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How Dopamine, Fear, And Consent Shape Desire

Noadvisory Podcast Season 7

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A birthday roll call and some light sports trolling set the table for a run of jaw-dropping headlines: a Detroit mall stabbing after a card gets declined, a San Francisco light rail operator allegedly nodding off with passengers on board, and a Louisiana bank robber who faked a limp before sprinting out with cash. We push beyond the shock value to ask why our default is to record instead of respond, and what fatigue, stress, and attention culture are really doing to public safety and personal behavior. Then it gets even realer with a North Carolina alienation-of-affection verdict that cost a TikToker $1.75M, raising sharp questions about relationships, clout, and the law.

From there, we shift into what became the heart of the show: a smart, no-fluff tour of the psychology of arousal. We unpack how the hypothalamus, amygdala, and prefrontal cortex shape desire; why dopamine drives wanting while opioids and serotonin govern liking; and how fear and excitement share circuitry, making risky moments feel electric. Consent isn’t a buzzkill here—it’s a confidence booster that quiets the inner critic and lets curiosity speak plainly. We talk kinks born from comfort and power dynamics, not just trauma, and we practice boundary-setting in the moment, swapping shame for literacy and pressure for clarity.

To sharpen the language around all this, we layer in a vocabulary upgrade: palimpsest for layered histories, noctilucent for what glows at night, catawampus for chaos, ultra-crepidarian for the loud-and-wrong, and seraphic for light that feels pure. Along the way, you’ll hear raw confessions, a wild “what would you do” scenario, and a reminder that culture can be messy while your mind stays meticulous. Tap play for crime, culture, and chemistry, told with warmth, humor, and a lot of honesty.

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Cold Open, Hosts Set The Vibe

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Che boys, you have a play. And it's your girl, Jasmine Like the Flower, the official flower girl. But you already know me. And if you don't know, now you know. We got that. We got that. It's your girl Nola Des. What's up, freaks and geeks? It's Lex Rated. Yes.

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Switch out your seat though. This wise nigga will more places think if I'm capping them back and I'm wide awake. That was it? Oh, okay. Yeah, you know. Yeah, I just, you know, I'm sending the name. Yeah, Ariola team. Side legs. Ariola team. Oh, yeah.

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We got a move, Ariola. I love how we all got it on our phone except for me.

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I've been banging mystery.

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Are you old? But I want ass. I want I want as fixed.

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Movement is a lifestyle. Movement is a lifestyle. Shout out to our live studio.

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Thank you, thank you, thank you. Even though we got those cloud expansions in here. Damn.

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We're gonna banks. I'm gonna have it. We're finna get caught up to you.

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So they finna fan. Who that they should? Follow the virus. Go with the giants.

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Jersey night. Go birds.

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I'm with the birds. I'm with the birds. You with the birds.

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I don't know what they're talking about right now. I'm gonna cut that shit off quick.

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Who that they're fans?

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Who they did last year.

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But yeah, we got uh Jersey night, Giants, go giants. Well it's not Jersey Night, just team night. Who are your team? Jazz.

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They already know who my team is. They don't even got enough. They know me, they know I feel like you slightly.

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Man, we're gonna skip past that.

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Who that who that's with your team, Swish.

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I ain't got one.

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Yeah, we ain't got no team switch. We don't do that. Listen, I grew up like the cowboys, but I I'm not loyal to nobody. We're gonna say swishing about the saints.

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Never say that. I used to I used to jack them whenever uh Reggie Bush was on there, though. You feel me? They had a little something. What is that? That's a panthers hat. Nah, it's true. It's true. That's funny.

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Let's go. Shout out to the Panthers though. Shout out to DJ Fo.

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What the hell was that? Hey, hey, that was uh fire deep. That was a little intro.

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Twitter's gonna start, right?

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Twitter's gonna start, right?

Teams, Jerseys, And Studio Banter

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Twitter's be free. Like you can't.

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All right, y'all. Follow us on Facebook, TikTok, Instagram, subscribe to us on Twitch. We on all platforms. Look us up. No advisory podcast.

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Not on any of that information.

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No, we definitely still have midget.com. 100%. Yes. I love the midgets. I try to get a midget one up. I always have one. She got pregnant.

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Every time I see one, I want to like put them in my truth for you and just deliver them to you. She's gonna come too, but she's gonna bring them as well.

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Shit. Fuck that.

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Yeah, man. Everybody has a long ass week.

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I've been having a pretty good week so far, huh? Yeah, I've been winning. I've been winning. I ain't got my trophy today, but I'm still up. I'm still up. Once a winner, always a winner. Always a winner.

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Once a winner, always a motherfucker winner. That's the truth. Yes. Hi, Polo, play that joint low. What's that?

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We got the bounce breakdown with dead. Yeah. We gotta bring it to it.

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She's on, bro.

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Yeah. Shout out to my cousins, Hankin' the Bengals. Yes. Wow, real.

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That is not her cousin. Oh, I love this.

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That is her cousin. That's her cousin. That is my cousin.

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You gotta have to bring her on the show.

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I can call her.

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She doesn't have to come on the show. Y'all Bobo had to log into ancestry.com and show me if y'all chocolate. That's the only way I'm believed.

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That means that's that's deep work. That's it. Hey, it's about though.

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It's about though.

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It's about though.

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Alright, y'all. Let's get into these birthdays.

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Okay, who we got?

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We got Ivory Viner.

SPEAKER_03

That's from uh Now that's TV.

SPEAKER_08

Yeah. I was like, I think that's a good one.

SPEAKER_03

Punch your shit out.

SPEAKER_08

No, it's just so crazy. Didn't you not know who the girl from Super Bad was last? But you know who Ivory is? I'm told in the Ivory. It's just she turned 22 and it's crazy because she was really beating they asses. Like 21 years old beating they asses. How old are you gonna go beat you up?

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And you about 40. And she just got that BBL looking these.

SPEAKER_08

But she gagged me. You see how bummer? Like she should be.

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That's nice. I was like, let me see what's going on. See what's in there.

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That's why I'm saying that.

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Who the fuck is I need to say? Big angry children. She don't watch it.

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Yeah, she got the pair. She's gonna watch the chicken.

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Oh, no, yeah.

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Oh, yeah. You're like, you're like the badny, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch. That's no real editing.

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But if you're gonna talk about taking the volume bound, you'll just see a USC bite on the shit.

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Good, good one, good one, though. I like that. I like that. Alright, so that's we got Whoopi Goldberg. Hey, Whoopi Goldberg! Shout out to Whoopi! We love Whoopi.

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69? 69. She's a freak, too. That makes sense. She's a freak.

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That's one of my favorite numbers.

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She said on her show that she still likes Snoopy Lynx at her age. She's like, just come do what you gotta do and leave. On with no attachment. Oh shit. Whoopi with the shape, nigga.

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She's like woman. She both don't matter.

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Oh she getting took through there. Yeah. Take me through that, take me through that. Whoopee. I said for it. Yeah.

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All right. And we got Matt Bennett. I didn't know him. Okay, so everybody said he looks like he played Robbie in the Nickelodeon show, Victorious. Okay.

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I like Victorious.

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Okay, Victoria. I don't care. They see that. I'm gonna tell them to be a little bit of a little bit of a little bit of a big thing.

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Right, we love Victorious. Oh that is.

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Alright, we got Jimmy Kimmel. Jimmy Kimmel. Jimmy Kimmel. Okay. Jimmy Kimmel, Jimmy Kim. 57.

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Happy birthday. Happy birthday, Jimmy Kimmel.

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Alright, this one makes me feel. Oh, we got Malik Coleman. She played Taylor from high school musical.

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Oh, wow. Oh no. 44.

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The girl, the black girl with the puff, like she got like curl hairs.

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And now they'd be having them adults play teenagers. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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I thought it was like curly green.

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And we got this one. Hold on. I gotta sing it. Do a walk into the fellow.

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Okay, don't do that. Don't do that.

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Juice? That's Jake on that. Is it the chain?

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That was it though after that.

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That was about my face.

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You remember that?

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How are you birthday? How many time?

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Who?

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Thirty four.

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That was it for birthdays. I would like to get to right.

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Birthday to Spanish too. Happy birthday. Happy birthday to my Scorpio twins. Yes.

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And we took my birthdays. Okay, my brother's birthday was yesterday.

Socials, Shoutouts, And Live Energy

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Yesterday. Most hated, most likely. See what I'm saying? See y'all. The proof in the pudding.

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Speaking of wild, let's get into these wild stories, the drama, and the news of this fucked up world that we live in. Okay. Alright, so we got a Detroit woman stabs a teenager in kids' foot longer after her car decline. Damn, damn.

SPEAKER_06

What? What?

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It just gotta be that serious. So Wednesday. Wednesday, November 5th, at about 7.19 p.m. at the South Lake Hall in Taylor, Michigan. A 19-year-old woman, Sanaya Jenkins, said she was logging in a restore in the mall and she heard arguing. She walked inside to see a 42-year-old lady, Tiffany Rose Williams, arguing with the cashier about her car getting declined. The argument escalated very quickly because Williams started arguing. Everybody just yelling at everybody she seen. So she sees Sanaya and told her she'll shoot her. And she is now suffering a pressure lung and is hospitalized. Oh and Sanaya stated on the report that she did not know she was stabbed until afterwards.

SPEAKER_09

Wait, she didn't know she was stabbed. She ain't dealing with like a shocking type thing.

SPEAKER_08

She stopped multiple times. And you don't know you're gonna stab it. She said that shit on the news. Like I watched the video. She said she is pushing charges, but she feels sad that William's kids will be taken from her. Oh listen, both truths and she literally doesn't matter for that lady. I don't feel bad for her at all. I feel bad for the kids. The kids might be nuts.

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Oh, of course that she can get it.

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I mean, that that's what happened last week. That story where that man killed all his kids and water from greatest police. That's what happened.

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And they know the topics. Did you kill five people?

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She didn't kill a second.

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Should they kill the black?

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I did. It was a lot of dealers. The world is just fucked up. Alright, so Williams has been charged with assault with attempt to murder, felonist assault, and assault with attempt to do greatly bodily a hard. She was placed in jail and given a 250,000 bond, and her next court date is scheduled for November 17th. So my question is if you were in a mall and you saw an argument like that, would you step in and record or would you just walk away? I'm not my business.

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Your mind, you're not mind your business now.

SPEAKER_08

That's sad to say though, but if she just like this day and age though, like it is like people always pulling out their phones. If she was a teenager, I'm not. It's probably like showing my daughter on the mind your business. Do not pull out your phone. That is like crazy. Like that's dry extension. We don't do that over here. Keep your phone in topic. Exactly what she was doing. Give her content. Probably gonna put her on Instagram. Look, y'all look what I said. Exactly.

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Damn.

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I bet you she's gonna have a group uh she's gonna have a go for me by the end of the week. Most likely.

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Yeah, motherfuckers be on that for real. They don't like getting recorded, they don't turn up on your own.

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That's probably what happened. And then she probably was like, after she got after she was like, I'll shoot you, she probably was you know how to take a leg clap back. Yeah, so she probably stopped like you got gonna shoot me.

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Yeah, pull up.

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All right, but next we got San Francisco train operator falls asleep with passengers on board. So that shit was so good. So she fell asleep with passengers on board while I driving a train. So September 24th this year, a train operator, and her name is not released yet due to privacy, she fell asleep, which shows under video footage, which her with her eyes closed, her head tilting, which made her go over 50 miles per hour, which is over the typical speed that she's usually supposed to go over. Which and she navigated a curve and she fell asleep. Passengers were thrown out of balance, some failed, and passenger, one passenger was reported to have a sustained at the section. She then stopped the train and proceeded to tell the passengers relax, relax, we didn't crash. I don't know what happened. Oh I'm so on. She was whipping that bitch, though. She was like, if you see a video, she was like, relax, relax. She was whipping that bitch. She was like, oh shit. She was whipping that bitch. She was like, I'm about to lose my goddamn bitch. Nah, I fall in the closing.

SPEAKER_03

That is crazy. You're on a fucking train falling asleep at the wheel. A lot of that's some final destination training.

SPEAKER_15

Most of these trains are like automatic. Like sometimes they don't even need a conduct. I mean, uh drive the train. So she was actually driving the train.

SPEAKER_05

It looks like a button and just leave.

Birthdays: Whoopi, Kimmel, And Nickelodeon

SPEAKER_08

The curb. What kind of train was this? It's a light rail. Light rail? Because most of them shits. It's like you're not supposed to go with a certain speed limit. So you know it's cracking off the track if you want. So it looked like a lot of people.

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Oh, Shame going too fast.

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Yeah, you gotta go fast.

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Yeah, she probably knows her drive.

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No, she's not. No. So Monday, that was like on November 11th, the San Francisco Transportation Agency ruled out that the brakes and track were fine and found the root cause to be operator fatigue. The agency stated the operator did not work any overtime to be fatigued. The operator has been placed on a non-driving status. So basically suspension. Suspension! And then they launched a fatigue awareness educational campaign.

SPEAKER_13

True, do it. So someone who wasn't fatigued.

SPEAKER_08

Yeah. Okay. So all I want to say is because someone told me, my own co-worker told me, she said that she believes everyone should take at least one day out the money and do a mental health day. Just call out or request all and go rest because you shouldn't be letting the money work you. Work the money.

SPEAKER_13

She wasn't fatigued.

SPEAKER_08

Yeah, she tried to be fatigued.

SPEAKER_13

She can do something. She probably knows why a little bit.

SPEAKER_08

Well, see, I don't like cruise control because it definitely puts you like in a serene, like Tesla and travel like it says. I don't thought about Tesla.

SPEAKER_13

Oh, yeah, I gotta drive. I ain't doing no cruise control.

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All your sensors sleep, you might call it sleep.

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I should feel like a administrative leave.

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No, right?

SPEAKER_03

It'll be over then.

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All right, y'all. Let's go for baddies. Baddies? Baddies. Come on, see you. Baddy, baddy, show.

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Ain't nothing in there.

SPEAKER_08

Oh my god.

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No baddies. Everyone niggas have watched Baddy with a bandy before.

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At least one. At least one episode.

SPEAKER_15

That niggas watch baddies who watch baddies in. Only seen one episode.

SPEAKER_05

You don't watch baddies?

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Thank you. Thank you.

SPEAKER_03

Thank you. It's titties and fist fight. Right.

SPEAKER_08

Foxing, I'm like everything. I'm watching baddies. But do I live? Do I live?

SPEAKER_13

I always say, like, yo, if I watch that shit, I felt like I'm losing brain cells. Like, yo, like, what am I watching, bro? Like, is nothing healthy about that show. Nothing. This is a big thing. Watch this.

SPEAKER_08

That's a skilled sport. Them bitches watch the skills.

SPEAKER_03

Is Jerry Springer with real? But look, that was that was Jerry Springer. Don't you as hell? Spring Springer.

SPEAKER_13

Jerry Springer was always blue. That's the piece of it.

SPEAKER_08

But look, you Jerry had to meet a whole bunch of girls in a house that expect them not to fight.

SPEAKER_09

Like girls are full of drama. They're gonna have trauma when it's a whole bunch of girls, even just a group chat of girls.

SPEAKER_08

Like, yeah. And to be fair, they try to get a little dialogue in there. They try to go on a little trip here. That shit knows. They try to do that. But they don't know how to act.

SPEAKER_15

That's what I said before is like they take a bad baddies in Africa.

SPEAKER_13

Yeah, we have a computer. That was a good thing. That was fighting shit. Like, come on now, this shit go. Tommy popping out with BBC. Like that would be funny as hell.

SPEAKER_08

That wasn't funny to me. That was trouble. It was not funny. It was a very good thing. That's no motion. No, she said she was hilarious. They didn't even put up no gun violence.

SPEAKER_13

So yeah, I didn't like flavor of love. Life was tough. She pioneered all these love shows and shit. That was tough.

SPEAKER_08

Speaking of love show. Yeah, speaking of love can't we're ringing.

SPEAKER_03

Oh yeah, that nigga is retarded. Yo, that shit is trash too.

SPEAKER_08

That shit is trash. It's the fellow version of Love Island.

SPEAKER_13

It is. It's a spoof. That nigga ran just wake up and like, you know what? I'm gonna make them do some shit today. You touch the thing, he touched the thing. It'll be like if the Wayne Brothers made like the movie. She had like a baton. Two niggas already. She getting on TV.

SPEAKER_08

I saw some of the things that I'm gonna do. That was fun with the shit on TV that would sell. Wait, one of the girls on the show. I want to say her name is Sheila.

SPEAKER_04

Uh-huh. Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_08

But yeah, she was on his live stream and she was like getting emotional crying and saying she might be pregnant. Oh, the girl with the big flash had a BDL.

SPEAKER_13

The one the the one that got beat up by poop.

Wild News: Detroit Stabbing Over Declined Card

SPEAKER_08

Oh, it's gonna be her. Wow. Yeah, that's what they're saying. Anyways, that's my thought. I know, right? Yeah. Alright. So the big three is over. It is summer, let's, and bad dolly. Which we don't give a fuck about either one of us with just a lot of people. Yeah, you don't like that.

SPEAKER_00

Summer was fucked. Y'all thought you talking about it. We thought you talked about the big three, like what ice.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, I'm like, damn, that shit over.

SPEAKER_08

Yo, I did say that.

SPEAKER_10

Yeah, we were talking about it. I just heard big three, and I'm like, yeah.

SPEAKER_08

On November 12th, Big Let stated on Instagram that the group is over. Her statement said, no conversation is needed. I'm good. The big three is over. I don't want to rekindle any old relationships. And it states that their breakup was tied to filming the new season Baddies USA and Detroit went to C. Kashawn's sister, slapped the fuck out of Summer. Like you see the video she said. I didn't see that either. Yeah. And she thought Summer thought that Bad Dolly and Baklet was gonna help her, and they didn't. So that's probably why they not, you know, being grouped no more. And it turns out that Bad Dolly and Summer fought in one of the episodes.

SPEAKER_15

So explain this big three shit. Like I don't I don't know.

SPEAKER_08

So they came in. Um, they all are different.

SPEAKER_15

They was beating up on the girls. That's why they calling the big three. Why they calling the big three?

SPEAKER_08

Yeah, they were just a fight. They just take a fight. Yeah, but I like the pretty three.

SPEAKER_06

It was a big fight.

SPEAKER_08

I like Fauna. I don't like nothing. I like Fonda. Fauna loves sexy. She took cops. She was a cop. Yes, I seen it. I was like, she was a fine ass cop. She was. But anyway, we digress. Yeah. But y'all think Les, oh, if y'all watch the show, do y'all think Les is better by herself or as the big three? I think Lex is better by herself. I definitely do. I think that she gets swayed. She's trying to be too neutral. And then it's like, okay, you have to ride for your friends, but then you're trying to be cool with other girls. Just stand your own around. See how my own friends are not. I feel like she would be too funny. She would. I think she would too, honestly. I think trying to find you would have been scissoring because they both like girls.

SPEAKER_03

Right.

SPEAKER_08

I feel like all of us.

SPEAKER_03

She's just loyal, you feel?

SPEAKER_08

She is loyal, but I feel like all her fights was not reasonable because she was only fighting for her friends. I'm not tired of seeing her fight. I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_03

She's nice with it.

SPEAKER_08

She was just like, we ain't doing that shit. Real. She just started picking up people. She dropped my office so many times.

SPEAKER_03

Enough is enough.

SPEAKER_05

No more days.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, we can talk all day about that. Fuck you talking.

SPEAKER_08

I can't wait for that shit. And it turned out next week. I can't wait for everything. I watch, but I'm not that excited. It comes out on a Twitter.

SPEAKER_02

I'm indulged, nigga.

SPEAKER_08

I'm indulged. Yo, Switch, we're gonna have a launch party.

SPEAKER_15

This is why Switch is always late. I'm a logger fan of battles is always fucked up because you watch that fucked up show. That baddie shit. That's why you fucked up in the head, B. Baddies. Tomato tomato, nigga. Tomato tomato. Oh, both of y'all turn, nigga.

SPEAKER_08

Baddy wife party. We're gonna have a watch party, y'all.

SPEAKER_15

Who? Not without I ain't y'all can do that shit by yourself. We're gonna have a baby.

SPEAKER_08

We're gonna have a game. And they they blunt. I want a blunt.

SPEAKER_04

I want a blunt.

SPEAKER_08

I'm like, oh shit. I got crazy how daddy blunt. They do. Alright. So that's all right. Alright, so TikTok, a TikToker was ordered to pay$1.75 million after losing a fair trial in Durham. So her name is Brene Kinnard, who has over three million followers on TikTok. She was sued in May 2024 by Akira Montagu. And she is the ex-wife of Timothy Montague. Allegedly, an affair between Brene and Timothy while still married to Akira. Akira claims that Renee was trying to be her friend to get closer to her husband. And they're lost to they're lost to asserted two main legal claims. Allegation of affection, which means Brene and Severin they're related to their marriage. And criminal conversation, which is Brene having a sexual relationship with a married person. Brene denied both of the allegations, and she claimed the marriage was essentially over before her involvement. And she criticized the lawsuit as a money grab. So after a six-day trial in November, a jury in Durham County ruled in favor of Akira Montague and awarded her$1.5 million for Alanation of Affection plus$250,000 for criminal conversation.

SPEAKER_15

Criminal conversation.

Operator Fatigue: San Francisco Train Scare

SPEAKER_08

Criminal conversation is basically when she had the other girl had sexual relationship with a married person. So she sued her because she messed up her family. Yeah, that's why she said, you know, it was over before the involvement because she gave her consent. Like she was like, bitch, I don't care. You can have him. And if it was in text, it holds up.

SPEAKER_03

So if you fuck somebody that's married and that person don't want to be a day spouse no more, the person who get dumped can sue the person that fuck they spouse.

SPEAKER_08

Yeah. It's saying mainly in North Carolina that they allowed.

SPEAKER_03

Damn, I know a lot of people who could have got a bag then. That's crazy.

SPEAKER_08

Real life fuck around and find out. No, right? The more you know. That's crazy. So do y'all think that it's fair that someone could be sued for a billion over the affair?

SPEAKER_15

Yup. Yeah, I mean, I think so. If you if you if you breaking up a happy home, if you are contributing to the colour. But what if it wasn't happy? Say that. It don't matter. But it don't matter. Yeah, you you know breaking that home up. Yeah, absolutely.

SPEAKER_08

Hell yeah. I listen, I I didn't know. And she got bread too, right?

SPEAKER_15

She had she was like a big one. She got about one. Yeah. Yeah, give me that. That mother, that probably was a setup over there. Listen, girl, we're gonna set this chick up. You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_15

Yeah, that could have been a setup. That was a quick come up.

SPEAKER_08

It's just a lesson learned for everybody out there that's sleeping with somebody husband or somebody wife. If you live in North Carolina, sue them, motherfuckers. Get your money. Get your money. You heard my girl, get your booze.

SPEAKER_01

Su boo.

SPEAKER_03

That's kind of the same thing like a like a uh that's the same thing like if you don't get a print up though, right? In a sense. That's what I was just saying. Yeah.

SPEAKER_15

Pretty much.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, you can say that we're gonna set her up.

SPEAKER_15

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Absolutely. Where the world is now like shit. That's a quick come up. That's a quick, a quick 1.3. Plus 250, right? 1.3 plus 250. Yeah. The family got it. The wife or ex-wife or whatever. She got the brand. She sued the girl. That could be true too. Well no, they cut the nigga out. That's a way to be like, yo. Well, if they not married no more, then he ain't gonna get shit. Somebody gotta get going through the seizure. But if it was legally divorced, like papers everywhere, he ain't gonna get shit. Because that was after the divorce.

SPEAKER_03

Where's your microphone? They setting they setting up, but he ain't gonna decide then. Unless it's someone decided, like, yo, yeah, hold on. They just saying hypothetically. Hypothetically, a husband and wife could set up somebody and get their that I know that's what you're saying.

SPEAKER_08

They could just be like, We're not happy anyway, or even whatever, even if they is happy, they just be like, bitch, you decide. We're gonna get some money off of this. I thought you was seventy five thousand. I'm gonna give you fifty percent I'm gonna get like twenty five percent of it now. Fuck them, weeball.

SPEAKER_15

Now we uh so who's the loser?

SPEAKER_08

Nobody no loser. The loser is the loser the true lover in the situation. Not the true lover. The true lover loses. That's fine.

SPEAKER_15

Get somebody else? You're right. You sue me from one point for you.

SPEAKER_08

The money's coming from the court. I think it's the state, right? That pays the money. Wait, where's the funds coming from, Sleeze? Where's the money coming from?

SPEAKER_03

It came from the TikTok. The side bitch, the side nigga. Whoever, the side. Whoever's gonna be. If you marry, whoever you cheat on your wife with is getting sued.

SPEAKER_08

Well, legally, she gotta pay it. So they're gonna garnish her wages. She right.

SPEAKER_03

Something's gonna happen. She's gonna have to sell the loser. Whoever gotta pay is the loser.

SPEAKER_15

Somebody's a loser.

SPEAKER_08

It's always the side.

SPEAKER_15

Somebody's losing.

SPEAKER_08

Somebody's losing. Down 1,000. All the way.

SPEAKER_05

Uh-huh.

unknown

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_08

Right. Get them some money on the side. Alright, so we got something Charlotte. Uh-oh. Y'all heard about 704 Chop Jr. That was crazy. I don't know this guy, but I've been seeing his picture all over. Yeah, I didn't know that. Charlotte took an L.

SPEAKER_15

Charlotte took a huge L for that one. Yeah, go ahead. Talk that talk.

SPEAKER_08

So he's been allegedly exposed by a trans woman, Lisa Prada, who he's been dealing with for five years. Five years. And allegedly gave Lisa multiple STDs.

SPEAKER_15

Gave the tranny, right? Multiple STDs. Gave the tranny multiple STDs. Alright, I gotta say. 704 Chop. You know Chop. He doesn't know. You know Chop. Yeah, yeah, lord, no shit. Oh Lord. If you was in that music scene, y'all niggas know Chop. Crazy.

SPEAKER_08

They need to get vlogs. Who that crazy? Oh no. Oh no, oh no, I'm sorry. I'm lying. Oh I'm lying. Never mind. He's admiring his wife with her. Hey yo. I'm fucking weak. I knew that. So he physically abused Lisa.

SPEAKER_04

The tranny.

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SPEAKER_08

Mm-hmm. The tranny. And he cheated on his side chick, Maddie. What do you think Maddie's that white chick that was on Charlotte earlier? Huh? Maddie's sis, like she's uh born female. She is she's a female. Oh, okay. Okay. So Lisa allegedly stated that after 704 Chop gave her a black eye, he made her still go to work that day because he couldn't get her groceries. And a day later, Lisa made a post saying to renounce her statement with a chat GBT response, addressed saying that she does not know 704 Chop and that her last post was due to a psychotic episode she was having. And it was meant it was not meant to be plastered over social media. Wasn't it? It wasn't him and her house. Linked twice. It sure was. Right. Because girl, you was definitely threatening. Okay. And then 704 Chop goes to Facebook live addressing rumors about him being gay for messing with a trans and then getting into a shootout with the ex-baby daddy of his girlfriend. So the whole thing is everybody's saying that he's gay. Because he messed with a trans. He was on Facebook right around with the choppy that Lisa's last statement was false and that he really threatened her, and that's why she put that last post. Well, you know, I gotta think. I got I gotta speak up. Since I'm the one with the human sexuality, you you are not gay if you're attracted to trans women. You are not gay. If you're you're attracted to what you like and it has nothing to do with your sexuality, so don't let nobody feel like it's something wrong with you because you like what you like. Okay? Because that's what my segment is about. You heard that 704 chop. I think it's a lot of people. So that's what they're attracted to. It's not like I'm attracted to this.

SPEAKER_03

It's nothing wrong with being gay. Be gay.

SPEAKER_08

A beautiful woman, you know, that's what if?

SPEAKER_15

Go ahead, my bad.

SPEAKER_08

But Lex is more educated on the topic, but that's I can understand what she's saying. It's what you see. So you'll see it woman. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Perception is everything. Whatever happens after that, I don't really, you know, get in.

SPEAKER_15

Right. So to elaborate on that, say you see a woman, okay, man, attracted a woman, okay, boom. But then say once they get to the bedroom and the nigga pull it out, and then he proceeds to go still do it, what does that make him then?

SPEAKER_07

There's nothing to pull out.

SPEAKER_15

What is that? Is that what is that I'm just gonna know.

SPEAKER_08

I personally feel like if you're attracted to something and you see that you're attracted to it, and it might change or switch within the circumstance, as humans, we can adapt our brain and or adapt ourselves to be like, well, come in, you choose what you're attracted to. Everybody looks at different things, and everybody is attracted to something different. So if you're attracted to somebody walking in, you you see it, you might be like, you know what, I'm not necessarily bothered by that. You still bad as fuck, so let's go. And that's literally how it's happened. And and to be honest, you can't knock it until you try it. No shade.

SPEAKER_15

Oh no, no, no.

SPEAKER_08

No shade. No, no shade. No shade, because the trans the trans girls is up right now.

SPEAKER_09

Okay, well, I'm not gonna hold you.

SPEAKER_08

I definitely watched male porn because I was I was curious. I was curious. I'm not gonna lie, I was curious. Like two males? Yeah, because I wanted to see what it was. It wasn't like, oh, to get a fix, but it was more so to see it. But I when I say I swear to God, I understand and I could see why. I don't watch any. I was like, I don't watch straight porn. I can't watch a male and a female together. It's played out at this point. Shit, it's boring at this point.

SPEAKER_15

This conversation going left fast. This shit going left.

SPEAKER_08

The guys in the room said move on. Yeah, map camera. See, I'm gonna respect, I'm gonna respect my brothers.

SPEAKER_03

I'm tuning y'all out. I don't even know what the fuck y'all talking about no more. Yo, this shit wow.

SPEAKER_08

No advisory, no advisory. It is no advisory. So every time you just ping.

SPEAKER_15

Oh, yeah, boom, no advisory. Yeah, we're gonna do that after the show. Nah, but that's wow, because some of those chop, he's been around the block for a minute, you know. And for that to come out. I mean, my thing is with that, right? It's like, yo, if you are going to choose that, right? You might as well just come out and say because it's it's worse when they find out that you that and everybody's gonna chastise you over the internet. So you might as well just if you would have came on and said, yo, I'm this, I'm that, and third, yeah, then the niggas would be like, yo, yeah, but I guess it would have been more accepted. I mean, you know, I'm that's just my opinion on that.

SPEAKER_03

You know what I mean? When you're a street nigga, it's just it it's it's never gonna be good for you.

SPEAKER_15

It's yeah, it's it's never gonna be good for you. If he would have came out and just said, yo, you know what I mean, it probably the blow probably would have been lighter.

SPEAKER_03

You think it would have helped his rap career? Oh, wait, he would have he went viral, yeah. He went viral. You heard from him for a long time. So wasn't he sound with the biggest thing?

SPEAKER_15

He was with Billion Dollar Baby at one point, right? Yeah, that was a while ago. Yeah.

unknown

I don't know.

SPEAKER_08

I don't even know who that is, I don't even know who that nigga is.

SPEAKER_15

What else you got?

SPEAKER_08

All right. So you know we gotta bring some with New Orleans too. So it was a bank robbery in Slidale, Louisiana. And on November 7th, at a brunch, a branch of Fidelity Blink and Slidale, a 36-year-old man, Bryson Watson, walked in wearing a neck brace, carrying a king, and walked with a fake limp and dressed in a gray tracksuit, bucket hat, and a mask with a clear fan fanny pack. He approached the tailor and passed a note to her saying, I do not want to hurt anybody. Give me all your money. You have five seconds. The tailor handed him over an undisclosed amount of cash. After taking the cash, Bryce is sprinted out the bank. Now limping, and he fled by a vehicle.

SPEAKER_15

That's nasty work.

unknown

Right.

SPEAKER_15

That nigga went in and then sprinted flag handicap outfit, got the money, and sprinted out that bitch.

SPEAKER_08

Sprinting. If you seen a video, that shit was so funny.

unknown

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08

We're gonna get to that, we're gonna get to that. Yeah, the video was so funny. He was he was he was limping like he was a pimp and sprinted out. And he was later arrested at a multi, um, they was doing a manhunt, and they had a standoff at his home, and he came out.

SPEAKER_03

He went back to the crib.

SPEAKER_08

Yeah, he went back to his crib. He didn't get a fucking idiot. He did. And they they went to his house. Yeah, they went to his house, and he came outside like this.

SPEAKER_02

Right, yeah.

SPEAKER_08

Literally. So a Slidell, the Slidell chief Daniel, said Bryson will be prosecuted for the alleged crime he in federal court, and he's going to push for whatever gets him the most prison time. Bryson is already on a 20-year probation in the federal system for previous bank robberies. Federal court documents show that Bryson robbed two banks in September 2019 in Laplace in Jefferson and stole more than$7,000. He also robbed a bank and being held Tesla in 2012. He is currently being held in a St. Bernard Parents jail or be prosecuted in the federal system. I just want to know why all this time he has been robbing banks since 2012 and he just now getting in there in jail. It's crazy. Right, because he's not really free that man, man. Free that man. Don't free that nigga.

SPEAKER_03

He robbed banks. I ain't hear nothing about no murders. He ain't hurt nobody.

SPEAKER_08

Because um if I worked at a bank previously, and it's easy to rob a bank, it's just not easy to get away with it. You could literally rob a bank with a note. You could just say, give me the money, and they have to give you the money. You're not gonna get away, but it's easy to get the funds, like they have to give it to you for safety reasons. Um, but back home is like three popular guys that rob banks. One person was shooting money out the window as he was getting chased by the cops, or went like crazy viral in my town. And then somebody else got away with it for like years, but then we found out it was him, and it was like, oh shit, how the fuck you was uh I ain't gonna say the name of the group, but they were like really popular in the promoting field, like you know, booking clubs, getting celebrities to come and stuff like that in my hometown, and come to find out it was all from the money that they use robbing banks. That's crazy. We thought they was the shit.

SPEAKER_15

Yeah, that's very nasty work.

SPEAKER_08

We should get a group of people go round the bank. No, go out the country.

SPEAKER_15

Hey, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Whoa, whoa, whoa.

SPEAKER_08

No, she was just playing. Yeah, definitely playing. I was definitely just playing.

SPEAKER_15

Definitely playing.

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SPEAKER_08

I'm not definitely playing. Can't do it. Yeah. From that picture, that's a case. Nah, that didn't need to go jail. Alright, that's all right.

SPEAKER_15

Oh, play, play, play a song.

SPEAKER_06

Yep.

SPEAKER_13

Hey, hey, yo. Oh, what was that?

SPEAKER_09

That was it was a late, late Sunday when the drama went down. Ghetto was on the face of the foot of the cloud. On the left deck swinging, so you know which way. Oh that's about the talk of the face.

unknown

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_15

Shit. Lord have mercy. Everything is all fucked up together. Nope. Sorry, TikTok. Sorry, huh? No, it's the whatever the joint is not stabilized no more. Yeah, it's just fucked up. Alright, what would you do? Huh? What would you do? So how about you do's for y'all people that just don't know? How about you do's are accounts that either I went through, somebody else went through, or somebody told me. So this, what would you do is something that I saw. I was like, oh, this shit is crazy. This was for this one is for my niggas. Not for the ladies. Because usually I reverse it, but I can't reverse this one. It's triggered for my niggas.

SPEAKER_07

Yeah, brother.

SPEAKER_15

So what would you do? What would you do? You chilling with your short in the bedroom. You know what I'm saying? She got on some nice, uh, you know, some nice fabrics. Maybe, you know, some lace shit, whatever the case may be. Her favorite comfortable PJs. You in there, you chilling, and your favorite comfortable PJs as well. I hear some shit, and the nigga bust to the door, like two niggas bust to the door. Boom! With guns drawn. One pointed at you, one pointed at the girl, like, don't move. Any one of y'all motherfuckers moving, I'm gonna shoot the shit out you. So you like, alright, you chilling. You ain't moving. So one nigga got the gun to your head, and he said, You move, I'm gonna blow your brains out. So you're like, alright. The other guy got the gun to the female head, and she he like, take off your panties.

SPEAKER_08

Take off your panties.

SPEAKER_15

So she proceeds to take off her panties, starts fucking her.

SPEAKER_08

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_15

Right? That's crazy. Hold on, starts fucking her. So while he's fucking her, his dick come out of her, like comes out. She grabs his shit and puts it back in her.

SPEAKER_08

She liked that dick.

SPEAKER_15

Niggas, what would you do?

SPEAKER_08

She liked that shit.

SPEAKER_15

Where the mic at? Where the mic at? Where the mic at? I need a mic.

SPEAKER_08

Pass the mic. She liked that shit. Not that shit on.

SPEAKER_11

It's on. Yeah, they would have been shot me from off the rip. I wouldn't I would have been fighting off the rip. Like, I ain't gonna stop. So I wouldn't have seen none of that shit.

SPEAKER_12

So what if you didn't see it? Like you said they would have put the gun in my head, I would have fought them. Like, nah, nigga. Right, right.

SPEAKER_15

Okay, skip that scenario. And the scenario is, or this scenario, the nigga, fucking your shorty. They would have to shoot me.

SPEAKER_08

He said I'm gonna have to die regardless about mine. Okay. Who else?

SPEAKER_15

Please, what would you do?

SPEAKER_13

I don't know. That's crazy. You don't know.

SPEAKER_15

You gonna die?

SPEAKER_08

You're gonna sit there confused as fuck. Like, did this bitch this crazy put it back in? You that horny ho? Like what the fuck? Alright. You like that shit? Right.

SPEAKER_13

What'd you do, Twee?

SPEAKER_09

You should definitely like that shit though.

SPEAKER_15

That nigga long in thought. That's crazy.

SPEAKER_08

That's diabolical. I just I'm my mama.

SPEAKER_15

I don't know. You don't know? That's tough.

SPEAKER_13

Hey.

SPEAKER_15

Come on, Tweez. I don't know. I don't know. They're gonna shoot Tweez. I'm like, yo, I'm I sitting there just believed. Like, bitch, did you just I would be so confused like what's going on?

SPEAKER_10

Fuck it. Did you just take me now?

unknown

What?

SPEAKER_10

What would you do? I'm walking out.

SPEAKER_08

You just gonna walk out?

SPEAKER_10

Gotta go.

SPEAKER_08

Nah, you gotta go. You can't just walk out.

SPEAKER_10

I mean he ain't gonna shoot the nigga if you walk away. If he shoot me while I walk away, I deserve to die.

SPEAKER_08

No, I deserve to die. Fuck it.

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SPEAKER_15

That's it.

SPEAKER_08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_15

He walking away. What you gonna do? What you gonna do, K? You walking out?

SPEAKER_08

K so calm.

SPEAKER_15

Lo, what would you do in that situation? Give the mic to Lowe.

unknown

Walk in.

SPEAKER_15

Yeah, yeah. So y'all gonna walk away. Anybody you gonna walk away? You gonna walk away.

SPEAKER_08

Shit, if I was a nigga.

SPEAKER_15

Who else?

SPEAKER_08

Getting the females answer now. Yeah, right. Let me go, let me go, let me go. I was that nigga. Huh? I was that nigga. I'm pulling her off. Come on, let's go. I don't care if you shoot us. You gonna shoot us? Shoot us. I ain't doing that. What you gonna do? I'm the crazy one. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. No, I don't really know what I'm doing. Honestly, first of all, I would be shocked. But then again, I would probably be I again I would probably be like, damn bitch, you that horny? The fuck? Get me the fuck out of here. You had that bitch. Y'all run a train on that bitch. I'm out. Not run a train on that bitch.

SPEAKER_03

So it's two niggas.

SPEAKER_15

It's two niggas. One nigga got the gum to your head and the other nigga had the gun to the never mind. Female head. Well, took off a panties and he started fucking her. Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_08

I changed my response. I'm like, damn, the dick that good.

unknown

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

You could do.

SPEAKER_08

Cause she put it back in.

SPEAKER_03

Like if it was one nigga. Then it's like when he fucking her, then I'm I'm gonna run up while he fucking her and you feel me.

SPEAKER_08

But it's another nigga. It's two niggas. She's gonna get beat up.

SPEAKER_03

It's over with. If it's two niggas, you gonna get jumped.

unknown

Nothing you can do.

SPEAKER_14

So you gonna sit there and just let her. There's nothing you can do.

SPEAKER_08

Yeah, I'ma wait. I'm gonna wait until they finish. Ain't finna die. Wait until they finish. I'ma wait until they finish. I might have to put her through the wall.

unknown

I'm gonna have to put her through the wall.

SPEAKER_03

I'm gonna think she's back door.

SPEAKER_08

Gun or not. I just I ain't no way in hell. Yeah. You put it back in that. Listen, I understand you sitting there and you taking the D because the gun is to your head. Listen, by all means, do what you need to do. But putting it back in, bitch, that's I'm putting it through the wall. I promise you. I'm putting you through the wall. And if the police show up, I'ma say they did it.

SPEAKER_15

Because it's different if he was doing it and he put it back in. That's right. You know what I mean? But she grabbed and put that shit back in. That's disrespectful. That's crazy. That's diabolical. You just so what'd that nigga do? Huh? It was no end. I don't know. I saw it. I was like, I gotta use that. So I just you gotta base get your own scenario of what would you do in that situation? Because it was no end result to that. But that's crazy. I was like, that's that's diabolical. Where do you see that at? Huh?

SPEAKER_03

Where do you see that? Facebook.

SPEAKER_08

Hey yo, Facebook always got something like that.

SPEAKER_03

What type of people do you follow?

SPEAKER_08

No.

SPEAKER_15

Literally, like people like that. That's insane. Like give me some content. It's crazy, man.

SPEAKER_05

That is wow.

SPEAKER_15

That's crazy. So that was about what'd you do tonight? What would you do? Niggas. Getting robbed. Nigga got a gun to your head. Other nigga got the gun to your shorty head. Tell her to take off her panties and fuck up. And while you fucking her, and shit fall out. She grab it and put it back in. What'd you do?

SPEAKER_06

Yes! Everybody take the book.

SPEAKER_09

What's up, big booty bitches?

SPEAKER_03

Oh no. Oh, clear in the motherfucking building. Please ski. You're gonna try.

SPEAKER_15

Oh here we go.

SPEAKER_08

Lord fucking up the board.

SPEAKER_15

Huh? I forgot she didn't do a bike.

SPEAKER_08

Oh girl.

SPEAKER_15

Huh?

SPEAKER_08

She did.

SPEAKER_15

Oh, she didn't do a bike. Did you ask? That's what I was looking for. Yep. She deleted it.

SPEAKER_08

She deleted her bite. I didn't like my voice. Sorry. It wasn't a malefless.

SPEAKER_03

I wanna hear it. What was it? I wanna hear it.

SPEAKER_08

No, you gotta say your.

SPEAKER_03

You don't got one.

SPEAKER_08

I don't really have one. I don't really have one liners. So I what was the what was the the joint you deleted? It was um it's jasmine like the flower. No, I said it's jasmine, but don't forget the flower. I like jasmine. Alright, jasmine like the flower. I like that one. Swish.

SPEAKER_15

Alright, Jasmine, what you got? Huh? What is that noise? I love her. Cut that yellow mic off. Who got the yellow mic?

SPEAKER_05

Swish.

SPEAKER_15

Swish, cut the yellow mic off. My bad, my bad. Nah, it's off. It's off. It's off. So it wasn't her yellow mic? You know who I call it? I call it Kamoya D. Simmons. Oh, you turn it off? Oh, okay. Alright. You turn my oh. Words of the week. What do we got, Jazz?

SPEAKER_08

Alright, y'all. Y'all already know. Is Jasmine like the flower? Is my mic on?

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, it's on. Tap it. Tap it. You good?

SPEAKER_08

Bam. It's my mic on. I like to tap things, but okay. Hey, next coming up, we got the words of the week.

SPEAKER_03

What we got?

SPEAKER_08

What do we got? All right. We love the words. Welcome back to the words of the week, the segment where we've dressed your vocabulary in silk and we give it just a little bit of attitude. We talk while we think deep, and yes, we use big sexy words. Get comfy because class is in session. This is no advisory. No advisory bitches.

SPEAKER_15

I ain't got a berm, berm, berm, berm.

SPEAKER_08

I know. But uh I got this one. That's it. It's the same word. That's it. That's the one I was trying to prove.

SPEAKER_15

Okay, closer.

SPEAKER_08

Yeah, okay. So, you know, earlier today I gave you guys a little snippet of some words. Well, one word that we're going to be discussing today. And that word today is going to be palimpsis. Okay. And it's spelled P-A-L I-M-P-S-E-S-T.

SPEAKER_15

Damn. I would never guess that shit.

SPEAKER_08

The word is spelled P-A-L-I-M-P-S-E-S-T. Oh, okay. That's a good thing.

SPEAKER_15

Like a polympsis. Okay. Yeah, palimpsis. Alright.

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SPEAKER_08

So basically, um this this word is a noun. And um the root word is from a Greek word called polympsistos, which means scraped again. This term is derived from palin meaning scrap again. Um, it also refers to a manuscript or a document that has been reused by erasing previous writing to make room for new text, right? So this could have either been from like a scroll or a book, which the text has been scraped or washed off in order to use again. So back in the olden days, like I'm Native American or whatever. Fun fact, uh, my great-grandfather was the chief of our tribe, knitmunk nation, period. But um, back in the day, parchment was made from lamb or calf. But since it was expensive and it wasn't readily available, this is what they would use to write on. Like it wasn't paper. So basically, um, they would scrape the writing back off of the raw hide, you know, and then they would rewrite again. But certain things were left underneath it. So um that is just basically a meaning of the word. What I mean, that's not really the definition, but that's just like a little context about it. So, in saying that, what do you guys think the word means? If anybody wants to take a guess.

SPEAKER_01

Nah, that wasn't the definition.

SPEAKER_08

Yeah, so it's a noun, so it's I like it's it's an actual like thing. So it is it's something basically. I've basically explained it in the thing. Wait, so what are something reused or layered so the past still peaks through? So that's what palimpsis is. So it's basically something reused or layered so the past still peaks through. So if I was to use it in a sentence, I would say, My heart is a palimpsis. Every new love written, bold and fresh, but the old stories still whispered underneath.

SPEAKER_15

Hey. Shake need a uh palimpsis.

SPEAKER_08

I'm not sure.

SPEAKER_15

She's real poetic with it.

SPEAKER_08

She real poetic with it. I gotta play right some sound by the way.

SPEAKER_07

Real though. I ain't gonna love.

SPEAKER_03

Yes, yes, real poetic with it. I ain't gonna love you on the snap. Yo, I'm crying. You feel me?

SPEAKER_08

Yeah, this is what we do now. This no, wait, which one is the second? The middle one is the the upper one.

SPEAKER_13

That's trash because you can't hear it. It doesn't matter. You gotta keep it.

SPEAKER_08

Hold on, wait. No, but no, this is this is what you got. Right, you gotta uh poetry.

SPEAKER_15

So you wouldn't be silent and they usually be like, okay, and then be like, oh, snap, snap. Yeah, we got a new one.

SPEAKER_08

Once they done. Once they done, that's when they snap.

SPEAKER_03

So we're gonna take away snap.

SPEAKER_08

Like in the world. So they say like the girls are the ones that started this because it's like you don't want to be too loud or whatever, so it's just cutesy, just like yeah, yeah. You're clapping, but you're not clapping. You're snapping, but you're not snapping. Oh you just on all your hands. So the second word that I have for you guys today is knoctilucent. Noctilucent. Noctilucent out, baby! Noctilucent. I'm gonna spell it for you guys, and then I'm gonna let you guys take some guesses. And it's spelled N-O-C T-I-L-U-C-E-N-T. Noct lucent.

SPEAKER_15

Noctilucent.

SPEAKER_08

Take some guesses at what you think this word means. Does lucid mean like transparent or something? It's not unclear, no.

SPEAKER_02

Okay, because lucid means like clear. Like you can get it.

SPEAKER_08

Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Yep. You can kind of think. No, okay. Lex, you want to take any guesses? That's what I'm thinking. I'm thinking not clear. And like nocturnal. Yeah. Yeah. So like um clear night? Clear nights? That was a good guess. That was actually a really good guess. So yeah, nocturnal, it does have something to do with like knock. So knock is basically derived from the Latin word, right? Meaning night. And in lucent um is meaning shining. Yeah. So noctilucent is often used in meteorology to describe noctilucent clouds. So like clouds that are high altitude clouds, but they reflect sunlight and glow flintly in the sky.

SPEAKER_05

Okay.

SPEAKER_08

So the root word luke comes from the Proto-Indo-European word meaning light or brightness, which also is the source of words like luminous and lucid. So, so yeah, noctilucent is basically a shining or a glowing at night. Okay. Okay. The moon? When it's like the full moon and it's bright, and you see the lucent. Noctilucent. Yeah. So basically, um, I would say there was a noctilucent scene in um James and the Giant Peach. Y'all remember James and the Giant Peach when it turned all black, and then it was like, um, hey glowworm, turn up your lights. And then he like flipped the little bulb and the whole peach glute. I don't know. You don't never saw James and the Peach. You never seen it. Oh my goodness. What? That's on XXX.com? He does. That's on XXX.com.

SPEAKER_03

That's on XXX.com?

SPEAKER_08

No. You never seen it. He said XX.

SPEAKER_13

What is it? What is what is the shit?

SPEAKER_08

Um it's basically, I don't know if it was made off of a movie.

SPEAKER_03

James and the Giant Peach.

SPEAKER_08

A little boy who had like a magic end or whatever. He lived with his aunts and they were like mean to him, and then he went out and found this peach, but it was a magical peach. And then they took it like across the ocean. No one's seen this movie. I'm watching.

SPEAKER_03

The title sounds like a porn though. It's good.

SPEAKER_08

Sound like a porn. I think James and the Giant Peach. It does sound like a none of my thing. It does sound like it. Areolas. Okay. The movement. Yes. Does anybody want to try to use it in the tools? Knock the loosen? Knock the loose. Yeah. Knock the loosen out at night, nigga. Yo.

SPEAKER_07

Somebody get his man.

SPEAKER_08

Take it. Yo, I am in tears, okay?

SPEAKER_15

I had to put I had to put that twist in some.

SPEAKER_08

All right, the third one. Word that we're gonna fit into our vocabulary tonight. Are you all into it? Look at his face. He's like, what's the next one? What's the next one? The next word is gonna be Catawampus. Catawampus. Ooh, it's got a cottawampus. It got something to do with butt, right? I don't know. Catawampus.

SPEAKER_00

Adawampus, a month.

SPEAKER_08

Catawampus. It does sound like, ooh, you gotta wamp. No, it's spelled. It's but it's um, it's an adjective.

SPEAKER_05

Oh.

“What Would You Do?” Hypothetical Goes Off The Rails

SPEAKER_08

And it's spelled C-A-T-A-W-A-M-P-U-S. Catawampus. Catawampus. Catawampus. Catawampus. The root word, it's not Latin or it is not Greek. So this word is basically um an American dialect word.

SPEAKER_04

Mm-hmm. Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_08

Yes, they are. Yes, they are. Does anybody want to take a guess at what you think the word may mean?

SPEAKER_15

It means that the cat is wampus.

SPEAKER_08

This means something big. He reminds me of somebody that don't speak Spanish, but they put the accent on everything.

SPEAKER_15

See, that means the wamp the cat is wampus.

SPEAKER_08

Oh my god. So Nice, it sounds like something like this is disastrous or something like that. Kinda, we could kind of go there. So basically, um, exactly. Yep, that's where you go with that. So cata, cata basically is meaning like, you know, diagonal or askew. Um, like when people think of cata corner, caddy corner.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08

And did you know that I never thought it was caddy corner? I said kitty corner all my life.

SPEAKER_03

Hey, yo. What's a caddy corner?

SPEAKER_08

Like put it in the kitty corner. Like the kitty corner. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But it's really caddy corner. Oh wow.

SPEAKER_03

It's caddy corner. What is that?

SPEAKER_08

Like this, the way this perpendicular to the square.

SPEAKER_03

You never heard of that.

SPEAKER_08

Well, remember caddy corner. Caddy cattle. It's in the corner. And basically, um, wampus is a mysterious creature, a fierce creature that basically um derived from American floor. But it basically means like crooked or out of order or like behaving wildly. Behaving wildly. Yeah, you were close. Behaving wildly. Yeah. So you would say, like, the group chat got real catawampus last night. I woke up to 11,143 text messages. I group chat. Do be wild. That's catawampus. Catawampus. Can I use that? Okay. I'm on mute though.

SPEAKER_15

So can I use that for the other people? Can I use that for the female genitals? Catawampus. Like that catawampus.

SPEAKER_08

It was an American um dialect word. So we basically made it up.

SPEAKER_15

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So I'm make I'm remaking it. Yeah. So can I do that?

SPEAKER_08

Yeah, go ahead.

SPEAKER_15

I just told you I remade it.

SPEAKER_08

Well, I didn't hear what you said.

SPEAKER_15

Catawampus.

SPEAKER_08

And what does that mean?

SPEAKER_15

That means the cat is wampus.

SPEAKER_08

The cat o wampus. The cat is fat. The cat is wild. I'm saying the same word. The cat.

SPEAKER_15

That cat wet is cut. You're saying the same word. No, I'm yeah. Cata wampus. The cat, but I'm I'm I'm using it differently because it's trying to make a devil entendre. So I'm changing it. So is the cat wampus? I'm taking out the cat wampus.

SPEAKER_08

Okay.

SPEAKER_03

Cat wampus.

SPEAKER_08

So the cat is fat. That's what it's not. Fat is wild. I just renamed it. Translate.

SPEAKER_15

I renamed it.

SPEAKER_08

I renamed it. That's crazy. So this this word is a wom, is a whopper, okay? This word is a whopper. Oh shit. It's um it came from Burger King. Yeah, pretty much it did. Ultra crepodarian. Ultra crepidarian. Ultra crepedarian. Ultra crepidarian. Ultra crepedarian. And this is a it's a noun.

unknown

Ultra.

SPEAKER_08

Ultra. It's a U-L-T-R-A-C-R-E-P-I-D-A-R-I-A-N. Ultra Crepedarian.

SPEAKER_00

It's basically so.

SPEAKER_08

Ultra crepedarian. Does ultra mean large? Right. Yep. Okay, we'll speak the word one more time.

SPEAKER_15

Ultra crepidarian.

SPEAKER_08

Ultra crepedarian. Ultra crepidarian. You guys in the chat could tune in too if you know the word. Put it in a chat. Put it in a sentence if you think you know what it means. Ultra crepedarian. Ultra crepidarian.

SPEAKER_02

That's a person. Ultrapodarian.

SPEAKER_08

Is that like someone who overdoes something?

unknown

I don't know.

SPEAKER_08

Does it describe a person? That's a good guy. It does. It does. It does describe a person. They only um it's a noun. It's a noun.

SPEAKER_03

They only eat sugar.

SPEAKER_08

Ultra crepedarian. They only eat sugar.

SPEAKER_03

Like vegetarian, ultrajepodarian.

SPEAKER_08

Oh, okay, okay. I see where you're going with that. Not right, but thank you for your input. He's being smart. It's basically derived from the Latin phrase ultra crepedam, meaning beyond the soul. But see, it's S O L E, beyond the soul. I was close.

SPEAKER_14

No.

SPEAKER_08

So it's derived from meaning beyond and crepida, which refers to a type of sandal.

SPEAKER_12

Okay.

SPEAKER_08

Anyone have any guesses before I continue?

SPEAKER_00

It's a big sandal.

SPEAKER_08

It's a big sandal. It's not a big sandal. It's not a Jesus sandal.

SPEAKER_00

A prosthetic leg, thing.

SPEAKER_08

Prosthetic leg, no, not at all. But okay. Okay. So it's derived from meaning. So it says basically it's a type of sandal, which is be it's crepida, is a type of sandal. But the phrase ultra krepedam, which means beyond the soul, comes from the Greek painter Appels, who said it to a cobber, a cobbler who was critiquing his work. So he was suggesting that the cobbler should not judge beyond his expertise. So he's saying, don't speak on what you don't know. Like I'm I'm the professional here. So the true definition is someone who gives opinions or advice on subjects they know nothing about.

SPEAKER_15

Oh, that's good.

SPEAKER_08

Ultra what? Pretty much. Yeah. Pretty much ultra-crepidarian. Ultra creparian. Ultra crepidarian.

SPEAKER_15

I know a lot of ultra crepidarians. Oh, I love that one. That's probably.

SPEAKER_08

Anybody want to put it in a sense? Okay.

SPEAKER_15

Dumbass teacher was an ultra-crepidarian.

SPEAKER_08

Sometimes teachers don't be doing an engineer. Oh, okay. Yeah. He ain't no shit. He ain't no shit. So I would say social media turned everyone into everybody into an ultra crepidarian, talking big shit on topics they haven't even Googled. That's facts. Google's your friends. They haven't even Googled. Okay. Social media always. There's a lot of ultra-crepidarians out there, okay? So many. So, so so many. You're being very ultra-prepidarian. Ultra crepidian. I'm gonna make sure I put this in the chat for us later, y'all.

SPEAKER_15

I like that one.

SPEAKER_08

And I have one more word for us today, okay, you guys. So the last word is seraphic.

SPEAKER_15

Seraphic.

SPEAKER_08

Seraphic. It's spelled S-E-R-A-P-H-I-C. Okay. Big ace over there. Seraphic. Do you know what it means? It's an adjective.

SPEAKER_03

Over exaggerating.

SPEAKER_08

Over exaggerating? That's a good guess. Seraphic.

SPEAKER_04

Is there any root words?

SPEAKER_08

Seraphic, yes. There are root words. So basically it's the root of um it goes back to medieval Latin and it's seraph Seraphicus. Seraphicus. Yeah. And it also comes from the late Latin word seraphim.

SPEAKER_03

It sounded like a dress.

SPEAKER_08

Seraphim.

SPEAKER_03

It sounds like a dress.

SPEAKER_08

Seraphic.

SPEAKER_02

It puts you sleepy. It puts you you a sleepy person?

SPEAKER_08

No, you would think that though.

SPEAKER_02

I think everybody stumped on that one.

SPEAKER_08

Okay. So so basically the word is um for a type of angel known for their extreme purity and closeness to God. So it means beautiful in a way that suggests that someone is morally good and pure.

SPEAKER_03

I keep getting close every time. I like that one.

SPEAKER_08

Seraphic. I just like the way that one sounds. I'd be right there every time. Yeah, yeah. So I would say the sunrise hit his face in a seraphic way. Like the universe was trying to make a point.

SPEAKER_03

Oh. Okay. You so poetic. Okay. What the fuck? Yeah, snaps. Who are you?

Words Of The Week: Leveling Up Vocabulary

SPEAKER_08

Jasmine like the flower. If you don't know, you know now. But that's your vocabulary upgrade for the week, you guys. Now go talk spicy and sound smarter than everyone at brunch. And don't forget, at this show, we don't censor thoughts. We just articulate them beautifully. See you next time.

SPEAKER_03

I'm gonna have you, I'm gonna have you write me a love letter for the good. I'm gonna describe it to you.

SPEAKER_08

I got you.

SPEAKER_03

Say all the good work. Say all that big shit.

SPEAKER_08

She ain't gonna understand shit. She's gonna be able to do that.

SPEAKER_03

Send me a voice recording. Send me a voice recording saying it too so I can know what the word is and how to pronounce it.

SPEAKER_08

I got you. I got my boy, y'all. I write love letters. Hit my inbox. Right.

SPEAKER_03

I'm gonna tell her I gotta fucking I'ma tell her I got a fucking masters, nigga.

SPEAKER_08

Right. That's crazy.

SPEAKER_03

I got a masters, nigga. I love it. What are you talking about?

SPEAKER_08

Hey Am I can you hear me? You can hear me right now.

SPEAKER_03

I can hear you, girl. Talk to me. Oh, talk to me, girl.

SPEAKER_08

What's up, big booty bitches? It's Lex Rated. I think what he bitches. Yo, this week I'm gonna switch it up a little bit. Last week we was talking about seasonal depression, right? Yeah, yeah. Niggas was in their feelings.

SPEAKER_03

Uh-huh. Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_08

Now we're going to get in our back one though. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. We're going to mix psychology with some real talk and we're going to talk about some real shit. Oh, I'm here for it.

SPEAKER_15

I'm here for it. Please let them know what is your background in psychology.

SPEAKER_08

Oh, period. I got two degrees in psychology. Two. She's smart as fuck. Fuck. I have my bachelor's in behavioral psychology, and I have my master's in forensic psychology, and I'm currently working on a PhD in developmental psychology. I got smart things. We're going to be both.

SPEAKER_15

She has the education to talk that talk.

SPEAKER_08

Yeah, I appreciate that. You educated motherfuckers.

SPEAKER_15

Okay, okay.

SPEAKER_08

I'm also a little broke with them student loans, but yeah. We're gonna talk about that. Yeah, we're gonna talk about that another.

SPEAKER_03

Shout out to you. That's a big accomplishment. Shout out to it. Big accomplishment. Salute you, sister. Like, right.

SPEAKER_08

So I want to talk about the science of arousal first. The science of arousal. Yeah, we're gonna talk about the brain. So we're gonna talk about the hippotamus. Hippototamus? I think hippototamus? I think I'm pronouncing that right. If I'm mispronouncing it, I apologize in advance. But it's it's the main part of the brain that runs the show. It's your control center for your hormones, and it kind of releases that dopamine and oxytocin. Like we didn't really talk about oxytocin. We talked about a dopamine, but yeah, we definitely talked about dopamine though. So the next part of the brain lights up your emotions, and then it also focuses on your fear when it comes to arousal. We're gonna talk about the, and I'm gonna butcher this. The amygdala? Amygdala? What? Amygdala. Amygdala. You sounded like that amygdala. I didn't do good in biology. I took chemistry, y'all. I don't know the parts of the brain, but I do know the prefrontal, a prefrontal cortex. That's actually what shuts shit down during arousal. It's the thing that tells you that I'm no longer interested in it.

SPEAKER_15

Maybe like a big coochie stink and then be like, No, I literally will give it.

SPEAKER_08

She has a mindset. Like, if she don't like you, it ain't going down. If any moment is there's something funny going on, she's gonna be like, it's true, it just happens.

SPEAKER_03

But but but if the guy can't can't get right, then it's just it's it ain't it ain't the female fault though.

SPEAKER_08

No, it's the same thing. We never hear that in your brain. It's the same thing. What?

SPEAKER_03

I don't never hear that. You in the group text the next morning.

SPEAKER_08

Hell yeah. So so when people say they don't know what turns them on, they literally just don't know that it's your brain and it's the wiring in your brain. So certain things like, for example, a lot of men recently have been more attracted to feet. Foot fetishes? I saw they like women with pretty feet. They like my sausage show. You don't like pretty feet.

SPEAKER_03

What men have you seen attracted to feet? You don't like pretty feet. Pretty feet is cool. I don't see feet. So when I'm fucking, you bitches wear socks. I wear people wear socks, not bitches. People wear socks.

SPEAKER_15

Niggas be too pressed off feet, but I like I mean you can't have ugly feet, but you can't have ugly feet. But there are men that have feet fetishes.

SPEAKER_03

When have you ever not dealt with a female because her feet was bad?

unknown

I mean, it's men.

SPEAKER_03

I mean, I never dealt with a bad chick. Never you with bad feet. That's never been a deal breaker with you. That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_08

So is that a deal breaker for you? If you see that she has a feeder, you like, oh no, I'm not with that.

SPEAKER_15

Now you got socks, socks and shoes. I don't give a fuck about no bad feet.

unknown

What's bad? What's like the five?

SPEAKER_15

Yeah, cause I seen some chicks with a corn.

SPEAKER_08

Callus, horns, chipping fingernails. I mean, not fingernail polish, toenail polish, crooked toes. I got a crooked toe. But crooked toe.

SPEAKER_15

That is either or this is all combined.

SPEAKER_08

No, I mean it could be a ray of different things. Like, you know how some people have toes that cross over, or some people have nails that turn yellow.

SPEAKER_03

I don't like nails. I ain't seen that yet. That's like that might be a little tricky. We might have to go see about that, maybe.

SPEAKER_15

Dang for me.

SPEAKER_08

It's a it's a it's it's a chemical release. Like when you see it and you're like, ooh, I like that. I like how that looks.

SPEAKER_03

Well, wait, wait, wait. I got a bitch who got hair on her toes. I know a bitch who got hair on her toes. Love her damn.

SPEAKER_08

Unless they're shaving it.

SPEAKER_03

She could goddamn shape her shit up. Oh no, that's that's that's not. I love it though. I love it though. I be trying to twist them up.

SPEAKER_08

Alright, so we we're gonna get into the difference between wanting and liking when it comes to the brain. Wanting is driven by dopamine. It's the motivation and the craving we get for something. Remember, I mentioned last week dopamine is the most addictive drug. It's the reason why a lot of people are out here addicted to porn. Okay. Liking is actual pleasure you feel when you get it, which involves opioids and opiate and serotonin systems. So, translation, what this means is warning makes you chase it, but liking it makes you enjoy it. Does that make sense? Perfect sense. That's why, you know, risky or nasty things, situations where you might get in trouble, like role play and and um you know, I I done had, you know, encounters in front of windows and stuff. Stuff like that can feel extra intense. Like your body is in that flight or flight mode. So your brain is like overreactive during these moments because there is an instance where you could possibly get caught.

SPEAKER_03

We talking about window on the first floor window. Yeah, the floor window.

SPEAKER_08

Driving on the highway. Yeah, such a full window. Don't crash. She said, Well, it was the first floor, the first floor.

SPEAKER_03

That's what shit. You had the window open?

SPEAKER_08

No, the window wasn't open. It was in the party. So I will always say, like, oh, you know, I'm an adrenaline junkie. Like stuff like that definitely gets me. Like, I'm like, yep, give them a show. Like, I don't go fuck. But do you think that that's adrenaline or is it something else? Like how we're talking about oxytocin and serotonin. Because people always just say adrenaline, but that's not a lot of the times, that's not the main thing that's in play. Like, you know, I think it's mainly dopamine. Yeah. I I think it is the fact that you're getting pleasure from being in this situation. It it could be adrenaline because your body, your heart is moving, and most people, like when your your blood pressure is up for men, the thing go up. Yeah, yeah. So all of it is connected to your brain, what you see, what you're feeling, the experience of it all. That's how arousal works. So, why does fear sometimes make arousal stronger? Fear and arousal share the same psychological responses. Faster heart rate, like I said, shallow breath, adrenaline, like my good sis over there said, and dopamine spikes. Your brain sometimes misreads fear as excitement because both involve the amygdala and its activation. So we're right. It is the same thing. It comes from the same part of the brain, and that's why it's a lot of people out here. Excuse me, that don't know that they're exhibitionists. Did you know that if you if you like posting pictures of yourself and seeing yourself and and bikinis and you like to get glorification from other people, you're considered an exhibitionist. And an exhibitionist is someone that likes to be watched, someone that likes to be seen, they like to see themselves, they like to get compliments where they're seen. They get off on how people react to what they look like. And it could be in videos. A lot of men like to record themselves. I had somebody that mentioned that he likes to record himself in my in my uh DMs. If you like to record yourself and you like to go back and watch it, or you like to go back and show your homeboys, like, look at this one thing that I just took down. That's exhibitionism.

SPEAKER_15

Exhibitionalism.

SPEAKER_08

No, you fucked that up. That's what you said. Oh lord. Exhibitionism.

SPEAKER_15

Exhibitionism. Oh, I thought you said exhibitionalism exhibitional.

SPEAKER_08

No, exhibitionism.

SPEAKER_15

Exhibitionalism.

SPEAKER_08

We we're gonna leave the grammar to me and Jazz. Yes, I got it. So next, can kinks develop from emotional comfort instead of trauma? Yes. Yes, absolutely. Many kinks form emotional association, not pain or trauma. A lot of kinks do come from pain. There's people out here that do like to be humiliated. They might like to have a little wax dropped on them, they might like to have electricity hit on them. You get the flogging where it's like you get smacked on the ass or whatever. Wait, that hot wax feels good though. I wouldn't know. What? I don't like handles.

SPEAKER_03

See, yeah, what y'all got going on, sis?

SPEAKER_08

Wait till y'all get these candles, though, sis. Wait till you get these hot waxes.

SPEAKER_15

I ain't got shit going on.

SPEAKER_08

In certain dynamics, texture or scenarios make someone feel safe, desired, or powerful. That's why they always say it's great to get consent. If you let the person know what you're interested in up front and you get their consent and they feel more relaxed, and you don't just pop up with shit, is a better experience for those people. Are you in another cookie? This is your second one? That's crazy. You know I'm gonna talk my shit. Hell yeah. Okay. My next question How can understanding your brain reduce sexual shame?

SPEAKER_15

Can you say that again?

SPEAKER_08

How can understanding your brain reduce sexual shame? Because we were talking about kinks. And there's a lot of kinks out there.

SPEAKER_15

Yes, absolutely.

SPEAKER_08

I'm in a lot of kink-friendly groups and I done found out a lot over the last couple of weeks. Oh shit. People like some shit. Okay. When you realize attraction and arousal are biological patterns, not moral ones, you stop labeling yourself as weird or wrong, and you replace that guilt with curiosity. You learn your wiring instead of hiding from it. So earlier we spoke about trans women. Okay. If you're curious, and these men are curious out here, and they go and they explore, they don't know until they try it. And some men don't like it, and some men do like it. But the brain doesn't have a concept of kinks, it just recognizes what they feel or what it feels as rewarding, and understands that shame is different from embracing it and using it as empowering. For example, we mentioned feet. I like feet. I like pretty feet. I like women, I like women with pretty feet. I've dated a lot of men that like pretty toes and they like pretty feet. And it's something that I didn't realize that I would like, and so I started paying attention to it more. It is nothing more satisfying than seeing a woman walk down the street and her toes look nice and she looks nice. But if she looks nice and her toes look bad, why you stop at the feet?

SPEAKER_15

I gotta pause you for a minute. Why you're gonna take the feet. No, no, no, because I had it rewind it before I get out my head. So you're saying simply in in this whole dialogue that a nigga should try it and if you don't like it, he don't like it if he No. Cause that's what essentially it sounded like to me.

The Science Of Arousal: Brains, Kinks, Consent

SPEAKER_08

Well what I'm saying is is if it's something that interests you, don't feel bad because it interests you. And if you're someone that would like to try it, then try it. But if you're and that and that goes for every kink out there, because if you Google it, there's a whole list of different kinks. You can go down the list. There's people that love the strip club, addicted to the strip club because they want to be. But like what you say, like I'm I'm not like super, I I guess I am super picky, because if I go to the strip club, like I don't know, I have a type. Like, I can't just let anybody dance for me. Like a butterface, I'm like, no, bitch. It has to be like a fantasy. Like, you know, not a fantasy, but you want that. Like, I don't know. Like, don't just you can have a nice body, be beautiful, but if your face isn't there for me, I'm just not appreciative of it. Like, I just be like, uh, nice body. I agree, and just cute. They're like we're visual creatures. Yeah, I am a visual person. We see what we like, and sometimes it it like like I said earlier, triggers something, and sometimes it doesn't. And that's what I'm saying. If it's not something that's triggering you, move on.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08

Because there might be something out there that is, yeah. And you will never know that unless you experience it, and you go in it with an open mind, and you have a partner that believes in fucking consent.

SPEAKER_04

Okay.

SPEAKER_08

So I I do kind of want to round it out a little bit and ask the audience if there's certain things that they are attracted to outside of the basic ass and titties and that's all they're gonna say. Yeah, what what are you attracted to? There's people out here that are attracted to intelligent people, and they cannot, they cannot deal with anybody that doesn't have intelligence when it comes to conversations and just overall general knowledge. They're not attracted to them. There are also people out here that are not attracted to either sex at all. These type of people, like platonic relationships, asexual people, like platonic relationships, they don't have any sexual attraction to people. So attraction isn't just the sexual aspect, it can just be something that makes you excited. For example, I like men with long hair and facial hair. I like men with long hair and facial hair because I personally feel like if you can upkeep your hair and you can upkeep your facial hair, you care about how you look. And if you care about how you look, then you're gonna take care of yourself internally as well. So you're gonna have a great mind, great body, great spirit. You know, sometimes they be out here being flawed and they'll put the locks in their head and don't take care of them bitches, and they be falling out in two or three years. I I like what I like though. Anybody else? I love it. Oh, let me go, let me go, let me go. I love it. I like niggas for beards. But my nigga. My nigga. But I love beards. I do love beards. Uh definitely part of the beard. I got the same way. I just be like, I don't have a type. I've dated I'm gonna say I like big eyes. Whoa. I like me a little. Give me a nice little belly so I can rub on it, baby. Yeah, but you gotta have something down underneath the belly too. Teddy bears. Alright, I'm just a little bit extra. But yeah, I like teddy bears, but at the same time, I do like women too. But with women, it's a lot different. I like more petite women. So I guess it's just I don't know. Are we doing women too? Or big ass. For both of y'all, are there any kinks that you've been introduced to that you don't like? Yes. Um, yes, actually. I'm very transparent. Um, so like two years ago, I met a guy um on Facebook. We started hanging out, texting and stuff like that. Very, very handsome guy. Like, he had it going on, all the girls were all on his page. Like, he was like, no, no, no, no. Anyway, Facebook comedian, but we we stay away from those now. But anyway, um, we was hanging out, whatever, and I'm into cosplay and stuff like that. So I dressed up for him really nice. Like it was a nice experience. Like the first time we ever hung out. We didn't have sex, but we were like, you know, just doing things to each other. Anyway, he starts texting me because he was an exhibitionist, so he'd like to record himself. He's like, Oh, this is the type of things that I'm into, like kind of asking consent, but through text message and FaceTime, and like, oh, uh, what are you eating? He had a food fetish. He's like, Oh, what are you eating? I want to see you eat. And I'm like, huh? I'm thinking he's just like, like, oh, what you eating? Like, what kind of food you cook? But no, he was like, he wanted to watch me eat the food. And I'm just like, okay, the first couple times we on FaceTime, I'm munching this shit. But he's like, No, he's like, Yeah, that shit looks sexy. And I'm just like, huh? So then we're talking more. He tells me like that, he really had a food fetish. He sent me videos of him and other women to the point that it was like stuff that I was just like so uncomfortable with. Again, I like cosplay, so I would dress up. He had girls dressing like cows, and I'm so sorry, you may see this, you may not see this.

unknown

Like cow.

SPEAKER_08

They were in like a bathtub and he was pouring milk all over her, but she was dressed like a cow. He was like fucking her and doing all this stuff, pouring milk on her. And I I understand, I understand him for doing that, but it was something that I was not interested in. There was another video he sent me. Look, everybody interested now. Um, where the girl had like a birthday cake and she was like twerking on the cake, like rubbing her butt all in it, and his face was in it. But that was like kind of sexy to me. Like, I was like, oh shit, okay, birthday. But then it was more things where one girl literally had an egg inside of her and he made her hatch it out like a chicken. That's not I'm gonna be able to do that. Multiple of them. I want to see that that's when I just was like, this is something that I can't do. Like, I'm not into that. Like, I understand if he was like, put some mashed potatoes on your tip. But that's no, you want to put eggs inside of me? Like, no, wait, so and I I probably still have the videos. Push an egg inside of her vagina, two or three of them, and push into muscles and push them back. Like she was pushing on a baby. That's bullshit. I would I would love to. And I was intrigued when it comes to sexuality, but that's something that I I'm not okay with doing. Like I wouldn't get turned on doing that. What did you do? When you first get turned on doing that at all. I wouldn't do that because it wouldn't be anything for me. I know it's a king that uh like to like watch obese women eat up. Oh, and he was peeing in her too, like a full time peeing. He was peeing while they were having sex, but inside of her. Peed in her? Peing in her? I don't know how it was. I thought she got like a lot of disease and peeing in her disease, uh, got stamps.

SPEAKER_15

There was no advisory for real to me. Y'all told me it was no advisory.

SPEAKER_08

She got uncensored. She got tough. Y'all asked, and I'm answering.

SPEAKER_15

So okay, so the nigga was peeing in her, and the the pee obviously came back out.

SPEAKER_08

Like, yeah, I'm sure I get it back up. Yeah, like yeah, yeah. I'm sure she was squirting it back out. Yeah.

SPEAKER_15

Okay.

SPEAKER_08

Yeah, did I see that? That's danced.

SPEAKER_15

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_08

That's that's well, I I had somebody that wanted to pay me to to watch me pee. Oh, that's that's I I couldn't do it. He was he was that's normal. He was too aggressive somebody, but yeah, it is normal. It's definitely normal. I would throw up. Don't forget. It was$50 for a two-minute video.$50.

SPEAKER_15

Why you ain't take that?

SPEAKER_08

Because he was he was too aggressive. Oh. He kept rushing me to pee. And you know, I ain't gonna go to the man. Yeah, I can't.

SPEAKER_15

Let a female say, give me her, give me her lives, I'll pee right now.

SPEAKER_08

Nah, see, it's listen, men, men, men will do anything when it comes to stuff like that for a couple of dollars. And women are a little bit more like, uh, wait a minute. Uh I mean it's just pee. Oh no.

SPEAKER_15

It's just pee. Instagram. It's just piss.

SPEAKER_08

I'm gonna throw up.

SPEAKER_03

It's just piss. It's just piss.

SPEAKER_08

This little drip of warmth. I mean, I don't want that shit hitting you. Thought thing niggas is crucial. But I have a note anybody else. Got any kinks? Or any kinks they don't like and they're introduced to? Any girls in here like anal? No hands up, no hands up. Whoa.

SPEAKER_03

I got I got a I got a kink that I know I like.

SPEAKER_08

That's one I don't like.

SPEAKER_03

I got a kink I know I like.

SPEAKER_08

I understand.

SPEAKER_03

So boom, one time, right? It was this girl. She hit me up. She like, yeah, I'm trying to come through uh late night. I woo woo. I'm like, yeah, slide. You feel me? It's one of my little whoops. I done had it a few times, you feel me? Regular, regular, you feel me? She was like, but my friend wanna watch. Oh, I'm like, hell yeah. She like, for real? I'm like, hell yeah, you feel me? I'm popping it like, yeah, hell yeah. Taking in my mind, it's gonna be a threesome, you feel me? Like, yeah, tell her come through. So Shorty come through. Shorty come through, they both come through, whatever. We chillin' in the living room. I get straight to it on other shorty, you feel me? Boom, boom, kissing on. My shorty, my shorty. You feel me? So then um we we getting it in and then I'm going crazy or whatever, uh Old girl watching, and then I never done this before, you feel me? So I I I I went limp. I w I I went down. I I was going crazy and I went down because I'm like, damn, this is a crowd. Like I ain't never done this in front of nobody with me. Too much pressure. Well, old girl, you feel me? I fucked her husband before, so she was she wasn't even tripping. She she was patient, you feel me? So you know, went down, ate the pussy a little bit, getting back right. Uh-uh. Hey, yeah. You feel me? Back right, you feel me? Got back right. Yeah, I recouped. I recoup. That's what I'm saying. I I recouped after I got comfortable with old girl being in there, you feel me? Okay. Recouped, went crazy. Now I'm goddamn looking at her while I'm hitting her, like, yeah, you feel me? Take a picture of it. Like, okay, woo, woo. Going crazy, woo woo. You feel me? And you know, that she just ended up watching the whole time. I tried to get her to join in. She wasn't really with it.

SPEAKER_08

Did she do anything?

SPEAKER_03

She let me play with her, but she wouldn't take like all her shit off. She just she had leggings on. She let me just finger her a little bit, but she wouldn't, she wasn't trying to go all the way, you feel me?

SPEAKER_08

So she really just wanted to watch.

SPEAKER_03

She really wanted to watch, like literally, like you feel me? Like, and when I turned around, like she was just literally watching like it was a TV.

SPEAKER_08

Like, oh yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_03

So after that, I was like, yeah, I would do this again. This is this is fire.

SPEAKER_08

She didn't even want to get joined.

SPEAKER_03

Fire, you feel me? I'm like, I'm gonna get talked about good in the group show.

SPEAKER_08

Is it on the OnlyFans?

SPEAKER_03

It's not on the OnlyFans. You gotta have the OnlyFans. It was in the moment.

SPEAKER_08

You lacking. I had a situation when I was in college where my roommate, he was a guy, and he was having sex with uh this uh she was a thick ass white girl. Thick ass white girl. They was downstairs, I snuck downstairs and I was watching, but she couldn't take dick, y'all. She couldn't, he was hitting it from the edge, yeah. And I had enough. Enough was a fucking I walked over there and I pushed that bitch ass into his shit. I swear to God. I pushed her into it and was making her throw that shit back, and I was like, and I watched the whole thing. It was good. Let me tell you what you say. It was it was learning, yeah. Sometimes you just gotta help a friend out. You gotta throw a hand in there. Yeah. Anybody else? She said, My boy got you. Go ahead and see your digress. You ain't got nothing to do with this.

SPEAKER_15

Time does not allot us for my story. So the fuck does that even mean?

SPEAKER_08

I'm gonna close it out then on that note.

SPEAKER_03

What the fuck does that even mean? Like, what the fuck?

SPEAKER_08

He's trying to sit the audience. Yeah, he's trying to get himself out of this one, and I feel you. But just to close it out, at the end of the day, our brains crave what feels good and what feels safe. Like Jazz mentioned, if it didn't feel safe, she wasn't into it. Kinks and fetishes aren't flaws, they're personalized roadmaps to pleasure and connection. Learn your wiring, own your curiosity, and keep it consensual.

SPEAKER_14

Keep it consensual, always consensual.

SPEAKER_08

Always consensual, and thank you. Thank you. I like that thing. Hit me up with your fucking king, because I want to hear it.

SPEAKER_15

Shit, that was some crazy talk from the fucking words and all the types of shit, nigga.

SPEAKER_08

You over there itch.

SPEAKER_15

Scratching my naked shit, nigga. Like a fiend.

SPEAKER_03

You got some bars, nigga. I know what the fuck is going on. I got Leo with a motherfucking building. I got I got stole by toad in the building. No advisory with her before. I mean, uh trained that with her. She wasn't trying to do it before. You feel me? So yeah, we about to go crazy, you feel me? What a joy that? What a joy that passing the joy.

SPEAKER_15

You got some on the phone or not? Yeah, I got it on the phone. What you got? Let me get the wire. No, the wire's not plugged in. It's Bluetooth, though. Bluetooth. You got the wire? Bluetooth. It's Bluetooth. Bluetooth is on. You got the Bluetooth? Bluetooth, Bluetooth.

SPEAKER_03

On your Bluetooth.

SPEAKER_15

Bluetooth, yeah, Bluetooth, Bluetooth.

SPEAKER_03

I thought you was actually wire.

SPEAKER_08

He's been lit since the beginning. He had a whole we had a whole teller. He can't even find his settings. Your iCloud is full. Let's talk about it. You need to join somebody clammy plan.

SPEAKER_15

It should be Rollcaster. What's the blue booth?

SPEAKER_08

Is that a mystic in a plastic bottle?

SPEAKER_15

Is it Rollcaster?

SPEAKER_03

Um sort of still do automatic.

SPEAKER_08

I like Calypso. Alright, there you go.

SPEAKER_02

Let's see if I got a little pods and bars. I know what the fuck is going on. Flatbush in a building, Brooklyn in a building. I got Sasha K in a building. I got Stone by Tone in the building, Fleo in the building.

SPEAKER_10

Sasha K in the city. Sasha K in a cage.

SPEAKER_07

You know what the fuck is going on out here.

SPEAKER_10

Turn up.

SPEAKER_07

You gotta turn up. You gotta turn up.

SPEAKER_10

You gotta turn your shit out.

SPEAKER_07

My shit turned up.

SPEAKER_15

Yeah. I just didn't know what was over. Oh my bad.

SPEAKER_03

Alright.

SPEAKER_12

I find out three tonights. Alright.

unknown

Alright.

SPEAKER_12

Alright, up. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

Alright.

SPEAKER_03

Pots and bars, let's get it. Finna get the flippin' like pancakes in a skilling. My verse last week was I ain't really feeling. Gotta show him how hell I am. Running the take, my technique serious. Don't worry about what haters say. I'm a worst critic. Cruel legend fitted. Shall I really stitch it? Whit's it trippin' glitches. Take me penaltillin'. I got it's fast. Vote better since I've been a rock jazz. No cap, I feel smarter now. Love of words, somebody call me a lover foul. My blood got a lot of loud. Lost my job, found a pound. Boss bitches, always welcome. Broke bitches, not allowed. Popular introvert, find myself inside a crowd. Everything alone, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. Every other movement, meaning a less got TVs around the town, tryna expand myself. One day I'm gonna blow and have breakfast all over the world like Ho. Mo. Shit getting real. Words the mother, I punched it like a risk of shit. I've been getting money with my kick up in the crib. Dumb niggas, I ain't in the field, I ain't no idea. I ain't no uncleanly 51 tryna get an ill. Spit dope with a baby face. No bracts in my skin. Black don't crack, I smoke crackin' black with my pen. But a leader in the same sense, G. Brother McLean is giving CEO energy. Retire, crash out. My eyes don't play with me. I gotta find that lawyer on retention and I name it. Gotta know I keep it dark, seeing thick, fine shit. Like fellow a diamond. Pussy piece of conference, hope it's on my con shit. This is pod and bronze bitch. That's it. Suck my dick, nigga. B side nigga, cooking, flat boys. Fuck you talking about.

SPEAKER_06

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_03

What a mic at Fleo, what is something about? We are.

SPEAKER_07

Uh-oh.

SPEAKER_15

It's on. Check, check.

SPEAKER_06

Yo, is that okay?

SPEAKER_00

I don't even know what to say. I hop on the beat every Thursday and kill it with a lead wordplay. Been doing this trip in third way. Uh, not a tennis game, but I serve. I ain't gonna do too much talking. Frust to death, I'm in a coffee. We was outside walking with the walk, man. I ain't talkin', I'm slow off there. Nigga just off me. Getting paper so much and just like the office. Killin' that baby a bullshit. You know I'm scoring, everything torch shit. We should be talking. He said his plaques on the wall, shout out the polo. New York niggas, 20 locals. Uh a solo. I'm meant to say 2009. Every day I run. Vine fold on my chest. You know what niggas trying to really freestyle. I ain't gotta do no bidding. It's like a baby in a stomach, every bar tickin. Let's get it. I'm a monster in the flesh. I'm a bother with a vest. Nigga say it with your chest. Fuck the breath. I'm a monster with the flow. It's like a plane. I got pose. Whoa. That's right.

SPEAKER_12

Gotta fight like rabbit shit. This all my life I'm with it though. Come, let me spin around. Where I go, nigga. I'ma hold it down, probably float a pound, probably get you off the roof. Then I pull it off the hip. Yeah, I get it in, I gotta get the win, man. I'm standing out, it ain't no fitting in. But gotta understand, I'm tryna run it up. I'm tall hundred fans. Man and talk that shit like you a man, cause I am, and every day I'ma do it. Doing it so slow and can't stop it. Tryna make it every day it's a profit. But niggas always watchin' these niggas pocket. I'm shooting because I always got these options. Out them for the system and fun that something light though. I ain't gonna fight, bro. Like I told you, this shit for all my life, yo. Yeah. Hey, hey.

SPEAKER_03

Alright, bad, bad, bad, bad, bad, bad, bad, bad, bad. We got my tongue next, bro. I got my tongue here.

SPEAKER_01

Hold on. Stone my tongue, watch your tongue.

SPEAKER_15

I thought you had an ad on this.

SPEAKER_01

Hold on.

SPEAKER_15

They paid me though. They paid me for it.

SPEAKER_01

Uh. Okay.

SPEAKER_03

Stone my tongue, motherfucker business.

SPEAKER_01

They'll most time, baby.

SPEAKER_07

Uh, part of bars, so my song.

SPEAKER_01

Look. Okay. It ain't nothing to pick up the phone to tell that motherfucker come home. I'm tired of telling you bitches you ain't do shit. I left him alone. I don't believe shit that you say, you bitches be wrong. Talking too loud, better lower your tone. Taking it off and it's time to hear moan. You know that he's fucking with snow. Hold on, I tried to tell you a secret, the streets fucked up, so I know you ain't keep it. Check it. Hey, look at it.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Look it up. Look at that. Look at that. Look at that. Look it up. Up in your window, we smoking no indoor. Rollin' up your kinfo. These bitches copy like Tempho. Tryna stay far from a steak hunting. I've been riding his dick like a Harley. He ain't though. I love him. I toad his ass hardly. Y'all lit over here. I ain't never gonna lie to you. I've been sipping this pack. I'm over here lit. Ain't you gonna lie to you?

SPEAKER_03

One more time. One more time for the one time. One more time for the one time.

SPEAKER_01

Running, baby, for me.

SPEAKER_03

You was cooking.

SPEAKER_01

Hold on.

unknown

Okay.

SPEAKER_01

Look. Okay, it ain't none to pick up the phone and tell that motherfucker come home. I'm tired of telling you bitches you ain't do shit. I left him alone. I don't believe shit that you say, cause you bitches be wrong. Talking too loud, but a lower your tone. Taking that off and it's turning him on. You know that he's fucking with stone. Hold on, I tried to tell you a secret. The streets fucked up, so I know you ain't keeping. Talking about posting my news. I know I look good, so go ahead and leak with freaks for you. Give a nigga back for the weekend. I don't think you wanna go off the deep end. It's chilly, my bitches be creepin'. Up in your window, we smoking on indoor, rolling up you and your kinfo. B bitches copy like Timfo. Tryna stay far from a stakeholder. Didn't you mean his thing? But it smell like the bank, though. I've been riding his dick like a Harley. He ate though. I love when I told it that's Harley. Poppin' these praaks for the pen. These bitches be thinking I'm not trying to party. Blood game bitch like Barty. Big hood bitch, not a Barbie. I'm sorry, not sorry. Sharp like a Sharpie. I'll run this shit up like Shakari. Hello. Yeah. Y'all know I'm lit off this pants. So my toe watch your toe. Call me whatever you want to call me, don't call my phone.

SPEAKER_03

So incredible.

SPEAKER_15

DJ, nigga.

SPEAKER_01

D DJ.

SPEAKER_15

But yeah, that was pod and bars. Give a round of applause for potting bars. Potting fucking bars, nigga. I'm kind of disappointed too, he's in though. He kind of spoiled us on that first time he went.

SPEAKER_03

Maverick too, man. Maverick be bullshitting too, man. Maverick be bullshitting. Like, we gotta get Maverick on there. I be trying to put the old school beast on there again. That ain't gonna work. I don't know what it's gonna take. You know what I mean? Crazy. It's done. I gotta pay this nigga for a feature.

SPEAKER_13

Oh, that worked. Crazy work on it. It's your boy Seal McClain.

SPEAKER_08

And your girl, Jasmine Like the Flower. It's your girl Nola Desk. What's up? It's Lex Rated.

SPEAKER_03

Ariola, nigga.

SPEAKER_08

Period.

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