not.
SPEAKER_10But I don't think so.
SPEAKER_12If you if you ain't busting, then uh if my dick is going in that shit bowl, nigga, that's a transfer of energy. It's not that you're not raw.
SPEAKER_03Even if it's not wrong, transfer bacteria. Right. That's nasty. Even if it's not raw, that's nasty. It's still transferring energy when you lay down in a bed with somebody.
SPEAKER_10If somebody's gonna be your rubber, if you're rubbing your feet over.
SPEAKER_03Transfer energy. It takes energy from the energy. I'll give you that. I agree.
SPEAKER_12To your ads.
SPEAKER_03I give you that. But not all energy is good energy. It's not.
SPEAKER_12It's not because I can say some negative shit and that's negative energy. You're right.
SPEAKER_03You can say some positive shit and that's positive energy. You're right. And I I tend to feel like not coming is negative energy. I think that is. I was gonna say, excuse me.
SPEAKER_08I'm sorry, I was gonna say the same thing. That is still building a connection, even if either person does not nut. Because at the end of the day, like you said, I think beforehand, it could build trauma. And then on top of that, it could be like a negative soul tie, honestly.
SPEAKER_12Like, I didn't nut. Fuck you, nigga. Get the fuck out of here. You still transferring some shit. Negative energy. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_03You definitely transfer. I feel like as you get older, you do kind of, you know, you pick and choose who you give your body to. Well, you should be picking and choosing who you give your body to. If you decide to lay down with somebody, you should be expecting that they want to please you as much as you please in them. So if they came and you didn't, that's a problem. And it's not just sexual, it's a problem because they're not gonna feed your needs. So even though you came, you're supposed to still play with my shit until I come. Nigga, you're supposed to eat my shit until I'm I'm satisfied. I'm when you write.
SPEAKER_12Yeah, like when you're like, like one of these females, like some females don't.
SPEAKER_03And that's another thing.
SPEAKER_12Some females don't. It's like you gotta sit there and go for hours, like, bitch, you ain't come yet. No, you don't.
unknownYou met that motherfucker.
SPEAKER_03I don't know. And I and I hate to say it, but it might just be the compatibility is not there. Because for me, if I'm sexual, if I'm if I'm in that zone, you could, I'm so sorry. Well, you could suck my tooth. Like, that's it. Like, if you have some, if you have enough chemistry. So I'm saying, like, don't waste your time on people that you feel like is just a quick fuck. Because if you don't come or they don't come now, is they talking about you and I don't give a fuck. That nigga ain't made me come. Like, no, nigga, I'm putting this putting this work in. Tell your friends.
SPEAKER_07I'm gonna hear what I gotta say.
SPEAKER_03We gotta get the words in the week.
SPEAKER_04Uh if I got a rubber on, we ain't transferring nothing.
SPEAKER_12Well, if you got a rubber on, yeah, you ain't transferring nothing.
SPEAKER_10Yeah, no, yeah, I think that might be true, yeah.
SPEAKER_12Do you have on the rubber while she's gonna be able to do that?
SPEAKER_03No, this is a real question. You got on the rubber while she's sucking your transfer. All right then. So at some point if she's giving you oral, you got on the rubber? No. At some point you let's do it.
SPEAKER_04Listen, listen though, listen though. You too woke, you too woke because you add and she you don't know. I'm very woke. Some people don't have some people don't have oral, they get straight to it. You put that rubber on and who gets had with a combo?
SPEAKER_12Yeah.
SPEAKER_03He said he doesn't, but what I'm saying is if you're letting that person do that without protection, whether you put it on before you fuck, you already let her put her saliva on you with no protection. So it's just like negative. But what if it went though?
SPEAKER_04What if it went none though? You know what I'm saying? What if it wetna?
SPEAKER_01What if it wasn't no head? And you just went straight in. I just feel like once you that skin to skin, man, that shit is important. Like maybe you have on a t-shirt hole. I don't know. Okay, so we transferred Sahara. No, he's saying spiritual energy when you're having a Sahara Desk.
SPEAKER_14Y'all using the spiritual word crazy tonight.
SPEAKER_03We transferring dead seals, man.
SPEAKER_14Anybody say that? It's 1111.
SPEAKER_12No, CEO, you can't hear today. Uh maybe I heard it wrong. Did you say dry? You said dry? You said dry? Like dry pussy. You know.
SPEAKER_04No, I said we transferred dead sales.
SPEAKER_12Oh that's why I said what like that. I can't do that. Dead cells.
SPEAKER_14Dead cells is crazy.
Words Of The Week Vocabulary
SPEAKER_03Skin the skin. All right, you guys. So welcome back to the words of the week. The segment where we dress our words in silk, we talk wild, we think deep. So buckle up, class is a session.
SPEAKER_01This is absolutely no motherfucking advisory. And I got this cheater next to me.
SPEAKER_03I did, but I wrote it. I feel smarter already. What the fuck? You was late on it. You was kind of late. You was over here, like tapped into the speaker and shit. This nigga got a new phone, don't know how to act. He's been on it the whole night. He won it the whole night. That's why he was active today. Yeah, new jackboard. I got a jackboard. Get a case, please. That shit gonna crack by the night.
SPEAKER_12You didn't get the case when you bought the phone and you have to get it. That shit gonna crack by the night.
SPEAKER_03No, he's a nigga. This is like an official, like an official nigga. Yeah, yeah. But all right, we're gonna get into the first word of the week, which is paracosm. Paracasm is spelled P-A-R-A-C-O-S-M, and it's a noun. Anything C E O says, let's just not listen to. Because he's over my shoulder reading my notes. Why you be letting him read it, right? Right. What I'm supposed to do. Stop it. Stop.
SPEAKER_14You're gonna have to start memorizing them shit. You're gonna have to start memorizing them shit.
SPEAKER_03Listen, fun fact. I used to act when I was younger, and I always say, I'm gonna get back into acting, but I'm gonna be a punch-in actor. Cause I can't memorize all that shit. Give me one line at a time. Please.
SPEAKER_14Alright, I can dig it. Feed it to me.
SPEAKER_03Feed it to me.
SPEAKER_14I think I think paratyrism. What'd you say? Paratyrism?
SPEAKER_03Paracosm.
SPEAKER_14Oh, paracasm. I think that's somebody. I think that's like a um a dysfunction. I want to say dysfunction. I don't want to say disease. I want to say like a some type of dysfunction where you just can't help but copy people all the time.
SPEAKER_03Like oh wow, that's the name for it. Yeah. Like good at phrasing, but you paraphrase.
SPEAKER_14Parents repeat people, so. Okay. And ism is like you know, it's like a disease. Paracasm. It's like a it's like a it's like a way.
SPEAKER_03I don't think ism means disease.
SPEAKER_14Not disease.
SPEAKER_03I well para, right? I said what I said. I said my definition is. What y'all think? This is the root word. This comes from a Greek word, para, meaning beside, and cosmos meaning world.
SPEAKER_14That's exactly what it's saying.
SPEAKER_03Cosmos meaning what? He was world. Ooh. Okay, so I think it's like a uh a parallel world, like where something is going on the same time. Deja vu on right now.
SPEAKER_13Is it deja vu?
SPEAKER_03No, it's not the same thing. It's not deja vu, but she's going somewhere with the parallel.
SPEAKER_13That's that's that's what I said.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So basically, I watch Shafa.
SPEAKER_01Does anybody else want to take any guesses? Pyricosm. You mess with smart girl, nine. You mess with nine. Okay. All right, so I would say um this is the definition.
SPEAKER_03A detailed imaginary world created in someone's mind.
SPEAKER_14Exactly what the fuck I just said. Y'all not gonna quit acting quit acting like I'm not hitting this shit right on the head.
SPEAKER_03That's exactly what I said. I don't think I heard you get an E for effort. All right, so if I was the user citizen text, I would say, my girl, my goals are so vivid. It's like I built a whole paracosm I'm stepping into.
SPEAKER_14I like that. I like that. I like that. I like that. That's fire. That's a bar. That's a bar. Period, period.
SPEAKER_12It's like an imaginary world. It's like a whole imaginary world.
SPEAKER_03So I don't know if you guys have ever seen this movie. It's one of my favorites. It's called Inkheart. And it's basically about a guy who reads books and it comes to life. But the person that was like the um arch nemesis, he created a world from his mind, and like he was the king and all. It's so good. If you ever get a chance to watch it. But anyway.
SPEAKER_11You know where you know what to put you, you know what drug will put you in a paracasm? Shrooms.
SPEAKER_03Trooms. I love you like niggas. And LSD. Any type of yeah. I love LSD. Well, I've never done LSD. Whoa, never mind. Never mind. Blue Day. Allegedly. Give me that clip by the night. I love, I love the idea of it. I just love the idea of it.
SPEAKER_12It's too late, Lex. Yeah, you still have it. It's over.
SPEAKER_03Right. I realized that once I finished it, but like it's just it's just because of what she was saying. Like it puts you in that state that you're like imagining things. And you're like, this is so peaceful. And you're not really there, but you're there. You're looking down on your body. Yeah. Fucked up. You fucked up. Fucked up, baby. Fucked up. Alright, we're gonna get into the second word of the week, which is clinomania. Clitomania, which is spelled crazy C-L-I-N-O-M-A-N-I-A. And it's a noun. I know. I know this one. A walk-in person disease. No. This is what niggas be doing on the clip when they be trying to. Clitomania. Yeah. They be going crazy for no reason. Clitomania. Clitomania. That's what it is. Dry as fuck, burning your skin. That's what it is. I'm telling you. Freaking freaking fresh. That feels good. All that. All that. That's what it is.
SPEAKER_14I think it's four or more girls scissoring at one time.
SPEAKER_01Clintomania. Clinomania. And my friend Link's in a woman. He said four or more women scissoring at one time.
SPEAKER_12That's a great answer, bro. Nah.
SPEAKER_01So this comes from a Greek word klino, meaning to lean and mania, which translates to obsession. Oh.
SPEAKER_03Okay, can I a clean free?
SPEAKER_12Oh, yeah, nah, fucking smart as hell.
SPEAKER_03Not what I just said. To fall into an obsession. Wait. Wait, wait, wait. So you said to lean on in a way. And mania is it translates to obsession.
SPEAKER_01So clean o means to lean, and mania translates to obsession.
SPEAKER_03Like how I'm going to be able to do it. So some so okay, trying to say someone.
SPEAKER_00Thank you, baby.
SPEAKER_08You're welcome. Let's say when people are in a relationship, they are codependent. And they more so they're obsessed with this person. They can't do anything without this person.
SPEAKER_03I see where you're going with it. I see where you wait. I got food, y'all. I see where you're going with it. I don't want to say wrong, but wrong. Love you. No worries. Alright, so anyone else want to take any guesses before I tell you what the definition is?
SPEAKER_14Well, we're still guessing when I got it.
SPEAKER_03Clinomania. And somebody passed my friend a mic. Which one?
SPEAKER_14Clinomania. I already got it right. I don't know why we say it's a big thing. Clinomania. Oh seven's guessing.
SPEAKER_01Mm-hmm. It's spelled C-L-I-N-O-M-A-N-I-A. Cleanomania.
unknownClinomania.
SPEAKER_09Go up to the mic.
SPEAKER_03It's a noun. It's a noun.
SPEAKER_15It's a damn thing.
SPEAKER_12It's a thing. It's a click. Clitorious.
SPEAKER_15Yo, y'all can't. She say comic. She said click. Clino. Clino.
SPEAKER_08They just say it's ketorius. Why you keep trying to make me think like that.
SPEAKER_03And y'all can't even see my friend, but his diamonds is dancing in his mouth every week. I swear to God, I say brushing his teeth with the block. Okay.
SPEAKER_08Y'all want to see life? But um clinomania. That's like I don't know.
SPEAKER_12No, I'm finna say something.
SPEAKER_01He be on the right track.
SPEAKER_12He ain't say shit.
SPEAKER_08No, you said what? Well, cleanomania.
SPEAKER_01So basically the Greek word Kleino meaning to lean and mania, which translates to obsession.
SPEAKER_08No, I ain't got this one. I mean we knew it.
SPEAKER_03I knew if I forgot. We wasted a whole minute.
SPEAKER_08I kind of was on the way. We wasted a whole minute.
SPEAKER_03And I still got one more word. Alright. So this basically means an excessive desire to stay in bed or lie down. Oh.
SPEAKER_01Oh, I want to do that.
SPEAKER_03That's exactly what I said.
SPEAKER_12Everybody.
SPEAKER_03Bella. Every morning. Bella. I mean that.
SPEAKER_01That ain't what you said, friend.
SPEAKER_14Bella. Is that not what I said?
SPEAKER_01So I was saying a sentence, rainy days definitely bring out my clinomania real bad. How about you?
SPEAKER_12Yeah, rainy days, clinomania. I want to get in the bed later on. You've been in a clinomania state and you want clutorious.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_03It's like the rain is here. Where you at, baby? Get over here. Give me the clutorious. Bring it. Bring it. Come. Bring it. Come. Yes. Alright. One last word for the night, okay, you guys? This word is opsimuth. Opsimuth is a noun and it's spelled O-P-S-I-M-A-T-H. It's a transformer.
SPEAKER_05It's a transformer.
SPEAKER_03It does sound like a transformer. Good answer, Fran.
SPEAKER_12Good answer.
SPEAKER_03Oh, myth. O-P. S-I-M-A-T-H.
SPEAKER_12M-A-T-H. That's math.
SPEAKER_03Um, is it when it math? It's very delusional and they make up an alternate reality. No. So far off. Oh, wow. Is it somebody? I wanted you to be right.
SPEAKER_14Somebody that's very gullible?
SPEAKER_03No. So basically the creep the Greek word opse is late and Manthinian means to learn. Um slow? It's something like later in life. Oh, that's true.
SPEAKER_12That's what it sounds like to me, right?
SPEAKER_03Or a delay a delayed reaction to something in life. You kind of get in there.
SPEAKER_01You kinda get in there.
unknownOkay, okay.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, so I'm gonna just basically tell you guys. Not not really, but uh literally, yes. Because basically, this is a person who begins learning later in life. See, I told you.
SPEAKER_15So someone who may be a little bit delayed, but they start really a little bit later. A late bloomer.
SPEAKER_14Because you be two on the head. What did you say, baby? I ain't gonna lie.
SPEAKER_01Yes, let my friend try it in a sentence. Where's the microphone?
SPEAKER_14Can you say the word again though?
SPEAKER_03Opsimuth. Opsimuth. Okay. Opsimath. No, I'm not sure. It's not smith, but it's math.
SPEAKER_08Okay. You could say that the 75-year-old candidate was very optimist.
SPEAKER_12No, no, not optimist.
SPEAKER_14Ooh. I mean, optimist.
SPEAKER_03My apologies. Optimist.
SPEAKER_14I mean, I gotta peek. That's not good.
SPEAKER_03When it came to getting education.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_03I agree. I would I would honestly say that my mom may be a little bit optimist when it comes to computers and like PC and shit like that. Like she's young, but she's older, so she didn't have all this. She'd be calling me like, why FaceTime not working? Why I can't see the video? I got you, lady. I got you, lady. But she's not old, but you know what I mean? Like she's just old, though.
SPEAKER_12She's in the 70s.
SPEAKER_03Oh, really?
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_03I love that. Blessings to you, mom. But thank you guys so much for listening. Um, that's your vocab upgrade for the week. Go send. And don't forget, on this show, we don't censor thoughts, we just articulate them beautifully. Yeah. I guess what already is.
SPEAKER_12I do feel small like an optimist.
SPEAKER_03I've been trying to use the words that I learned. I know. So I do have all of my cue cards all in a pile, and I do want to do it, but it's a lot of words right now. We can do a spellin' bee. Ooh, I would love that. I think that we should switch it up one week.
SPEAKER_12Yeah, we should do a lot of spelling.
SPEAKER_03We should switch it up one week. I'm really, really great at spelling. I'm so sorry, man.
SPEAKER_12I'm so sorry. You're a fucking cover in the boy. I'm gonna put my fucking away. I'm validator in the eighth grade. You're a fucking liar.
SPEAKER_03I call my mom. No way.
SPEAKER_12I keep telling y'all, I be ignorant as fuck.
SPEAKER_03I'm smart as fuck. I told you everybody over here got some big ass brains. Y'all think we just be able to talk a shit. Well, I mean, yeah, nigga. That one kind of small brain. That is Langston. That is my Langston. Switch for the war.
SPEAKER_15That's some awards.
SPEAKER_03You know, they got one award.
SPEAKER_14It was like when you were second. Look, look, all you know, you know I was from New York or whatever. Like we're from New York. So I came down here when I came down here when I was in first grade. I didn't go to kindergarten. I was the dumbest nigga in first grade.
SPEAKER_03Dumbest nigga.
SPEAKER_14See, I told you I'm the dumbest. Right? Switch is off, it's off, switch it off. Hold on. When I moved out here, I was still dumb, but my grandmother, she was on my ass. You feel me? So like the whole year, I was like just getting better, getting better. And then at the end of the year, they gave me a uh most improved. Most improved word. Dumb shit. We had spelling tests. The words was and can. He's a um I was like, I was spelling the words wrong.
SPEAKER_03That's not even the word. It's super califragilistic.
SPEAKER_14Show me in a dictionary. Super califagomalistic. Show me that shit in addiction.
SPEAKER_01But I love y'all. Thank y'all for listening. Oh, no, I lied.
Eggshell Parents And Respect
SPEAKER_02No, I lied. Hey.
SPEAKER_03A beautiful fucking soul.
SPEAKER_02Who you love to see.
SPEAKER_03Uh-huh.
SPEAKER_14Pop it.
SPEAKER_02A beautiful fucking soul. So today we're gonna be talking about eggshell parents.
SPEAKER_03And what this basically looks like is like you will come home, you will still live in the same household with said parent, and you will feel like a stranger in the house that you were living in with said parent. So, like basically, they will make you feel like you're a person that's not wanted in your own home. Like whether they were like abusing drugs, whether they were abusing alcohol, they would it is like you will never know whether they'll be hot and cold. So you will end up isolating yourself in your room. But y'all live together. Y'all spend most of the days together. But the only time y'all see each other is maybe when y'all in the common area. Their door will be closed, your door will be closed, you'll just be in your own world. And that's growing up as a child. Now, what it does to a child is makes them like we're drawn from people. When you go out in the world, you like you won't know how to take other people reacting emotionally to you. You won't know how to take people showing love to you, and you will think it's some type of like like what you trying to do? Like what you got going on? Like who sent you? Type thing. Now, how it looks like in adults is um like you're a sociopath. Like you feel like everybody's out to get you. You feel like, okay, if somebody's showing some type of emotion to you, like some type of grace to you, you feel like, okay, maybe they're not really who they say they are. Maybe somebody, you know.
SPEAKER_05What's the catch?
SPEAKER_03What's the catch? So I I want to ask the audience, um Did you grow with exhale parents, like someone that you couldn't talk to, you you couldn't show your emotions with? To I wanna ask the guest first.
SPEAKER_10Nah, my mom, she definitely put me on game. She was just strong with it. I have a father like that. You know what I'm saying? My father, he was around, but and then he was, you know. Anyway, my mom, she was the one. You feel me? Like she taught me a lot. So yeah, I feel like nah, my mom was on that shit. She was telling me shit because she raised three boys by herself.
SPEAKER_06Gangsters. Three boys.
SPEAKER_14That's gangster.
SPEAKER_06I love that. Anyone else? Only a black man was considered that gangster.
SPEAKER_14You can't express your feelings to you.
SPEAKER_03Oh, yeah. Yeah. She said what?
SPEAKER_00Definitely.
SPEAKER_03Definitely.
SPEAKER_02Like those parents that you can't express yourself to, those parents that you feel like a stranger to, those parents that you just you can't get, like you just can't understand them for the life of you.
SPEAKER_15Yeah, I definitely had those parents.
SPEAKER_14I definitely did. My grandmother, definitely. I can't party. She raised me. She's like, we just didn't get each other. I I understand her now, but when I was younger, I was just like, I can't talk to you about shit. And he used to fuck with her. She's like, you don't talk to me about nothing. I'm like, I can't, nigga. Like, you just don't understand me or want to understand me. So no. Yeah, we had that discrepancy growing up.
SPEAKER_00I'm lying. I could talk to my mom about anything, but it's to the it's like she wanna be my friend more than my mama. So it's it's yeah.
SPEAKER_03I want a mom.
SPEAKER_06Yeah.
SPEAKER_01I definitely understand that. I think with me is like I know that I can or I knew that I could, but I just didn't. Like, I don't know how to really else explain it. Like me and my mom never really had like deep, deep talks until adulthood. But when I was younger, I remember like the most important thing she taught me was like, you know, when I got my menstrual. So we went through like that whole spiel. And if you have sex now, you can get pregnant, honey. You know, and how to wrap a pad, sanitary way. Because there is a way, there's a way.
SPEAKER_03Um, but anyway, just long story short, we did talk about those things, but when I grew into like 16, 17, 18, it wasn't like I was coming to her fault first with things that were going on around me, but but that's why I'm so adamant to do that with my daughter now. Like I'm always in her business. I'm just like, how was it? Oh girl, like you know, listening to the gossip, and sometimes you have to like stomach it for that moment just so that they don't see you like you know what I mean?
SPEAKER_01Like, really and truly.
SPEAKER_03Sometimes you just have to listen and then later on come back with the lesson. So it's not always like every time I tell you something, you're relating it back to your life or something that you did, or something, you know. I just try to listen and then come back to it later. But yeah. I can always tell the egg chos child, like you, like they don't like hugs, they don't like to open up it like an onion. So you really gotta get in with them to understand them. Now I do want to ask one little question, one little question, one little question. Um, do you think that people have to earn respect or do they naturally get it? I'll answer. Well, I mean, go ahead. I mean respect.
SPEAKER_10You're supposed to do that anyway, naturally. But I feel like it's also earned.
SPEAKER_03Do you feel like it's situational?
SPEAKER_10Explain, explain.
SPEAKER_03Like, do you feel like it's okay? So I feel like you're you you know right from wrong, and you deliberately disrespecting me, so now you're gonna get this and that's and that's and that. Or are you gonna give them grace?
SPEAKER_10Nah. I mean, I mean we I'm gonna give you the same thing you give me. You gonna disrespect me? I'm gonna disrespect you.
SPEAKER_03So you're not gonna give them like respect. No. Okay.
SPEAKER_10If you disrespect me, for what?
SPEAKER_12They always say respect is earned, not given. You have to earn respect. Because there's just some people out there that I'm not gonna respect no matter fucking what. Fuck you, nigga. And woman. Uh you know what I mean? Like a nigga can be a woman.
SPEAKER_03Go out of hand. So, so, so, so babies, so elders, that's how you talk in.
SPEAKER_12Well, there are some elders, and we all could attest. Some elders are disrespectfulness, I agree.
SPEAKER_03If you don't respect me, I respect your own. I want to say, Andrew. So, how my mind works is like everything is not always like a personal thing where it's like, okay, we have a friendship, so that's what we're talking about. Respect. No, you can respect smite in the grocery store. So, what for for me, I'm always going to give respect until respect is not given to me. And then things change. So, I would say it's situational only because I'm automatically gonna come off the forefront with respect. And I don't know if that's just because I do I work in hospitality, I bartend, I waitress. I'm always coming to the table knowing that I'm gonna respect you as long as you respect me. Just because I'm waiting on you doesn't mean that I'm beneath you. You don't know what I got going on out here. This could just be my little extra little paper, but I've always come in with respect with everyone that I meet and engage with because you never know what someone is going through. But even in the grocery store, like I'm always respectful, like to the cashier, whatever the case is, until they're not though, because you know I could turn up. You know I could turn that up top stuff. I feel like respect is something that humans struggle with as a whole. Like, I feel like that's one of the flaws that we have as humans, the the inability to respect each other innately, like to respect each other just for existing. Um I'm from the South, so I respect my elders, but I'm also an adult, so as soon as I feel like I need to talk to you like we're equals, we're equals. Yeah, we're equal. Um so I would have to agree with Jazz and say, I will give you what you get me, I'm mirror energy. But at the same time, my default is always to respect people first. But that's only because I respect myself. I respect myself to make sure I'm presenting in a respectful way in a respectful way. But it's also because, similar to what Jazz said. Once I'm disrespected or I feel like I'm disrespected, I like I I go to hell. Like I be down there tap dancing in hell. Like I go to hell and I will not come back. I won't come back until I feel like yeah, and so like because I know that about myself, because I'm very self-aware, I try to respect everybody and remove myself. But um what I'm learning, like I said about humans, there's not a lot of respect, and it's it's much worse now. Um so what I'm saying, I say all that to say respect those who respect you, and if they do not respect you, make them feel it.
SPEAKER_15Put them under your foot, man.
SPEAKER_03Make them feel it, make sure your heel is in their neck.
SPEAKER_01I agree.
SPEAKER_03And don't let up. And I only say that because we all know better. We all know what the fuck respect is. So if you're if you're an adult and you're grown and you're able to make your own choices and decisions, and you're still out here disrespecting people by playing your music while we talking, hoe. You deserve everything you get after that. It was the Luna, I'm sorry. And this is unapologetically opinionated with Bellamy, a beautiful fucking soul. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
SPEAKER_14That's got a freestyle.
SPEAKER_03Yes, no, yes, put that mouse music on.
SPEAKER_01Uh-oh.
SPEAKER_03She liked that. I do apologize, but I can't remember. Can we set up something so we do apologize?
SPEAKER_10Oh shit.
SPEAKER_12Alright.
SPEAKER_10Yo, we gotta shout a couple more people out right quick. Do your thing, do your thing, gangsta. By the way, I forgot to shout a couple artists out. Reese Raps, Vlogavel, Kale. Who else? I think that's it. If I forgot, you already know what's up, saw uh oh, Merch Sun. That's it, you know what I mean? Carolina artists. Fire.
SPEAKER_03Shout out to all the guys.
SPEAKER_10Reese Raps is a lady though. Yeah, because she's bitch.
SPEAKER_12Oh, you got that whatever? Yeah. That's my people, man. Yeah, that's my people too. Wow.
SPEAKER_03Everybody's eating. Don't you hate that about me? I swear to God, I hate that shit. Alright.
SPEAKER_12Right now, nigga. No, tomorrow. Tomorrow. Tomorrow. Tomorrow. Oh, wait. Turn me up, holiday. I'm gonna say shout out to my son and um Jaden. Shout out to Jaden. Shout out to Jaden. They had their concert and they played today. My man Jaden um played. What's the guy's name? Mr. What for Annie? I forgot that. What's the guy, the character's name? Mr. Mr. Binks.
SPEAKER_03I don't know. I forgot that nigga name.
SPEAKER_12He in the play. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. But he's a big thing.
SPEAKER_03The one that played Annie's uh special father or whatever. That's a special adopted father.
SPEAKER_12Shout out to you, Jay. I love you, man.
SPEAKER_14Next Mike will be Jordan, man.
SPEAKER_12All right, we got Powder Bars.
SPEAKER_14All right. It's uh Powin bars for tasty. Switch not switch still, but I still got the one. Is that food? With the kidney win, which did when I put it in, make me put you already. Every other lick when I'm finished, say it's limits. It's true what they say by skinny niggas. Nimf go I end it, guilty as it quit it. My intrusive thoughts, live my curiously through my bringings. Magic handmade, make eye contact with the lickin'. No hand leaking. I'll play petty theme with this dick. Scorpio, ever since I implemented, spirit now my mood, then I imprinted all your clippish. Equipment, I'm deep in, so I steal it. Bustle nuts, then we're blemish.
unknownOn to the next six, seven, back to the sprilla, many mini hacks. Some call me fitted, chasing dividends on the mission with my members them. Road, running, rollin' like a Michelin.
SPEAKER_14I saw the bigger picture, grab the Sony, now I get paid for visuals. Getting all the right angles, 3K of images, K Kim relate. My brain up in space. Watch how the stars step like the shoes up made the napes. Shine bright like diamond smile, illuminate it's on. I'm black like roots, and coop the leg. When it's fluent prep, I clearly show who the best. Truly blessed, I breathe there, I live. I like my pussy ball like Budapest. Flow cold, I think I need some use and next. Crazy how I'm so driven. But on these beats, all I do is crack. That's it. We got my tongue up next. Where my tongue at? We got my tongue up next, let's go.
SPEAKER_10Yeah. Look. Look, ladies first, look. Let these first. Look, look, look, uh, look. So look, learn your facts before you like me. Still low, keep in the dog black day. Out the window, spinning money and thing. Hold on, hold on, fuck up a little bit. Alright, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.
SPEAKER_06I gotta fuck up. I fucked up, I fucked up.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_08Can you hear me? I gotta lean in on this thing. So my tongue watching. So my tongue watching motherfucking tongue, hold on.
SPEAKER_12What happened?
SPEAKER_03Oh shit, let's watch it.
SPEAKER_12Your battery dead? Nah.
SPEAKER_03I'm sorry, that don't forget. I thought you called it. It's a letter.
SPEAKER_08What the heck is going on? I don't know what's going on. Okay. So my tongue, watch a ton, hold on. Tell that nigga duck low. Talking that shit had to cut throat. I ain't had that blicky, had to snuff nose. Baby ain't a baby, she a treach, we don't cuff those. Don't give a fuck about no hoe. What I say go. Told you about knocking, bitches, straight kick a dough. Been on the way, cause I've been half a low. Fresh, fresh tip with the tag on the toe. If I up at you a duppy, not a big dog, you a puppy. I was clicking in the jam, bitch you lucky. Wanna marry me, but I'm like the bride of Chucky. Not too much on lovey dovey, but baby, know when it touched me. I can see this shit getting ugly. I can shake a nigga till he bubbly. I ain't scared of no bitch that bleed muffly. Kill about four or five bitches, and that's roughly. Ice on my neck, he'll make a nigga freeze. I'm about that case all that Betty, that cheeky took the side for roll me that grippin' that keys. Every bitch around me, keep it pee. Better tap in if you really wanna see. Ask that beat cups, but I really want some seeds. This bitch trippin', gotta be the strooms. It's a mess on outline, get a broom. In the hood, bitch, from the womb to the tomb. Cross them out like cartoons, dressed like the Reaper. This is not no cartoons. But this bitch still groom. My high head, born in June, pretty bitch, but I'ma goon, heavy on the beats, high five. I got all my slimes and we slime. Better go inside if you tryna hide. Bitches do a die. I do not smoke on ops, they do not get me high. Better not miss if you up it. So don't even try. Hit on standby. Heard you let your man stop. I would never be the one that let that shit fly. You get mine, I get yours. I'ma let that shit fly. Uh-oh. Bitches claiming that they high shit. I'm the type that plays tag and holler night. Got a nigga mad, cause he livin' in my block list. Hook him out the picture, told him, crap this. Hold on. That bitch get popped, telling stop this. Yeah, just that shit.
SPEAKER_02Trans, where you going at? You gotta use that too. Like you're gonna rap. You gotta come back.
SPEAKER_14Type shit, man. That's my favorite female rapper, by the way. It's my favorite female rapper, by the way.
SPEAKER_12Pods and bars. Pods and bars.
SPEAKER_14Still round with clothes with pods and bars. Yes, man. Yes, man.
SPEAKER_10Huh?
SPEAKER_03Say, introduce your new single that just dropped.
SPEAKER_10Um, so yeah, my new single that just dropped is called Down. It's uh featuring Chelsea Simone. And I know y'all will fucking with it. The vibe is nice, it definitely is a dope trash.
SPEAKER_12Yes, before we bring it in though, before we bring it in, we have to close out with the motherfucking show. That's what we gotta do. So yeah, man, I was part of the head? Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. You know what it is, man. You know what it's boys.
SPEAKER_01And then she gonna know Jasmine like the motherfucking flower.
SPEAKER_14Ariola. Ariola.
SPEAKER_12Down. Huh?
SPEAKER_10Down.
SPEAKER_12Down. I'm amazing. More about the podcast. And we out.
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