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Trust Nobody: Why Your Man's Friends Will Never Have Your Back
The energy is electric as Taris reveals her debut novel "Live Fast Die Slow," a gritty urban romance crime thriller set in Charlotte's underground. The crew's genuine celebration of her achievement sets the tone for an episode brimming with authentic connections and unfiltered conversations that only No Advisory can deliver.
We dive headfirst into relationship territory with a scenario that has everyone fired up: what would you do if you discovered your partner at your best friend's house after a breakup? The responses range from calculated confrontation to "I'm pulling up without calling" energy, revealing just how deeply betrayal cuts when it comes from those closest to us. This raw exploration of friendship boundaries and relationship loyalty will have you questioning who you can truly trust.
Current events take center stage as we unpack ASAP Rocky beating his criminal assault charges that could have landed him behind bars for 24 years. The conversation shifts to disturbing news about plane crashes and regulatory rollbacks affecting public safety, alongside a Fashion Nova settlement exposing the company's practice of suppressing negative reviews. Throughout these discussions, we highlight how these issues disproportionately impact the Black community while celebrating Black achievement with our history fact about Ella Fitzgerald breaking barriers as the first African-American Grammy winner.
The episode wraps with relationship questions from our focus group, including whether blocking an ex is necessary for moving on and how to approach a partner about their shortcomings without triggering defensiveness. These conversations reveal profound insights about communication, respect, and vulnerability in relationships.
Don't miss this episode packed with laughs, revelations, and authentic moments that remind us why No Advisory continues to be the voice of unfiltered truth. Subscribe, share, and join the conversation – we want to hear your thoughts on these topics!
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Speaker 1:And this shit for a long time. Stop talking about TikTok. We recording. Hey, fuck y'all for a moment. We're talking to you.
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Speaker 2:Make sure y'all shit a lot.
Speaker 1:When did you become TikTok McClain, nigga?
Speaker 2:Just now, cause TikTok is loving us Right now. So TikTok, mcclain, I'm screaming, I'm TikTok today I'm TikTok McClain today.
Speaker 1:I thought we were supposed to Let us know we introduced New alter egos, nigga.
Speaker 2:No, fuck that, I'm TikTok McClain today. I just let y'all know.
Speaker 1:Lastly, who was you, meta Meta McClain?
Speaker 2:Yep, yep, meta McClain. I don't got him. I'm Meta. Guys, today I only got one alter ego, y'all right now I'm.
Speaker 1:T I already told you what's going on with me, so don't piss me off.
Speaker 2:I mean that's not a bad name because you are a great value, so it's not really a bad name.
Speaker 1:Hey yo, it's not a really bad name. Right, right, right, because it's not like it's bootleg.
Speaker 2:Nah, I didn't say bootleg, I said great value. Wait, wait, wait.
Speaker 1:Before we go any further, I can. She thought she was Travi today. Huh, she on her Travi shit Shout out Travi Tantino.
Speaker 2:Shout out Travi Tantino.
Speaker 1:Before we go any further, I just want to say y'all my friend wrote a motherfucking book. My friend wrote a motherfucking book.
Speaker 2:Okay, who's that which friend?
Speaker 1:This one. Oh, this friend, my friend wrote a motherfucking book. I need y'all signature man for my book.
Speaker 2:Oh See that Listen. Buy this book, TikTok. Support my friend.
Speaker 1:You can buy it on Amazon in the paperback for $7, or you can buy the Kindle e-reader version for $2, or you can buy both and support my friend. Why you do that? Live East, die slow. No, live fast die slow. Wow, oh shit, wow. You so dyslexic, dyslexic, what?
Speaker 4:did he say it was live east that?
Speaker 1:don't even make sense. I thought it was an E right there. Oh my god. So y'all want to know? This is like. I order author proofs, but this is the first time I'm seeing it like without like.
Speaker 2:Oh my god, this is crazy this is your first time seeing it like printed paperback.
Speaker 1:All that that's crazy and look and look at my picture on the back. Listen, listen, that's crazy.
Speaker 3:And look at my picture on the back wait I can't?
Speaker 2:I only see your fucking face. I can't see nothing. Well, let me say this picture is definitely.
Speaker 1:I want to say thank you to no, because this is the picture that I use for everything. Now, damn, I wrote a book. It's a. So the book is about um, three women in charlotte, um, that live um a hidden life and something is going on in their family and they meet three men from charlotte who live a hidden life. So it's really it's like bmf. No, it's like power meets um hitman. Y'all know the video game hitman it's like power meets meets Hitman, meets maybe FBI.
Speaker 1:It's really on some urban romance crime shit. The paperbacks are $7. Y'all may not see the paperbacks on right now because I got to go through and relink it.
Speaker 4:I need my book right now.
Speaker 1:You got to order off Amazon. I don't have copies on hand.
Speaker 4:Order mine for me. I don't know how to use the internet. Okay, have copies on hand. Order mine for me.
Speaker 1:I don't know how to use the internet.
Speaker 4:I'm about to buy it right now and I need my credit because one of the guys in that book is about me. I read the book. I know what's going on.
Speaker 1:You got to ask Amazon. I'm not sure why she got hers first.
Speaker 4:I know what's going on.
Speaker 1:Yeah, for everybody in the room. I'm going to put the link in the group chat. But the paperbacks are $7 for all y'all that's watching us subscribers they're $7. The eKindle for people like me who like to read on their Kindles and stuff is $2. I want y'all to know I got such a great response from the book and shit. I'm already in the middle of part two. So if you do like your urban romances, you like your hood books, you want some hood niggas with some sex in it, go ahead and order this book. I got you it ain't Hold on.
Speaker 3:No, no, no, no.
Speaker 1:I'm not as nasty as Zayn, but you know. You know what I'm saying. Yes, I'm about to make the Amazon purchase.
Speaker 4:Can you tell the? People that a part of my life was depicted in the story.
Speaker 1:Or are we that to be fair, to be fair, to be fair, I'm gonna be honest. None of y'all are depicted in this book, but she started this book so long ago y'all I did. I started this book in like 2021. I just revamped it and revised. But this is for all y'all that grew up in charlotte. This is for you. Charlotte is the base of this. Charlotte is the background. Um, there's a little piece of a lot of people that I fuck with in this book, but most importantly, importantly, um, I put some acknowledgements in the back and I shout out my brother, for real. Shout out to the who cheese. You know, they put this through. Shout out to Brit and Bree, my editors. Um, part two. I can't I really can't wait for no advisory to read part two. Y'all going to be so fucking crazy.
Speaker 4:I'm about to buy it now.
Speaker 1:I might can do that actually so, but I'm gonna sign this for you, friend. I'm gonna sit down and write a heartfelt note because, friend, I ain't gonna lie you a big part of this too, because I got back into my creative bag when you put me back into podcasting. So this is for you, this is for anybody who ever wanted to write a motherfucking book, and this is for people that have, for those people who have imaginative minds for real, and you just be sitting down thinking about different scenarios after you watch your favorite tv show and shit like this is for you, because this is just me. I sat down and I put some shit on paper and then I refined it, I used my english background, I turned it into a book.
Speaker 1:So so thank y'all, thank you, friend, I just want to say I am so immensely proud of my friend y'all like this is not a life thing the money go to you. The money does go to me. I do get royalties celebrated, admired and acknowledged. Thank you, thank you, we just made.
Speaker 2:We just placed an order two more bucks I got y'all.
Speaker 1:I kept it $10, though, alright um, yeah, I'm to put the link in the group chat. Thank y'all for supporting me. Thank you for everybody who's bought a book Before the pre-orders went. Before the orders went live, I had 50 pre-orders and that's off of Instagram itself. So I know that's people that I went to college with people I went to high school with people that I've met did not do this to get on the bestseller list. I really did this y'all because I be needing to release some shit out of my head because I got so much shit up here y'all. It's like a fucking 2B movie which I need that 2B Call me because I think it's going to be a perfect movie. Yeah, it will be a great movie.
Speaker 4:We'll talk after this. He's a 2B shooter.
Speaker 1:I want to the nigga on the corner. I don't got a nigga on the corner in the book, but I know what you know it's crazy you would be a great part. No, he could be uncle Terrence. You got to read part two. I got to let you read part two. What did uncle Terrence do? He like the head of the organization, oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 1:Afterwards. I'll give y'all the synopsis afterwards, but thank y'all for this. Thank y'all, all y'all subscribers. I'm going to send this link to the CEO. He's going to put the link in the YouTube description. So make sure y'all click and buy. Like I said, if you want a good urban romance, if you read anything by Jaquel Ashley, antoinette, omar Tyree, y'all read all y'all hood books. I got y'all. I I'm really thinking about starting a terrorist no advisory, terrorist book club, so we'll talk about that more and everything. Follow me on TikTok, cause I'm finna get into book talk. Y'all is finna be crazy. Thank y'all for that. That was, oh my God, y'all. Just I was super dope.
Speaker 1:That was super dope Cause I didn't know you got your book yet. Cause that's crazy, that was super dope. Oh shit, yes, because, well, I ordered a book, so we got a book, yeah.
Speaker 2:She been had a book.
Speaker 4:She been ordered a book and I think she honestly ordered a book saying you ain't get the book yet.
Speaker 1:She haven't got it from Amazon.
Speaker 2:You got to talk to Amazon, amazon fucking up.
Speaker 1:Hey man Amazon.
Speaker 2:Huh.
Speaker 1:Why you been had a book, because I have it. It's okay, let that man spend his money Well, to be fair. To be fair, we got two books. Swish gave you $10, so that's his book, or you ordered two I ordered two books. Oh well, that's fine, I appreciate it.
Speaker 2:That means everybody in, I'll give a book to somebody. Yes, and make sure y'all bring the books as a giveaway, then that's a great giveaway.
Speaker 3:No no, no.
Speaker 1:Don't y'all do it then, cause I can order author copies discounted, so don't y'all buy it.
Speaker 2:I got a book. Keep that for your bookshelf. I will order more books myself.
Speaker 1:I appreciate y'all. Y'all make me feel so loved when I do shit, and it's not just a good. When I do shit, I go live and it's not just the book, like when I do the hosting shit. Y'all always come out. When I do shit, y'all always support me. So I'm appreciative of this little family of ours for real.
Speaker 2:I love y'all. We gotta support each other. Man fuck that.
Speaker 1:I love y'all for missions and side quests like GTA. I really just be trying to get rich and get us out of this bitch y'all. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2:It's no fact.
Speaker 1:Like literally. Any way I can do it. If I got to write books, I'll write a motherfucking cookbook, which might be next.
Speaker 2:To be honest, you know what I'm saying, you know what I'm going to do.
Speaker 1:I'm going to do that. I just hope we don't get canceled.
Speaker 2:I ain't going to get canceled. It's going to go viral. I'll be in jail, but I got to get me out.
Speaker 1:You need to get one of Swish's blue shoes, then Get one of his blue shoes That'll make it go crazy.
Speaker 2:Blue shoes and butt naked running the street?
Speaker 1:Blue shoes not shoes, oh, not shoes. Okay, okay, choose I did drop that link in the group scratch for everybody. Um, I dropped that link, but yeah, yes, wow, it's crazy. Thank y'all but, listen, while I'm on here and I'm talking, make sure you subscribe to our twitter, our tiktok um. Subscribe to our youtube. Subscribe to um, our instagram. We're on bibo photo bucket. We're on amazon now we're on amazon, you know. We're on Amazon. We're on Fanbase. We're on Blue Sky. We're on OnlyFans. Pornhub Tasty Blacks.
Speaker 2:Oh guess what.
Speaker 1:He's about to piss me off. He's about to piss me off.
Speaker 2:I see the videos y'all send me with the midgets. I love the videos, I love the videos, but I don't like midgets, no more.
Speaker 1:He gasped, he gasped. I love the videos. I love the videos, but I don't like midgets no more. Wow, he gasped. He gasped. Batman. What happened?
Speaker 2:I don't like midgets, no more.
Speaker 1:What happened? You need a da-da-da-da.
Speaker 2:I don't like them no more.
Speaker 1:What happened Huh?
Speaker 4:No.
Speaker 2:A midget. Just it doesn't appeal to me, no more. What so? What you on? Now? I like giantpeoplecom, like tall Amazon Giantpeoplecom, stallions, yeah, so the stallion, oh my God. Oh God, giantpeoplecom is my new shit.
Speaker 1:So, if you like, eight feet and taller, Amazon, and I can see you just holding on to her leg like a little kid. I'm like come here, baby, for you the other day I was in the parking lot.
Speaker 4:I looked in my rearview.
Speaker 2:I seen a tall man in a midget walking.
Speaker 3:I said I gotta record for CEO Did you record it.
Speaker 4:I jumped out. You know your phone the camera won't pull up.
Speaker 2:She turned around, looked at me. I had to play it. Epic, fucking fail. Epic fucking fail.
Speaker 1:Y'all are so stupid bro. Okay, let's get into Hot Topics with Trappi. Alright, I'm official now. I got cards. Oh my God, we really are elevated here we're elevated, here we love you. We love you. Tiktok Celebrity birthdays we got a few, so let's go ahead and get through them.
Speaker 2:Oh boy.
Speaker 1:CEO, you might not know these people, so just nod and wave. Like they tell the P1s on Madagascar nod and wave Just nod Like they tell the P1s on Madagascar. Nod and wave Number one, millie Bobby Brown.
Speaker 3:Oh, happy birthday to that white bitch.
Speaker 1:She played 11 on Stranger Things.
Speaker 2:You seen Stranger? That's one of my favorite Netflix series. The white girl 20. Yes, congratulations, you turned 20, wait when is. Stranger Things coming back out this year, right.
Speaker 1:Or next year, no, this spring, it's the last one, alright.
Speaker 2:Shout out to my son, my son Jade, and my middle son, who put me on Stranger Things.
Speaker 1:The kids love Stranger Things. The kids love Stranger Things. Alright, up next Victoria Justice. She turned 31. What Not victorious?
Speaker 2:She played in Victorious who. I don't know who that is, who's that?
Speaker 1:You got an excuse though? No, he got an excuse. He a hood nigga, you just old nigga. But no, she played in more like girly shows, like iCarly, like Victorious, okay, okay, you know.
Speaker 6:Vict victorious when they was singing.
Speaker 1:They was in the school and they was singing. Everybody could sing. Yeah, no, you talking about Miranda and Sam.
Speaker 3:We ain't talking about them.
Speaker 1:We talking about Victoria. Y'all niggas don't know.
Speaker 3:Let's move on.
Speaker 1:Nicola Jokic, oh Jokic.
Speaker 2:The Joker Denver Nuggets 29?. Hey, 29 years old.
Speaker 1:Jokic is actually how you say his name, but yes, jokic, jokic, like Chokic, 29 years old. Nikola Chokic man. Yeah, chokic, he's 29, bro, I thought he was older than that.
Speaker 2:I thought he was younger than that yeah, he busted his dick, his ass, out here.
Speaker 1:Shout out to him, shout out to him. He always make my parlays green.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:Up next Seal. I thought you were about to say Seal, seal. He turned 61.
Speaker 2:Seal, oh the Seal 61. He still got that shit on his face.
Speaker 1:Yeah, he gone.
Speaker 2:That's a star. That's part of his face.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's part. Good songs though. He did what song, he sang what?
Speaker 6:would you really classify him as A singer or like a pop star? Got him Because online they had him classified as a pop star.
Speaker 1:Seal had some good songs.
Speaker 4:He did he had that no he had that old school.
Speaker 1:It was an old school song and the reason why I know is because a nigga that I used to go with that white lady yeah, you danced with her did you?
Speaker 4:I forgot her name. What's her name? Who was that white lady? He was with White lady.
Speaker 1:Heidi Klum. Heidi Klum, that's her name. Heidi was a bad bitch back in the day. She was a bad bitch, a bad bitch. My song is Cruisin' Wow 84. We're cruisin' together, we're gonna make love. I wanna have love, I love you and we cruisin' together You're all off and shit. My bad, but that's my shit.
Speaker 1:I ain't gonna lie I ain't gonna lie, sometimes you be in the car late at night. You play that shit. It hit different in the car. You night you play that shit. It hit different, it hit different in the car. You be singing your little love song right then the next song be like a rap song, you be like bounce back D-Long you be like, damn, that's fucked up.
Speaker 1:You gotta put the windows down on that shit too. That's what's up. He 84, that's what's young. Have you seen a picture of him? Fine as fuck, I see why he was getting the hoes Boy. I would've gave him some civil rights pussy so quick. You said some civil rights pussy Sure will, pussy full of fight and equal opportunity.
Speaker 2:No DI Fight and opportunity you hear me my nigga about to die over here. He better stop. That's what a guy. You know what a nigga about to die over here.
Speaker 1:His eyes get big and shit, I got it. Non-segregated pussy, he with a guy boy, that's what I got Shout out to Young Smokey, young Smokey. Up next we got Cynthia Bailey from the Real Housewives. She used to be married to Peter.
Speaker 6:Nah, fuck Cynthia and Peter.
Speaker 1:Fuck Cynthia and Peter Sports. 1 be sitting there and I'll see it every day. Be pissed off. Fuck Cynthia and Peter. Who's that? Who's that?
Speaker 2:Peter Thomas. No, no, show me a picture From the Housewives, from the Housewives of Atlanta. I don't watch that show, though.
Speaker 1:Yeah, they changed the name. Oh yeah, they changed the name. Ain't Peter in? Jail Ain't you seeing me?
Speaker 2:I still don't know her.
Speaker 1:You look like Peter Loki, I still don't know her, I don't watch her. He look like Peter, though. He look like Peter for real low key, without all the gray.
Speaker 2:That's nasty work.
Speaker 1:Without all the gray Peter not ugly, though, but you look like him.
Speaker 2:Peter used to get the hoes, though Peter used to get all the hoes. That's why Swish look like Peter. Yeah, swish. You don't look like no, peter, yo Swish. You trying to say that's a great value version of Peter Guns. Peter, not Peter Guns.
Speaker 1:No, peter Guns.
Speaker 6:I said Peter Guns.
Speaker 4:You so damn, I know Peter, it's Marshall. I don't like Peter, yeah.
Speaker 2:Listen. Nah, you don't like Peter Guns.
Speaker 1:Listen, that's so. That's not Peter Guns. I know that. Do you know who Peter Gunz is? You know who Peter Gunz is? Yeah?
Speaker 2:What song he sing.
Speaker 1:I don't know nothing. We wrote him a love of hip hop. Love of hip hop, New York. What song.
Speaker 2:Peter.
Speaker 1:Gunz sing. I'm going to be honest, I never listen to Peter Gunz. Now Corey Gunz, I know Corey Gunz. I know about him. Six foot, seven foot, eight foot one, my mind 6'7", 8'1". I'm not knitting my mind. Nah, fuck Peter, though. Ever since Peter did that video where he was like fuck the people in Charlotte. People in Charlotte don't have no culture, no taste. It was us forever. Fuck Peter.
Speaker 2:Did he lie? No, he definitely didn't lie because the people in Charlotte.
Speaker 1:Let's be fucking clear. Let's be honest. Why you hating people in Charlotte?
Speaker 3:Let's be honest People inotte was the reason why his bar and club was running for money he's still money just about to say he's still all his workers from that?
Speaker 1:yeah, because every time I mean, he didn't lie every time they would get their paychecks. They would go to the bank exactly, or they would give them their paychecks and say wait a week before you can, exactly. So fuck you, peter, because the niggas of charlotte's putting money in your fucking pocket I showed up. Was that club one? I was?
Speaker 2:too. Okay, that's what I should drink. Anybody else birthdays? Oh yeah I used to drink some rocks.
Speaker 6:We got one last birthday steven ferdick. He turned 44 who the fuck is this? That's the pastor of elevation. Relax, huh, that's the pastor of elevation church.
Speaker 1:He's the one that made elevation, the church that it is today.
Speaker 3:I don't care.
Speaker 1:We don't play with God's disciples. Now Relax, is he? Yes, he's one of God's messengers.
Speaker 2:I don't care, I'm going to say this shit. A lot of y'all motherfuckers that go to church are hypocritical as shit. Y'all motherfuckers are the biggest hypocrites in the fucking world.
Speaker 1:When you get in front of the permanent gates, God playing this back on the big screen.
Speaker 2:No, I'm going to tell you look, god knows them motherfuckers too. He knows they're hypocrites and shit.
Speaker 1:They're hypocrites. They're hypocrites, all right, so I got some high time. Yeah, because we're not playing with Jesus like this. I'm not playing with Jesus. Jesus know the people.
Speaker 2:that's bad and no, come tell them the truth. No, I'm telling the truth.
Speaker 1:Okay, well, I will say from my experience at Elevation, pastor Furtick wasn't like this. Now I do know people's aversion to megachurches and pastors like that. I do prefer my own church, which is a home church. It's a big church but it's not like a megachurch. But I did go to Elevation. One thing that I will appreciate about Elevation is they have have because they know their church is like huge and there's multiple locations. They offer a lot of small groups that cater to everything. It caters from anxiety, grief, depression, um loss, um different groups that, like you know, single parents. It caters to everything. So that's one thing I do like about elevation versus the other mega churches. Like he knows, like my church is so big I'm not gonna be able to preach to all of y'all, so let me get some people and see y'all can do smaller groups at different locations and stuff and feel connected. So that one one thing I do like.
Speaker 1:The only other thing I don't like about elevation this gospel pop music I'm not a fan of. I cannot get. I need some fred hammond, I need some um shears, I need some kurt franklin. The gospel pop pisses me off. So bad, so bad, bad. I cannot Because it's like Jesus, jesus, jesus. I want to hear some that's good. I like that. No, I don't like that. I want to do, do.
Speaker 2:So would you rather gospel pop or gospel rap? Hold on, would you rather gospel pop or gospel rap.
Speaker 1:I would rather listen to gospel rap than gospel pop, don't be mad Because gospel rap than gospel pop, don't be mad because, gospel rap be lit. It's a fire gospel rap. I just don't like gospel pop, like if I want to hear somebody. Okay, because listen right there, I'm going to just bag it up when you said it, okay. Book of Revelations, chapter 7, verses 16 and 17. Preach, preacher, they shall hunger no more, neither shall they thirst anymore, you know what I'm saying when I hear that I get.
Speaker 2:Wait, you sound like a fucking preacher right there.
Speaker 1:Don't I know. Thank you Talk to me. Preacher's preacher Talk to me. So yeah, but shout out to Pastor Furtick. He is one of the ones that you know and when that Black Lives Matter happened, he did a whole sermon on that. He basically said Black Lives, lives matter. White people sit in the back. That's what he told us in the program, so shout out to him shout out to him shout out to him all right uh, celebrity hot topics go ahead, see it number one asap rocky that nigga beat the car this.
Speaker 1:Nigga beat his criminal assault criminal assault. I don't care about nothing, but the way he leaped across that damn counter, it was Rihanna's scream. For me, she's so ghetto, she's so ghetto. Oh my God, that nigga A$AP Rocky Lee. And then that shit the white lord thought he was hugging her. He dropped her ass off. I can't believe that nigga beat the charge because one, all he did was just off. I can't believe that nigga beat the charge because one, all he did was just. I'm sorry, I just cannot believe that nigga beat the charge. Shout out to ASAP.
Speaker 1:Asap Rocky was facing 24 years in prison if he had been convicted on both his charges and his criminal assault trial. He had two felony counts of assault with a semi-automatic firearm, a switch and, if you remember, this whole case stemmed from a 2021 episode where his former associate, a$ap Ridley, a$ap Telly. They got into it and he went and told the police. Basically, a$ap shot him Allegedly, allegedly left his knuckles bruised. Now, a$ap Rocky originally pled not guilty and they offered him a plea. He rejected the plea. His lawyers argued that the weapon was actually not a weapon but a prop gun or a non-firing gun. So what he actually got shot with was flash bullets which, again, are non-lethal.
Speaker 2:That's not criminal and, yeah, I want to say this, and I want to say this for all the black males out here who are charged with these crimes. And I say this If you feel that you didn't do the crime and you don't want to do the time, take it to trial.
Speaker 1:ASAP Rocky said have a strong lawyer though if you're going to take it to trial, yeah, have a strong lawyer. Don't be no dummy until you're at trial.
Speaker 2:You got to have you like a YSL, Brian Steele for real, because you look at what they was offering ASAP Rocky 24 years, no, no, no. What 24 years? No, no, no.
Speaker 1:What they was offering him in the plea deal was like 10 years, right, oh yeah 12, it was over, like his career is over.
Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying. Even if he took 12 yeah, 12 years, your career over over so my man said you know what, I'm taking this to trial, took it to trial and got acquitted.
Speaker 1:Niggas tried to convince him to take the plea deal. They tried to convince he knew he didn't do nothing wrong, though right and I'm not gonna lie I think the reason why I'm surprised is because this is new york, like yeah, being a gun charge new york, la, oh this is la. Oh, I'm just saying, being a gun charge anywhere lately is like non-existent for real. So this is just yeah, this is just crazy in this instance the judicial system worked and he got away with a prop gun saying it was a problem.
Speaker 1:It was basically a 3D printed gun. Now, this is what my thing is. I will say this, I will say this, and I'm being realistic Niggas lie right. So even if it was a real gun, the whole fact of the matter behind it is and when I read through what happened that incident and what led up to that, I'm not mad at that nigga for doing that shit to that nigga, because you walling.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:You pulling up on me, asking me to do shit and when I tell you no, now you said I'm a fake and sell out nigga. You in my face and you you don't pull it up on where my people, my family at yeah, you got this. Y'all got to learn how to stop pulling up on people and then, when you get pulled up on you, get your ass beat. Stop going around and telling and telling snitching ass niggas. Now listen, I'm all for snitching when it comes to like kids and murders and stuff, I'm all for that. But you just getting your ass beat and you're gonna go tell the cop somebody be mad.
Speaker 1:No, get your ass beat and sit down shit, like your granddaddy used to all right, sit down, clown yeah I remember a couple weeks ago I told y'all about this nurse in Virginia that had got arrested because she was accused of harming infants in the she was breaking arms yeah. I remember her. So Virginia just has granted her bond oh fuck $25,000 what that's it $25,000. And I'm saying that's it, like I got $25,000 laying around, $25,000?. And I'm saying that's it Like I got $25,000 laying around, but $25,000?.
Speaker 2:That's nasty work.
Speaker 1:That's very nasty work. So if you don't remember Erin Strohman, she is a NICU nurse out in Virginia. She was accused of abusing multiple infants in her care A judge. She had a hearing Monday and a judge determined that she did not pose a flight risk, nor was she a threat to herself. So she gave her A $25,000 bond with conditions. The conditions are she must stay at her parents house Own 24-7 house arrest, she is prohibited from Contacting children or vulnerable adults and she can never, ever work again in healthcare.
Speaker 6:Her next hearing is not set for May.
Speaker 1:She was like figure she. Her next hearing is set for May, so in May you know she's going to be sitting in the house and just festering. She either going to be a housewife, not a housewife. She either going to be um gonna be a housewife, not a housewife. She either gonna be um go on a flight risk, or that bitch might kill herself.
Speaker 2:I'm not the judge say she don't believe it, but shit now, would this have been different if it was a black female?
Speaker 1:yeah, they wouldn't have gave her a bar no fucking because they would have said. They would have said oh, she's a threat to other people. Yeah, that's they always see us as a threat especially when kids is involved the most disrespected person in the world is a black woman.
Speaker 1:Black woman, all right. The next one. This is for all my Fashion Nova shoppers. Hold on, that's me. I got something in my cart right now. Fashion Nova has been ordered to pay a $4.2 million settlement and refund 148,000 customers by the Federal Trade Commission for drum roll, suppressing bad online reviews and having deceptive practices. So let me tell you what the Federal Trade Commission said. The Federal Trade Commission alleges that Fashion Nova blocked all negative reviews of its product from being posted on their website and said that they had a system that suppressed any review that was lower than 4 out of 5 stars.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, they be lying in reviews. I mean, you gotta they be lying. Let me tell you I ordered some shit y'all. I ordered like a little catsuit. I ordered a little catsuit and they be lying to girls in the comments like oh yeah, this fits snug. I got that catsuit. Boy, I look like a little like a little rotisserie chicken wrapped up. I said honey. I said honey, fashion Nova. That's why I moved over to Sheen. But shit, now Sheen terrible too now. I mean, if you look at it, where?
Speaker 2:we gonna go to Rainbow again. I like Rainbow. I mean all these. A lot of these online companies. Suppresses the reviews.
Speaker 1:I would think so. They just don't get caught.
Speaker 2:They just don't get caught.
Speaker 1:It's just that.
Speaker 2:Fashion Nova Is such high end In the public eye that you know they got caught.
Speaker 1:I will say I haven't ordered anything From Fashion Nova In such a long time and that's because I was so stuck on Sheen. But now I'm back to Fashion Nova, because Sheen shipping Don't take how quick it used to be, remember Sheen. Now you that shit a month in advance. Fashion Nova still gonna be winning off that two-day shipping every time.
Speaker 2:But listen, we all know that all this shit comes from China anyway.
Speaker 1:It all comes from the same fashion. I like the Chinese.
Speaker 2:Yeah, they all come from the same fucking Chinese. They do all. You know what I'm saying. Shout out to China, man, we love you. I'm not Asian.
Speaker 1:Alright. So again, Fashion Nova has agreed to this settlement order that also prohibits the company from any no longer suppressing customer reviews of his product. So now, if they get a negative review, they have to post it on their website. I'm going to go do one just for the hell of it. The settlement includes $2.4 million be sent out to customers. So now the FTC will be sending out checks and pay. Listen to this. Checks and PayPal payments to,148,351 Fashion Nova customers who filed a valid claim back in 2021.
Speaker 6:All right, give me that number.
Speaker 1:So you said 2.4 million, right? So each customer will get $16 cash back, $16. Yeah, I got to be pissed. Well, shit, y'all can put that shit. Put that on the Fashion Nova gift card. Y'all can buy me some earrings and some little socks. They're going to put that shit right back in the Fashion Nova, right? I could use that as a discount code for all that shit.
Speaker 2:Yo just imagine that shit right, that might honestly just give y'all a credit. Hold on Just imagine that shit if they pay out the amount that they supposed to pay out and and just say you know what? I'm just going to buy a fashion outfit and then get that money right back.
Speaker 1:That's the plan. That's the plan for real and to be fair I will say random. Before y'all move on, y'all get those emails talking about all those settlement shits. I tell people all the time file them claims.
Speaker 2:File them, claims I filed a claim.
Speaker 1:I filed a claim for one shit. I showed me the shit. Verizon gave her $500.
Speaker 5:There you go.
Speaker 1:Apply for it. Listen, it don't matter how much money you get.
Speaker 2:Wait, is that that? T-shirt?
Speaker 1:The Verizon stuff oh.
Speaker 2:I thought you said Verizon. No, the Verizon. Oh, oh, okay Because.
Speaker 1:Verizon had a settlement too in court, like these phone companies been spam shit and she applied, she unfiled and got 500. So listen y'all. I don't know. Emails sound stupid and you gotta fill out this information. Fill it out fill it out, because you never know that money gonna come in handy. Fill it out, listen, okay, all right, I'm tired y'all whoo you sound? Tired a delta flight from minneapolis, st paul, minneapolis to toronto, canada, ended in a crash while landing at the toronto International Airport on Monday. This is flight number what 86.
Speaker 1:No, this is the 86th crash in the last year Since January 1st. We had 86 plane crashes, 86 in January 1st, 86 since January 1st, and it's only February.
Speaker 6:Yes, this is.
Speaker 1:February. And we had 87 today because there was another plane that crashed in Arizona and two people died.
Speaker 6:Oh yeah, two people died today Yo.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 6:So Delta.
Speaker 1:Flight 4819 caught fire after flipping upside down on the snowy landing ground. There's video footage that shows the twin jet aircraft's rear landing gear given out. Now let me know. Y'all know I'm on the flight attendant, so I had to ask her about this. She said she has never in her life seen something like this ever, and she's been flying 42 years. But she says also weird, how this is the same model airplane as the one that blew up in dc.
Speaker 2:That was a 145. It's like cr ford for the crj 900 yeah, okay, crj 900.
Speaker 1:Um, I will say a lot of this shit is. I hate the people. I know people coming up with all these conspiracy theories which I'd be so pissed off at Facebook. Y'all using these people's death as these weird ass conspiracy theories. But the fact of the matter is Trump wrote back all these regulations and all these things where you know the planes that we get on have to follow regulations for the machine parts they use, for the type of maintenance and aromatics and stuff. The reason why that first big crash happened and all those people died on that American Airlines flight is because he rolled back some regulations where now there's not enough qualified air traffic controllers.
Speaker 1:Yes, and you gotta remember there was already a 10-year. Yeah, I.
Speaker 1:Literally was on, indeed, like last year, seeing all those job posts and they were telling you they were going to teach you how to do it, but you really got to go to school for that shit, right? So Trump is rolling back all these regulations and shit and that's why all this shit is happening. I'm just being so honest. We're not regulated anymore. The same shit with your food. Your food is not regulated anymore. That's why we're getting all these recalls on meats, vegetables and shit. Nothing is regulated anymore because he's cheap as fuck and he's stupid and I feel bad for these families. Like I just saw the girl, the black girl from Charlotte, that died in a crash. They had her funeral the other day, y'all that shit was such like chest like constricting to see. My chest was tightening to see that because that should not have happened. Like it's sick for real man that, because that should not have happened.
Speaker 1:Like it's sick for real man.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so y'all voted for him. Oh, y'all motherfuckers that voted for trump.
Speaker 1:This is what you get I just want I just every time this shit happened, I just bring back this whole conversation we had with blizzy in this fucking room when y'all was talking about kamala was so fucking unqualified. Now look at this shit when you know it is niggas on internet and adding her like can you come back? Nah, nigga, she can't come back. We told y'all niggas, somebody that you told for months was not y'all said she's not black.
Speaker 1:Y'all said she's not qualified for free is next matter of fact switch. You said that she's not black, she's not. You said it bring the clip up. He did yeah.
Speaker 2:Now look, y'all want to I mean but again, and to add to that, you know I said at that time, you know the world, I felt, in my opinion the world wasn't ready for a female black president.
Speaker 2:And now what? And now we stuck with Trump. But again, I was always standing there. I was like yo. When Trump ran the first time, people said I was stupid and crazy. I was like he gonna win, he not gonna win, he won. I was like he ran again. I was like he gonna win cause he. This is an agenda, it's a push, this was all ordained, this is all set in stone.
Speaker 1:It's gonna take us so long to undo all this shit that he's doing. That's the matter of fact.
Speaker 2:I just think he does an executive order every three minutes. He's signing that black book yeah.
Speaker 1:Every three minutes. I bet y'all wish my bitch was off in there. Shout out to Kamala Kamala, kamala.
Speaker 4:Harris is Saudi Arabian and she moved back to Dubai. She ain't said nothing else about black people.
Speaker 1:She lives in California she don't care about black people so so, so you think y'all think this man care about black people okay you don't care about white people either.
Speaker 4:Yeah, let's move on back to my delta flight cause. I never got to finish this thing, my bad so.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna tell Ronald about it right wing was torn off of the plane and caught fire. After the plane crash landed, it skidded on its back, it skidded on its belly briefly and then flipped over. I know niggas that skidded too. There were 79 passengers and 4 crew members on board. Everyone was evacuated and 18 people were injured. No fatality. Thank you, jesus. There were 3 people in critical condition.
Speaker 1:One child, one woman in her 40s and a man in his 30s. But, as of today, the child has been discharged from the hospital and the woman in her 40s is going to be discharged tomorrow. Yay, so the airport was shut down. The airport was shut down until 4.30 pm local time and flights are redirected to another local airport, but right now, as it stands, there are at least two runways still at the Toronto Pearson International Airport that will remain closed for the foreseeable future, and it was snowing too, wasn't it? I think I saw a video of a nigga recording it from his point of view.
Speaker 2:Yeah, when it came up the plane, yeah.
Speaker 1:I was like God damn. So the Transportation Safety Board of Canada and the National Transportation Safety Board in the United States are still investigating exactly what caused the crash.
Speaker 2:I'll tell you what guys? They're going to say mechanical parts. I don't think it's mechanical.
Speaker 1:If you look at the video, there's a video of a guy recording it. He looks like he's standing in the airport and he's seeing them landing. The landing gear buckles. I think that's seeing them landing the the landing gear buckles.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and I think that's what initially caused the whole like effect, domino effect we've been. We've been watching like shows and stuff and these shows they be depicting real shit and I was literally just watching an ncis episode and the pilot died because of faulty mechanical parts. Because the ceo of the um company, the aerospace company, the airspace company admitted to getting cheaper parts from third world countries and that's why we're not regulated no more. So we got all these faulty mechanical parts. Shit is not holding up. It's like you buy a beater off the, a beater off the um street, and a nigga done fix it with all these cheap ass parts that's not supposed to be in that car and stuff. It's just like that for real. So I know niggas say they're not getting on flights and I hope y'all not, because let me tell y'all I'm getting me on the plane.
Speaker 1:These flight tickets are cheap lately boy $32 to go to Miami right now, Shit.
Speaker 2:Hey, listen man. If it's your time, it's your time.
Speaker 1:That's all.
Speaker 2:I can say Damn nigga. If it's your time, it's your time, I don't know about that one.
Speaker 1:You know, it ain't my time.
Speaker 2:It could be flight 565.
Speaker 1:Hey, hey, hey that could be your time. Somebody gonna get you because with that's the next flight that happened, they gonna clip this. Hey yo, you know what I was about to say. It would be so crazy if, like August or September, that that disappear in Malaysia just magically reappears Like 828, what's that damn manifest, damn manifest, manifest flight 828. What was that? Malaysia flight 58, something 56? That flight been missing for how many years? Now 10 years, and then she gonna come back like that's not, that's not conspiracy, that's.
Speaker 1:God Nah but we gotta look at that, you doomsday fish um um, no, no, no, it's a dude, it's a, it's a rare black fish.
Speaker 2:No, it's not black, it's long it's no so we're talking about the same shit.
Speaker 1:Looking up, it's literally called it's a do, it's an orc fish orc it's not the same thing. The fish we're talking about is black and it looks like a, look like a lot of niggas. They'd be walking down baby small shit. Damn.
Speaker 2:I just forget what I was going to say Go ahead, because that's not.
Speaker 1:We're not talking about the same fish thing, All right, anyway, there's a rare fish that's called orc fish, aka the doomsday fish that only ever appears on land when a bad catastrophe is about to happen. The last time here was 2011, when um sri lanka had that bad tsunami and it just magically there. It go right there, it just magically appeared it's not the same fish I'm talking about, though that's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1:He was on the same different fish all right, well, y'all stay safe and stay off them flights, so I can get on, no, but it's crazy that you mentioned that, because there was another fish that I was referring to.
Speaker 2:It was like a black fish. It it got like big fucking teeth and it was a rare sight. It's only found in the deep depths of the sea and this is the first time that this fish actually was in like regular waters and shit, just casually swimming. So that's why I say it's a different fish.
Speaker 1:I never saw this fish before, but the other fish I was going to talk about was black, but it's crazy. Shout out to UC with the topics today.
Speaker 1:Oh and my black history fact for today. Woo Shout out to the niggas and only the niggas Shout out to Miss Ella Fitzgerald, because she was that girl in 1958. She won a Grammy and she made history as becoming the first African-American to win a Grammy. And, even more interesting fact, she actually didn't win one Grammy, but she actually won two Grammys. She won one album, for Ella Fitzgerald sings like live jazz, and then she won another one for like like a pop, a pop Grammy, for Ella Fitzgerald sings Island Berlin, something, something. But yeah, I know she won two Grammys in 1958.
Speaker 6:Okay, she was that girl Ella Fitz.
Speaker 2:What's her name? Ella Fitzgerald, ella Fitzgerald.
Speaker 1:You don't know who that is, do you? I don't know who that is, I love her, whoever she is, she's black.
Speaker 2:So if she's black, I love her, I love you. What is your woes, my black beautiful queen? I got a black history fact.
Speaker 1:I told my kids the other day.
Speaker 2:What.
Speaker 1:In 1982, a black man Lonnie George or Gerald he created the Super Soaker.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, the Super Soaker. Yeah oh, they stole his patent. Though he just got paid, they did steal his patent but he didn't get it back.
Speaker 1:But I told that to my kids the other day because they didn't know that they was like wow, they also didn't know that a black man invented a video game cartridge.
Speaker 2:Let's be real. If you look at modern history, not modern history back in the day history, vintage history, we call it Black people invented everything.
Speaker 1:Thank you, we invented every fucking thing A lot of fucking traffic lights. Have y'all seen that girl on Instagram and she does a series of different things trying to do without black inventions, trying to go through a day without black inventions, trying to work out without black inventions.
Speaker 6:She was like I can't do shit.
Speaker 2:I can't turn on the lights because black people invent everything. Can somebody Google what a white person invented Mustard Don? The answer is what did a white person invent that helped the society? To help the society.
Speaker 1:Okay. We'll say you know, white people invented that, helped the society. We'll say Lemon bars Okay, because let me tell you about a motherfucking blueberry lemon bar.
Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying? Lemon bars, a lemon bar blessing what? Is that.
Speaker 1:A bar of lemons, a bar. What it's like a pastry. It's like a pastry. Yeah, it's a lemon bar pastry.
Speaker 2:An edible, a pastry, something to eat?
Speaker 1:Yeah, so you can eat it.
Speaker 2:I don't give a fuck about that. That's not going to help society. You asked a question, we answered it.
Speaker 1:You did, but we said damn near the same. Thing.
Speaker 2:But no, that doesn't help. That gets motherfuckers diabetes and shit. Is this sweet? Is this sweet?
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's good I can make y'all some who invented a table.
Speaker 2:Who invented a table? A white man, a white man? Somebody Google that. Who invented a table? I know we got to go, but just while we do research A table yes, while I do my what would you do see who invented a table? Because this shit is useful as fuck.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's useful as fuck. Yeah, okay, what would?
Speaker 2:you, what would you? Actually? The ancient egyptians invented some of the earliest tables. It was black, black, black, black motherfuckers. That just proved my point. Okay, so what would you do?
Speaker 2:So, my, what would you do's for y'all guys that don't know or do know, mama, what you do's are accounts that I, um, personally went through, or are somebody else that I know went through, or is this an account that I just saw and I was like yo, that shit was dope. I don't know what you're doing. So this account is something that I saw online and I was like yo, but it happened from a real person that put it online. So I was like that's dope, what you doing. So this is specifically for my ladies, because usually I say I can switch it, but this one is specifically for my ladies. Well, one is specifically for my ladies well, you can reverse it, but my ladies. So what you do ladies? So what you do?
Speaker 2:Let's say you've been with this nigga for, let's say, four or five years, say five years, been a nigga for five years, and, um, you have a best friend. Um, say you've been, you know, you knew this girl for like 12 years, put a number on there, this girl for 12 years and you've been. You know, you knew this girl for like 12 years. Put a number on there knew this girl for 12 years and you made for five years. You and your friend y'all been, you know, your best friends are on the phone every day. Y'all tell each other's darkest, dirtiest secrets. Y'all just bfs to the end. Nothing goes unturned with you guys okay, bestie okay, bestie.
Speaker 2:So you got this nigga one of the best, one of the you know. So you got this nigga one of the best. One of the ladies got a nigga and she kicks the nigga out. You know what? They're going through some trouble. They've been together five years. Nigga, get the fuck out. You're fucking up. Get out.
Speaker 6:Right.
Speaker 2:Mind you, nigga got a great job, two great paying jobs, say. He's making $65, 70 000 a year. You know great jobs. She kicks him out and all right, he goes. She knows that he's capable enough to get an apartment or whatever, so she's not worried about the nigga right. So a couple days go by, she's like you know what, his ipad is there and his location is there. So you're like you know what. Let me check nigga. You know see where the fuck he at.
Speaker 6:So he's going to check it.
Speaker 2:That's what I would do.
Speaker 1:You know, check his iPad, I'm like oh, I don't care how broken up we are, that's this location looks familiar Like.
Speaker 2:Oh okay, and it's your best friend's location, he gasped man. What would you do at that point if you saw?
Speaker 6:Have you talked to your best friend and she told you or you just don't know nothing, you don't know nothing at that point.
Speaker 2:What would you do at that point? When you see that your significant other is at your best friend's location, what would you do?
Speaker 1:Logical me.
Speaker 1:Logical me would make a phone call to my best friend and see how the conversation is and before I even like say I know that nigga's over there, because I'm gonna look crazy, because I looked at your location, I would have a conversation and if that's my best friend, she immediately gonna tell me, like look, girl, just let you know, your nigga pulled up over here.
Speaker 1:I don't know what's going on to the. If that's what the case was going on, illogical me, the real me, the terrorist of labor, I'm pulling up to your motherfucking house without calling because, bitch, you got me fucked up, because as soon as that nigga pulled up to your ring and he was on that ring, you should have called me on the phone and open that door while I was on that damn phone. You didn't. So now I gotta pull up without any warrants. I'm pulling up without no notification because now I'm gonna beat you and him up. I'm gonna beat both of y'all asses, never talking to that man again. And I'm probably gonna talk to you, but every time I think about it we just gonna end up fighting.
Speaker 3:So that's what that's like me, like me and my best friend, like we.
Speaker 1:We've, honestly, we've been friends 21 years, 22 years, this year. Yeah, we never had a single argument, like not a single one. So our conversation, we would be different. Like I would literally just call her and be like, why the fuck is this nigga location at your house? And either she's going to tell me or the shit is going to be weird and I'm going to know. If it's weird, then I'm pulling up. I will be there in 18 minutes, right? Yeah, it's hard trying to figure this out, cause I, my friend, my best friends, people that I'm best friends with, I I'm like you, we have been best friends for like 20 plus years. So it was I would with them, I would give them the courtesy of having a logical conversation first. That's the smart thing to do in any situation. Y'all have a logical conversation first. But I just know the shots with t and me, the shots with t and me. I'm pulling up at your fucking house, okay, at your fucking house, for real.
Speaker 2:So yeah, let's hear it from the studio audience what would you do?
Speaker 1:uh, uh, I didn't like that laugh. That laugh was nasty. It was nasty.
Speaker 6:Well, my friends know I crash out so not a crash out, real bad ended up in jail, oh god so the first thing I'm gonna do is I'm gonna ask my two friends that live in Atlanta, hannah and Aisha, your two friends should I
Speaker 6:pull up to this girl's house to see what's going on, and if they say, hell yeah, I'm pulling the fuck up, so yeah. I'm gonna pull the fuck up. We don't know how to beat that nigga ass. Beat the bitch ass, beat everybody ass. We'll probably beat that nigga ass first, even the kids probably the kids too, I ain't gonna lie, you would crash out.
Speaker 1:I ain't gonna lie. Yeah, I might have to. I might have to whoop a kid ass too. That's over there. Get your ass out of the way and go straight. You know cause you knew, yeah, cause you knew too. You ain't call your, you, your auntie, so you know I'm screaming uh-huh, so yeah okay, so what would you do?
Speaker 2:studio? Guess right, what would you do without lana?
Speaker 6:hey dang. The question is what would I do if I see my boyfriend?
Speaker 2:you just kicked your nigga out. And yeah, you go on his ipad and you see that your nigga that you just kicked out is at your bff's house. What would you do at that point when you see that your nigga that you just kicked out is at your BFF's house? What would you do at that point when you see that Damn?
Speaker 6:Damn my blood boiling right now.
Speaker 1:My boy, See your blood just immediately blown, because it's like I want to know why y'all doing something for me. Okay, y'all trying to figure out how to get this nigga back in my house. You know what I'm saying. Like what y'all trying to figure out something with me?
Speaker 6:that's my question. If if that's not the answer, then we have a problem yeah because.
Speaker 1:Why are you there? Yeah, because my friend would have called me as soon as he would have called me like hey, not even when he there, before he get there, hey he just called me and he said he on his way, I would have already been there.
Speaker 2:What'd you do Okay.
Speaker 6:I don't know.
Speaker 2:Lena, do you care to answer? I know you just walked in. Okay, the question was what would you do If you've been? You have a best friend, female, of 12 years and you've been with your man For 5 years you kicked your man out. You happened to go To his iPad Because it's been a few days after he kicked him out and, mind you, he's well off, he has a, he has two great jobs, he could take care of himself. You check his ipad and you see that he is at your best friend's house, the ucap. What would you do?
Speaker 6:I would kill him oh shit there'll be no reason why you should be over there, like there's no reason. What's?
Speaker 3:the reason.
Speaker 6:What's the reason? What's the reason, steven? They'll be like oh yeah, we friends, no, y'all not friends. So there's no logical reason where did we get that from?
Speaker 1:I'm a killer. What was our reason why?
Speaker 2:was you over there, louis, so it seems like all of y'all, in contrast, will beat the nigga up or, as lena say, would kill him yeah, like I said, that's the illogical person to me.
Speaker 1:The logical in me would have had that conversation first before I pull up and the reason why I say that because I literally saw a.
Speaker 1:The reason why I say that is because on facebook, um woody mclean, the dude that played bobby brown, he used to do like parody videos and one of the videos he did was where the girl thought he was cheating on him with the best frank and she saw them like you little laughs, giggles, talking, stuff come to find out him and the girl was planning the whole proposal together. So that's the reason why I say you got to have a logical conversation before going off and that's what. Anything you think before you. I tell my students that you think before you act. But the unreformed before 30 me would have pulled up to that bitch's house with that baseball bat. I would have pulled a Terrence Jeter on her ass batting 4,000. Batting 4,000 is nuts. I'm beating that hoe ass. So what was the outcome?
Speaker 2:Okay, so the outcome was as you put it a conversation was had.
Speaker 5:See she's smart.
Speaker 2:It was like yo, you know, can you explain this? So the best friend's explanation was well, I knew you guys were going to get back together, so I housed them because I knew y'all was going to get back together. Now, granted, mind them because I knew y'all was going to get back together.
Speaker 2:Now, granted, mind you, Nah, that's an ass whooping. Now, mind you, the man and the woman in her POV. They never talked, they never interacted, she stayed away from him. So it was seemingly like you know, I'm out of it. You know that's your man, I respect your space, shit like that. So I'm not going to talk to to him. So she's like yo, you don't even talk to the nigga, so why did he figure he wants he he's to go over to your house? Y'all didn't even have no conversations. And again the young lady said well, I knew that y'all was gonna get back together and y'all was gonna, uh, do what you do. So I housed him. So the, the, the, the stickler was. He was over there for about a few months.
Speaker 6:Oh shit.
Speaker 2:And they talked every single day Like and she was like, he was over there for how long? And we talked every single day. So when he came over there, you don't call me no more, you don't text me, nothing Like. It just completely went A whole 180.
Speaker 1:But they in a relationship, so Honey Honey.
Speaker 2:The outcome was she thinks that the nigga is fucking her best went a whole 180?. They in a relationship, honey. The outcome was she thinks that the nigga is fucking her best friend. They was kind of hiding it.
Speaker 1:If he's over there for a few months. First of all, let me be very clear. Let me be very clear. And we're going to go back to my definition a few weeks ago of homosexual. We're going to go back to homosexual. We're going to go back to homosexual. Okay, we're gonna go back to that switch. Is gonna insert that clip here.
Speaker 1:Homosexual, okay, um, we're gonna go back to that because, first of all, me and that nigga not even close enough me and my best friend's nigga not ever gonna be close enough for him to stay for a few months. After a few months, that bitch is fucking him. She's fucking or sucking. Something's going on. Okay, something's going on. He not paying no rent. Yeah, you a homosexual. He too comfortable. You going in the house, like I said you tripping over Playstations. His size 13 is by the door.
Speaker 2:Well, in this case, he has two good paying jobs. He's well off, he has bread.
Speaker 1:So why he stay that so long? Why he stay? Because he's fucking her. You're proving our point he's fucking her.
Speaker 2:It's mine. What would you do?
Speaker 1:He's fucking her. He's fucking her. Don't shoot the message. He's fucking her. He is dicking her down, down, down and she's sick as she a sick ass bitch because she call her best friend every day. Okay, that's nasty work.
Speaker 2:So, if you, let's put a twist on it so if you knew, if you knew that your man, mind you, it's not even your ex. You just had an argument. You just kicked him out like I need some space, get the fuck out y'all didn't even break up. They didn't even break up you just kicked the nigga out and y'all found out. Y'all know for a thousand and two percent that he is fucking your BFF. What would you do?
Speaker 2:I'm kicking him over the ass so you gonna crash, y'all gonna go to jail y'all could be like me and do a tell all episode.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna tell her mama. If it was my best friend, I'm gonna tell her mama because if it was my best friend and I'm going to tell her mama, you're going to tell her mama. If it was my best friend, I'm going to tell her mama Because if it was my best friend and I'm thinking of all my closest, my circle, all my circle, which is the Hoochies, plus my other best friend, alex. Shout out to Alex. If it was them, I would tell their mamas because their mamas would kill them. I would tell their mamas. I'm snitching, yeah, I, I would tell they mamas. I'm snitching. I'm telling mamas cause I'm look at your daughter, look at your daughter, she being a little whore. Look at your daughter being a whore, a whore, a little whore a little whore yeah, so yeah so that's about what would you do.
Speaker 2:so what would you do that's crazy if you was a female and your your nigga went to your BFF house and stayed over there?
Speaker 1:That's pissing me off. At this point, thinking about my friends, I'm going to have to get in a group chat later and let them know boundaries at this point. Alright, man Shout out to that shit just pissed me off for real and it's okay, because now I'm going to be thinking about this shit. Later I'm going to have to hit all my friends up in a mass group text. If this scenario ever happened, do not let this nigga in.
Speaker 1:Do not let this nigga in Pass go All the time Call me in, but y'all already know this. It's another segment of X-Terror. So listen, this week is a little different, right? Because me, I got together with a focus group.
Speaker 2:Okay, shout out to the focus group.
Speaker 1:Shout out to the focus. It's really my employees. So I got together with a focus group and I be telling them they be watching the podcast y'all and I be so ashamed, but they be watching it, they love it. They like to repeat that what I be saying when I come to work the next day and shit, and they watch the episodes. But they put together.
Speaker 1:They gave me some questions to ask y'all, for y'all to answer, because they like to hear. What I was told was she be smart for real because she be thinking about that shit. But that nigga see, oh, he funny, because he don't be thinking, he just be doing this one. The next day he got it right, yeah, and I was like I said they're like yeah, and they're like boss, you cool and all, but you know you just be trying to, you be trying to be in the neutral. We need you to go outside and what would you really be thinking? You'd be acting crazy at work. That's what they told me. So this is questions that they came up with for me to ask y'all.
Speaker 1:And it's relationship, questions about dating and some of these questions. They told me to give a disclaimer. This may or may not have happened to them.
Speaker 6:It took a shit, it definitely happened to them.
Speaker 1:It took a shit. So shout out to them, shout out to their employees. So one of the questions is um, and this one is a deep question Would you rather your partner cheat physically or emotionally? Physically? Physically, physically, why? Because emotionally is a deeper level. Um, physically, is that can, that's something that can go away. Emotionally, that's an attachment that's going to be there. That's time, that's a bond, that's commitment that has, over time, developed into something. If it's physical, that's just two people having sex. That's true.
Speaker 6:I think I agree with that and I'm going to break it down deeper than that.
Speaker 2:So I say so I say physically right, because let's keep it in the realm of just sex, right. So if you emotionally involved in a sexist whack, you may say you know what the sex is? Whack I, I, I like this nigga. I'm gonna keep going, you know, because I like this nigga.
Speaker 2:I never like nobody right I'm just saying you know, I mean, if you into a nigga you may find a way. Nigga may give some great head or he may compensate, he may cook great or something. But you're just emotionally attached to it. So you can get over that Physically. That nigga whack. You're like this nigga suck, it's over. I'm not going back to the nigga, I don't want to see this nigga, no more. So the sex if the nigga fuck you, emotionally you stay, physically you leave.
Speaker 1:So that's why I say physically, um, I don't know, I think I'm, I'm at equal points, or both, I think, physically and emotionally. But cheating is fucked up all around. But I do agree with the emotional part of it, because you have really had to spend time with this bitch for you. Now you, now you in love with this bitch and I'm going to show you love for real. Now you ain't going to. If y'all can't have you, nobody can have you. I'm going to give you the guy. So yeah, so shout out to that one Okay, um, this one is um. If your partner started an OnlyFans but never told you, is that, oh well, this happened to me. So funny thing about, let me finish it, hold on. If your partner started OnlyFans but never told you, is that breakup material? And the reason why this question was asked is because one of the episodes that we watched together was the one oh, we're talking about Gerald.
Speaker 1:The Gerald expose episode.
Speaker 2:I got a twist to that. But go ahead, yeah, but go ahead.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but go ahead. Answer the question Is that breakup material? Okay, I'm going to say yes and no. Okay.
Speaker 4:And hear me out.
Speaker 1:I say no because if your OnlyFans is just you solo, that's fine, okay, but if it's like you and multiple partners, it's a no. For me it's a problem, yeah, yeah. And don't hide it Like let it be known, don't let me stumble upon it.
Speaker 1:I think I'm opposite for real. If you got OnlyFans, you never told me I'm breaking up with you. Let me tell you why. And it's not because of you having the OnlyFans for real, it's because my whole thing is I hate a motherfucking liar. You sneaky, so that would make after that if I did give you a chance. Now I'm thinking everything you're saying. It's always going to be that shit in the back of my head, like is he lying about this shit? So I couldn't even do it. Just because I'm such a, I feel like I have a PTSD thing about lying for real. Like, don't lie. Like tell me you got OnlyFans and give me that choice to break up with you if I want to do that. You know what I'm saying so okay.
Speaker 2:So one of the nigga got her only fans right okay I'm not.
Speaker 2:I'll tell you what the only fans is about after I say this. So you know, yeah, he, he's buying you every fucking thing. You go to the mall. You're like baby, I want that. He gives it to you. Uh, you, you like baby, I want a house. He gets you the house. Like baby, I need a new car. He gets you the car. He gets you all this shit. He's getting you. Whatever the fuck you want, he's there for you. He cooks, he cleans, he irons. Hold on, he irons. Right, I don't need to iron. He cooks, cleans irons. He's the model man, everything you want. I just might shut the fuck up. He just Like you, like Yo, this nigga's the perfect nigga. And then you go and you finally got the only fans and he's sucking toes and finger popping bitches. That's how he gets paid. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:That's how he gets paid. Is that the only thing he doing? He not penetrating, he not penetrating.
Speaker 2:Nah, he not penetrating, just sucking toes and finger popping bitches. But that's how he gets his money.
Speaker 1:When he finger pops. She was a good I don't know.
Speaker 2:I don't know. Maybe finger pop, whatever the fuck you do, he's finger popping, no penetration, no penetration. He's finger popping bitches and sucking toes and you see his only fans. But you know, this nigga gives you anything. You fucking want his.
Speaker 1:Your whole life is funded by only fans I mean, I guess the question would be do you want to cry? Do you want to cry in beverly hills or on betas ford, for real? I guess that's the question. Do you want to cry? What the question is do you want to cry on betas ford, in beverly hills? Because if you want to cry on beverly hills, then you good, because you got all that. But if you want to be back in the streets on betas ford with these niggas out here, I guess you know you're not gonna accept that. Honestly, for me, though, I don't know that's a good question. I can't say yes or no to that, because finger popping and sucking toes it's that don't sound bad.
Speaker 3:But it's just like I just feel like more goes on behind right, because what you're?
Speaker 1:not filming is that you go back to that lion shit finger popping and toe sucking on your page. But what's on this bitch page? Who you finger popping and you talk and why do you suck? Your toes and bring your toe jam home cause hello like and you tongue kissing this nigga, I don't even piss me off, piss me off, yeah, cause you just piss me off.
Speaker 1:I didn't answer the question so you gonna let him go? What you gonna do then? You answer the question yeah, giggle giggle key key. Answer the question yeah, giggle, giggle, key key. Answer the question she ain't got.
Speaker 2:oh, she got her money, I got her.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna leave you still. Thank you, because, first of all, I don't do lying shit, right?
Speaker 6:And I feel like you doing some. I think too much, yeah, so I feel like other shit and then we kissing yeah, so, yeah, so you're gonna give up that whole?
Speaker 1:lifestyle, because I'll come do that shit myself. I mean to be fair and to be technical. Everything you gave me was a gift, so I can fight for you in court against, if I wanted to. To be fair, so, all right, we're going into our petty and toxic category okay is blocking your ex childish, or is it necessary for you to move on? Necessary because niggas like to double back. Ain't no doubling back over here, fuck you.
Speaker 2:I'm in a situation now.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I think, and I could talk you cool.
Speaker 1:I be forgetting about that every time. Until you say it. I be forgetting about that shit. I'm screaming. He'll never be included in those statements. Forget about that shit. I'm screaming. He'll never be included in those statements. He's always excluded. I'm screaming.
Speaker 2:For me because I'm in this situation now. I just think it depends on how the situation went leading up to it.
Speaker 1:I never asked you. Are you in your ex-school? I don't know about that statement. Are you in your ex-school? Hold on, I never asked. Y'all don. I never asked you. Are you in your ex-school? Are you in your ex-school? Hold on, I never asked. No, no, no, we don't. Y'all don't speak right?
Speaker 2:Nah, we don't speak. You know, and I and I and I had her.
Speaker 1:I mean, I have some exes on my social media, yeah, but we don't talk. So I mean, but Like a lot of my exes.
Speaker 2:I'm still cool with.
Speaker 1:Go off on a bad note. Yeah, I don't want to see you, right?
Speaker 2:Because I feel like yo, if you was in a relationship with this person and y'all was cool and y'all ended it on like you know what, be cool. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1:Why would you block from the plot before I would agree with y'all before well, not before before I would not have agreed with y'all, but my last ex y'all know I talked about this man me and him jamaican nigga. Yes, we remember we broke up on not bad terms. We just mutually agreed that we wasn't the right time right it was wrong.
Speaker 1:It was a right person, wrong time, and he actually was a man that took the initiative and broke up because he just knew he was grieving and he couldn't give me all of what I wanted, and so he was. I think he's my only ex that I have not blocked only because it's just, you know, we, we're gonna meet your terms. Now I say that, and then I blocked him two months ago only because I realized, though, although we are cool, we're not angry at each other. We're not cool. We still was talking everything.
Speaker 1:It was necessary for me to move on, because I was always like holding that string, and I wasn't able to fully like date people or give, like you know, start to open myself up to other people, because it was like I was like low-key, holding a candle or, you know, trying to think like you know what. I don't want to get too deep into somebody because maybe he'll get us up together. You know what I'm saying. So I thought I think it is necessary for and I know we said situational, but sometimes, even if y'all are cool, it might be necessary for that situation, so you'll be able to heal and move on, but it doesn't mean buck forever. Maybe in a few months or next year I can talk to him again without, like you know, minimizing myself and minimizing my dating, if that makes sense. So I do think it's a situation now that nigga that I used to date, that nigga that I used to date Neil with the Neil with the shacks and the bootcuts jeans.
Speaker 3:I used to date him. I used to date a nigga.
Speaker 1:I used to date a nigga. Y'all listen, this was 2014, 2015.
Speaker 6:I was in love with him.
Speaker 1:I was in Listen. So this man, he shot at me. This was not a nigga, listen, this was not a nigga that I was, that I would ever Like think about Giving my time to, and he shot and shot at me. You know, it be them niggas that you don't even Think about pursuing. They pursue you until they wear you down. He wore me down. Nigga used to wear bootcut jeans and shacks and I don't know. This was 2014, 2015, tears. So back then I was young, dumb and full of cum, okay, and that's nasty and y'all y'all this, this name, y'all this man used to treat me.
Speaker 1:He used to treat me so well, used. He used to drop money to go get my hair done for months and shit Everything, and shout out to Ed and Justo because this is when me and Ed was living together and you know they used to call this nigga Dale because I said his name was Neil, so he's called Big Dale. He would come down y'all I don't know he would come down and visit me from Raleigh. I know the nigga that down. He would come down and visit me from raleigh. I know the nigga. That's why, yeah, you know, just so, he would come down from raleigh and visit me and shit. And he met my whole family. It was a boxing match. We had a boxing party. He met my cousins, my, my brother, everybody met my whole family. We was locked in. I'm gonna show y'all these snapchat videos. We locked in y'all.
Speaker 1:This girl reached out to me on twitter, on dm. She reached out to me like, can I talk to you? And I was like, yeah, sure, she's. Like, can I, can I call you on the phone? I was like, okay, yeah, she called me.
Speaker 1:This was this man's ex-girlfriend. And she said, yeah, she was like I know you've been talking to him and stuff, but we've been together. I saw y'all messages. I'm masters in chicago. She said I'm dealing with a brain tumor right now. Brain tumor, shit. I was like, oh my, oh, my damn. She said they've been fucking each other. They said it was a concert, some concert in charlotte. He told me that he was out of town but he was with her here in charlotte at this concert in my city, neither one of them from charlotte in my city. And I was like, yeah. I said well, I didn't know about you. You know he had been sending me money. She said, yeah, I know he been sending you money. That's the money that I been sending him to pay his rent and his car note. So so she had been sending him money and stuff, the money that he was supposed to be paying his rent and car note with. He had been giving it to me.
Speaker 4:I said well, that nigga not homeless, and so I. She was so upset.
Speaker 1:I felt so bad for her with the brain tumor, I sent her money to go get her hair done and her nails done Because I felt bad for her and we called her on the phone. First of all, shout out to Ed and Jesso, because them niggas so unserious in the background and shit. She called him on the phone Talking to him and he was just lying and stuff and I got up off that mute and to this day, to this day, this nigga still be beating down my line every time and be like can we talk? I'm in Charlotte, I just want to talk and I know the pussy was great. I know it was great, right, I know the pussy's phenomenal.
Speaker 2:Wait, and what year was this for you? 2014.
Speaker 1:And you're still on your line. Yeah, because I can't Now, I can't even. Yeah, I done told the world now, so I can't even go back, double back. He do a podcast too, now too, everything he gonna talk about it.
Speaker 2:You know he gonna talk about it. I can't wait.
Speaker 3:I can't wait.
Speaker 1:Because now we're going to beef with his podcast, because I, I don't even know. I got to find his Instagram.
Speaker 2:Oh, fuck your podcast, nigga. Where is that?
Speaker 1:But yeah, so that nigga. He's blocked and everybody know on Instagram. This is a running story on my Instagram about this nigga. Every time I like change my hair or some hype shit, he comes from a different text now number and texts me Like for real every time. She's not lying, I'm lying Every time he does post it. It's a story on my instagram. My close friends they know like I post this nigga. He's wild. So shout out to neo from durham. I know you can't forgive me.
Speaker 2:That's hilarious yeah, but that was that was it?
Speaker 1:oh, I have one more question. Let me get this out. All right, this is a stupid one, but it was the reason why I wrote this one down for real, because I feel like this happens often and I want to know what people think. If you caught your um best friend's partner cheating your, so say, your best friend is cheating your best friend, your nigga is cheating, would you tell their partner or not?
Speaker 2:Nah, it's none of my business.
Speaker 1:Yeah, would you tell his partner? Yeah, you see him out cheating. Would you tell his partner or not? Nah, this is a two-part question.
Speaker 2:That's a bro code.
Speaker 1:I'm going to probably say something to him Like well, I'm a girl, but I'm going to probably say something to her.
Speaker 2:That's a bro code and the reason why I've been in this situation. Before I was married, my man was married and we was out Shit nigga doing the do. I'm not going to tell this.
Speaker 3:Who was your man?
Speaker 2:I'm not going to put that name on blast. No, but we was doing the do.
Speaker 1:And ladies, this is why you don't trust they best friends okay. Now two-part question is would you end your friendship over that? No, no, no. And I ask this because y'all know some people will argue that they not cool people who cheat, because I ain't going to lie, if you cheating, I'm not going to fuck with that for real, because I don't condone it. Well, bye, gina, the fuck. I don't condone it, because why you condoning your nigga, your friend, cheating, though that's none of my business, I don't say that that is bad karma.
Speaker 2:That's none of my business, I'm not going to tell her partner.
Speaker 1:But I'm sitting my homegirl right now like ho, is you cool, like get your shit together.
Speaker 2:Let me tell you a quick story. Right, me and my mans. Me and my mans. We went out. He married. I wasn't married at the time, but he was married. He was telling me. You said your mans, bobby, no, no, I'm not saying no, no, he was married at the time and he was like yo this ring is a magnet. I never knew the ring was a magnet until I got married.
Speaker 1:Maybe you say that when they get married they get more, they try to get more pussy.
Speaker 2:It's a fucking magnet. So we were out doing this. Before I got married we was out, you know, he married. I'm like, yeah, nigga just think of we pop it, we crib that night after we did our thing, and his wife cooking us meals and all that shit.
Speaker 1:Niggas ain't shit. We eating good and shit his wife. Niggas ain't shit Like baby, how you doing.
Speaker 2:He's like how you doing baby. You know me going. Good, I'm sitting there like yo. This shit is crazy. Niggas, ain't shit for real. We just had an escapade and we get a whole cooked meal from his wife. That's crazy.
Speaker 1:Niggas ain't shit, but you know it's. And don't ever trust his friends, ladies. His friends are not your brothers, his mama is not your mama, his sister is not your sister. Do not trust her. Nope At all, because I will lie for my friends.
Speaker 2:I mean, I'm going to go back to what we talked about Old men cheat.
Speaker 1:Old men and honestly.
Speaker 3:Honestly, I would. That's a different type of woman. That's a different type of woman.
Speaker 1:That's a different type of woman. That's a woman you cannot trust with nothing. You can't trust that woman and if I ever see my and if I ever, ever, ever, ever, ever see my Homegirls niggas cheating, I'm beating you and that bitch cause you ain't gonna ever play with my friend like that.
Speaker 2:I mean, listen to me, it's none of my business because you know I don't want to be the person to intervene and break it up. Because what if that situation happens? And you know they reconcile and they be able to grow and grow for that and I'll be the person to break that up. So that's not none of my business, whatever y'all do.
Speaker 1:That's y'all. I still don't think you should hold your friends to a standard, and I know if my friend is cheating, I'm not. I'm, I'm not gonna end the friendship, but I'm definitely sitting her down and checking the fuck out of her because at some point you got to have some morals. That is karma. That's what I mean to say. That's karma for real.
Speaker 2:Now it depends. Now, for instance, say, if I'm cool with the lady, I'm going to say something I'm like yo bro, don't do her like that.
Speaker 1:No, you got to say that regardless.
Speaker 2:You got to be a standard moral. It's a difference.
Speaker 1:if you know the other person, it's probably worse if you know them, but it's still a moral. A nigga that will cheat on his wife is nine times out of ten, a nigga that will lie to you. He will lie to you. A nigga that will cheat a person that will cheat on their spouse nine times out of ten is going to lie to you. I would never trust a bitch, that cheat on her nigga.
Speaker 2:Of course the nigga going to lie, but it depends on what you lie about. Like, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6:If you're like yo he just don't give a fuck.
Speaker 2:Nah, I don't like the nigga if I be like yo, somebody going out to this party, hey, fuck it, we out.
Speaker 1:That's not a difference. There's levels to lies. There's levels to lies for real. That's a white lie, for real.
Speaker 2:I mean technically. What is a nigga going to lie to me about that? I would give a fuck about. Maybe, he cheated on his wife.
Speaker 3:He's fucking your wife he's fucking your bitch.
Speaker 1:He lied about money he owe you.
Speaker 3:Or if he can cheat on his wife.
Speaker 1:He lying and fucking your bitch, then would you be ending the friendship. After that, you can have her. It's plenty of fish in the sea, ladies, ladies, you hear?
Speaker 2:it here.
Speaker 1:Do not trust these niggas for real please don't trust us niggas no. I had a question I meant to send this is for the audience to answer. Okay, go ahead, let's not decide. Go ahead.
Speaker 2:Don't trust no niggas.
Speaker 1:Ask Terrence and Sid. I had a conversation with my hood therapist, aka my wee man, Yo wee man. We had a very interesting conversation and it left me with a very interesting question all right, go ahead to the audience men. More specifically, how would a woman approach a man to where he is receptive to learning about the areas that she feels like he's lacking in, without him feeling attacked? Oh, that's a good one, that's a good one. So I need them to answer that I feel like there's no way. Because? But because?
Speaker 1:it's like it's not even like like you're lacking, it's just like you know she's saying like you know, my, maybe my love language is touch and I, I, I want you to be more affectionate. How do you take that as her trying to, you know, get closer and improve the relationship, versus like an attack against who you are as a person?
Speaker 5:Tone and pitch is majority of everything when it comes to a man.
Speaker 1:Tone and pitch is it's not what you say, it's how you say it.
Speaker 5:Yeah, like I don't know what it is about a male, but it's just like we pick up on all of that shit Like I don't know what it is like y'all got the ovaries and the sixth sense and all of that crazy shit I do have intuition is crazy, but when it comes to a male, it's just like the pickup of energy is 10 times stronger when it, when it comes to like a person that we really really close, so especially our female is just like damn.
Speaker 5:I'm already feeling all of that when you coming at me with some crazy ass goddamn tone and pitch. Or it's some solid ass, aggressive ass shit. It ain't even got to be loud or crazy. Whatever your tone and pitch is I'm going to pick that shit up.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because I feel like I don't know, it's hard trying to tell a man like stuff that you like, that you want them to do differently. Without trying to come off as criticizing, but I just, without attacking, because I'm never trying to attack you, because I love you, but I just want to tell you like, alright, you be touching me here and I won't be feeling nothing, but I be going, you know, just going with it, because you know you, without niggas, be like well, I just want to touch you without you, or it'd be the most famous.
Speaker 1:You need to have social media. Social media ain't like this. You know it'd be like bro come on Like you know like so how do you talk to these niggas like that?
Speaker 5:I'm going to tell y'all something too. So this is just some real shit when I was putting her up on. But I will put her up on it through comedy, like real shit, like Netflix is and all of that type of shit. I will put her up on whatever the fuck it was that I was trying to literally put her up on in our relationship. I put it up on her through television because I know that's something that we connected with. Like we didn't have too many similarities when it came to outside shit.
Speaker 1:That's a reverse Psychology type shit when it came to like Some inside shit, inside like. I don't know, don't do that shit to me, cause I'll be pissed. I'll be pissed, so I don't. I don't do that shit to me Now. I really gotta Watch this. It's just conversation gang.
Speaker 3:We just gonna, let's, go on here and have this talk. Cause for me, we grown, like you said, though but would you be open to the conversation?
Speaker 1:are you gonna open your ears?
Speaker 3:and hear this some shit that I I'm gonna have to say too, you know what, and that's why, that's why I don't want to tell niggas that shit was nasty. I told you, don't put that shit in there now because you did, no, because now see, that's what we talking about cause. Now you attacked, now you attacked.
Speaker 1:Now you attacked and I'm just trying to tell you how are we flipping on me. How are we flipping on me now what you say, fuck me for. Like I said, it's just conversation now, because my thing is this I'm going to be receptive because I want to know, I want to know, because I'm a nigga, that I hate that tipper tat shit cause you was never going to mention what I was doing wrong if I had mentioned what you did wrong, but then the thing is it wouldn't have been the time.
Speaker 3:I'm about timing, so my thing is, at this moment where the the door open fuck it. Let me go and step through this little hole and this is why this is what Tell me baby, that shit crazy. We can work through this because I want to get to know you.
Speaker 1:That shit crazy.
Speaker 3:But you know what? I'm going to accept it, though, because I love you.
Speaker 1:See, it's his question. I want you to answer it because you have good insight sometimes. So finish this off and answer this.
Speaker 2:So, for me, no stories though, no stories, no stories, no stories. So for me, communication, as you were stating, is key. The tone and how you, because at the end of the day, we are men, right, so we were created.
Speaker 3:We are men.
Speaker 2:Yeah, we men, we were created to be provider, to be the provider, to be, you know right everything. So I like providers I don't care what them bitches say provide right so, as the woman, when you are coming at us in that particular way, it's the tone and how you approach us in that particular way and how we receive it, because if you come out and you try to poke your chest out and bitch the fuck what he's calling, me a bitch in a relationship.
Speaker 5:That's why we'd rather call you than text you Huh.
Speaker 2:You can't text and say it like that no, no, yeah, you gotta call so I can hear the tone. Yeah, right.
Speaker 1:Right right right.
Speaker 2:This is y'all.
Speaker 1:Mine was a little long time, but I get it. This is good. I like the focus I get it.
Speaker 2:But yeah, I mean, you know you just got to. It's how you, you know the tone, but it's great because you got to be able to communicate. So yeah, A conversation of conflict.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it is a respect behind it.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and that Respectfully, I'm not coming at you because we communicate.
Speaker 1:You don't have a mic Sleeve, so what Sleeve says is correct, though what I will say is you have to build on conversations, so this can't be the only conversation that y'all are having. Y'all should be having conversations about everything and it would come across easier. So I definitely agree. That goes back to communication is definitely key. Shout out to the Focus Group for the questions this week. I'm going to hit them up next week for more questions. They are funny. I will see y'all bright and early tomorrow. We have work tomorrow. We got to go. Yes, because I am a boss and author.
Speaker 2:I'm a lot of stuff, make sure you motherfuckers like, subscribe to the motherfucking channel. No Advisory Podcast, you know? Listen, we are working on live events. We're a live podcast.
Speaker 6:Yes.
Speaker 2:In certain venues. So stay on the lookout for that. So thank you guys for you know, coming in the studio, but we're going to work on something where we could come and have some drinks and shit and you know, and vibe out to the advisory podcast and work on that.
Speaker 1:you know, um, yeah, so now no, it's your boy simon clay, it's your girl trap, see, oh, wait, wait, I'm sorry before every time we get to me.
Speaker 2:I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I gotta say this. I gotta say this Shout out to my man, Arca, the Fuck it. You know we was talking for a minute and trying to get this done and we finally going to get it done, my guy. So for all y'all. Yeah, I'm going to leave it at that. We're going to see y'all. Arca, the Fuck it you interrupted me for that bullshit. I'm sorry. Yeah, they gonna see y'all. You interrupted me for that bullshit. I'm sorry. I had to make that announcement.
Speaker 1:You couldn't even tell the people why you interrupted me and you just interrupted me for that shit.
Speaker 2:Yes, I did sure did, I did sure did, I did sure did. Because, you know, shout out my nigga, who has an incredible platform, and guess who's gonna be on there?
Speaker 1:You, he going on there. You'll see, you'll find out he gonna be like DJ Khaled, we the best. And on that note you should grow trapped. Goodbye, goodbye, goodbye.
